01.
all say: " Raising a child can prevent old age."
With children, there is more liveliness, more concern, and more dependence.
But not all children are filial and will support their parents in their old age.
Some children have not had the time and energy to take care of the elderly.
Some children will dislike the elderly after taking care of the elderly for a long time, and feel very annoying. They think it is a burden and are unwilling to continue taking care of them.
As the saying goes: "There is no filial son in front of the bed for a long time."
This is not alarmist, but a naked reality, and it is also a portrayal of the real lives of many elderly people.
In this world, there are many filial children, and there are also many unfilial children.
After retirement, you will find out little by little that the best support is never children.
02.
When there is no source of experience, you will be despised as poor
When parents still have income and subsidies to their children, you are the best support for their children.
When they can't help but lose their money, you can turn into timely rain to relieve women's urgent needs.
At this time, children will be grateful to you and are willing to keep close contact with you.
But when you retire and have no source of experience, even if you only have a meager pension, you will start to be too busy to take care of yourself, and it is difficult to give women the greatest financial help.
When children encounter a money crisis and cannot get money from their parents, they will resent their parents' poverty, and even blame their parents for not working hard when they were young and saving more money.
Especially when parents have inconvenient legs and feet and need someone to take care of them, their children may think you are a burden, which will waste their time and energy and affect their money.
Once upon a time, I have heard someone complain about their elderly parents like this: "It's just a useless old guy." I disliked that their parents had no value and were even incapable of helping them take care of their children.
I was so sad that I had been raising my son for many years, but I was eventually not treated well. It was really a heartbreaking thing.
Some parents may be disliked or even given up or abandoned when they cannot provide any help to their children.
03.
When you are sick and hospitalized for a long time, you will be annoyed
What really makes people feel disappointed is that "there is no filial son in front of the bed for a long time."
You said that when parents raise their children, they are thrusting and urinating, without any disgust or boredom.
But when parents fall ill and lie in bed all day, over time, children may feel annoyed and no longer willing to take care of them.
even feels that parents are just a useless burden, dragging themselves down, wasting their time and energy, and wasting their lives.
There is no filial son in front of the bed for a long time. Even if the children are filial, once the parents are sick in bed for a long time, their children will no longer be filial.
Although it sounds very heartbreaking, the reality is that, and it is not uncommon.
Parents pour all their love to their children; and what children give to their parents is far less than the love that parents give to their children.
When parents cannot take care of themselves, at the beginning, their children will be meticulous, but over time, they will put their impatientness on their faces and even start to deal with them perfunctorily.
even more. It is against the law of nature to say and scold your parents again and again, and toss and beat them.
Having a good body is more important than anything else and is better than a filial child.
04.
Money and body are the best way to rely on
money, which is the guarantee of a person's life, even after retirement.
Only when you have money can you guarantee your life, and it will not drag down your children and cause financial burdens to them, and you will not be disliked for this.
In my later years, only with enough money can life be nourished, and I will not be worried about eating and wearing well, buying whatever I need and what I like.
The body is a person's capital, even when he is retired.
Don’t have a good body, life is painful, regardless of whether the children are filial or not.
Only by having a good body can you not be tortured by illness, eat well, sleep well, and have a happy life.
After retirement, you still have a good body, so you have the capital to travel everywhere and see the big world outside.
can not fall ill, nor do you become bedridden, become a burden and burden to your children, and you will not be disliked for this.
When I was young, I should not only work hard to make more money, but also cherish my body.
These two things are to prepare for a beautiful old age, and it is also another kind of love for women, which does not drag down their time and life.
05.
In fact, both parents and women have their own difficulties.
But sometimes, there are different positions and different angles, and the way of thinking about things is different and handling things is different.
Deep in the hearts of parents, they love their children at any time.
Deep in a woman's heart, she loves her parents at any time.
However, reality is cruel. If you are born as a human being, you will be involved and you will have no choice.
Perhaps, between parents and children, more understanding and understanding, more tolerance and kindness, and they will live in harmony for the rest of their lives.
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Author: Chu Lanqi, a writer who keeps writing.
May you find warmth and belonging in my text, thank you for your attention.
