1. Some things are not worthy of forgiveness and have nothing to do with being generous or not; each has its own bottom line, if you do something wrong, you should consider paying the price for your mistakes. Not everyone is sorry, it doesn’t matter if you can get one.
2. Life can do whatever you want, but it cannot go with the flow. —— Miyazaki
3. Don’t spend money randomly, because tomorrow you may lose your job, don’t be arrogant, because tomorrow you may lose your power, don’t brag about love, because tomorrow you may lose your love, don’t be wronged, because tomorrow you may die.
4. There is no one-time and all-out start, and there is no unbearable end. In life, what you need to grasp is: what should start, start without hesitation; what should end, end cleanly.
5. There is no need for life. Others give you because others like it, and you give you because you are willing. Love is voluntary, and there is no regret for the mistakes.
6. As the saying goes, no motivational speculation or value judgment, every adult has the right to decide his own behavior. But the price is really coming. You have to pay as much as you want, and you have to pay if you don’t want to pay. This is the cruelty of reality.
7. The troubles in life come from: we forget our own affairs, love to manage other people's affairs, and worry about God's affairs. It is very simple to be relaxed and comfortable: take care of your own affairs, do not interfere with other people's affairs, and don't worry about God's affairs.
8. You must learn to cover your ears and not listen to the bustling sounds. There is no one in this world who is not miserable. You are the only one who can truly heal yourself.
9. People who haven’t contacted for a long time don’t need to contact you anymore. Everyone works hard and lives without any intersection. If you should stay in the past, let it stay in the past. If you are destined to be, you will see you again. If you don’t have the chance, it’s better not to see you. That's it.
10. Many times in life, you need to consciously give up, because when you have it, you may be losing it, and when you give up, you may be regaining it.
11. Only mature people have secrets, and immature people will keep their hearts on their lips every day. If you know everything, you may not be straightforward, maybe it is because of insufficient emotional intelligence. Being able to swallow words from your mouth is also a kind of practice.
12. Don’t force yourself to do everything right, because sometimes, making mistakes can make us better. Don't try to figure out everything, because sometimes some things are not for understanding, but for understanding to accept them.
13. Life is based on time. Wasting other people’s time is equivalent to slaughtering life for money; wasting one’s own time is equivalent to chronic suicide.
14. People must always have their own way of being alone and learn to talk to themselves. Because only in this way can we not always be nervous about all gatherings and separations, we will not be melancholy due to emptiness, and we will not always place our hopes on others.
15. If a person loves you just because you are kind to him, it’s better to forget it. How tiring is this kind of relationship. No one will be moved by your self-sacrifice for the rest of your life. Love without reward will be full of resentment over time. Love yourself and love the person you love, this kind of warmth is enough.
16. Learn to dance with the wind on the days when the wind blows, and learn to hold an umbrella for yourself when the rain falls. Life has the expectation of hope of passing through autumn water, and there will be unexpected joy.
17. In life, people keep leaving or entering, so what you see is gone; what you remember is forgotten. In life, there are constant gains and losses, so the invisible ones see; the forgotten ones are remembered.
18. Luck is an accessory to hard work. Without the original accumulation of strength, you can't catch the luck you give you. God gives everyone the same thing, but everyone’s preparations are different. Don’t envy those who always get lucky. You must work hard to meet good luck!
19. You will be restricted by whatever protection you are. What can shelter you from wind and rain can also prevent you from seeing the sun.
20. Someone shows off in front of you, and you will immediately double down to prove that you are more powerful. If someone is indifferent to you, you will immediately be indifferent to him.Look, those people you hate easily turn you into the kind of person you hate the most. This is the greatest damage the "enemy" will do to you.
21. You have written hundreds of Weibo posts and logs, some of which are written for specialized people. But usually this person can't see, can't see, and is unwilling to see. Until one day, another irrelevant person suddenly told you: I have read all the things you wrote. I feel sorry for you. Look, the people who really care about you are not reading a certain mood of yours, but what they want to read is your whole life.
