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After entering the age of thirty, I began to have different understandings of life. I no longer expect love childishly, no longer fantasize about the possibility of getting rich overnight, I start to live my life down-to-earth, and also see many of the truths of life.
For women, age is not a constraint, the definition of yourself in your heart is. Some people think that if they are old, they are not as good as a 20-year-old girl, then their living conditions will become worse and worse, while some people think that the people around them are too introverted and they really can't persist, then they will become more and more inferior.
Don’t use age as an excuse. This is the basis for a thirty-year-old woman to make her live a better and better life. Seeing your goals clearly and working hard for what she wants is also the enlightenment that a thirty-year-old woman should have.
In recent years, I have been looking for a lifestyle that suits me and have been working hard. These six films and TV series about women's growth have also given me different inspirations at different stages.
I believe that everyone will encounter confusion and can definitely learn from other people's lives the experience and lessons they want. So, let's take a look at these six dramas, and I believe you will feel that your soul is awakened.
" Thirty Only "
Over the years, I have watched many dramas, and the feeling "Thirty Only" gave me is real and bitter.
The three heroines, some are married and have children, some are married and have not been married, and some are not married yet. They all encounter problems in their respective lives, which also allows us to see what kind of thorns and wonderful things are like in the life of a thirty-year-old woman.
Gu Jia is the perfect woman in everyone's eyes, but she was betrayed by her husband. This makes us think about whether a man's cheating has nothing to do with whether a woman is good or not.
Later, Gu Jia decisively dealt with the coolness of her husband and mistress, which also allowed everyone to see the meaning of women's efforts, in order to give herself the confidence and ability to make free choices in the face of such sudden events in life.
and Zhong Xiaoqin 's life is like most ordinary girls. She has no ambitions, but she never lets her go in life. Her husband's irresponsibility makes her lose hope for this marriage, but the final outcome still gives us all the expectations, that is, as long as both of them are willing to work hard, the marriage will go to a better direction.
As for Wang Manni , her inner desires and ambitions are portrayals of modern women. We all hope that we can be better, but we don’t admit defeat but we don’t know if this is right.
I have seen her, and I hope you can understand that there is absolutely nothing wrong with sticking to what you want. You have to work hard for yourself because you deserve better.
"Thirty Only" gives us the inspiration that women must have clear goals and not give up easily because of the difficulties in front of them. I believe that women in difficulties will have the power to struggle after seeing them three of them, and I also believe that we can all be like them, just thirty, to be continued.
" Golden Years "
If you want to talk about the favorite heroine in recent years, Zhu Suosuo must be on the list. This woman is really cool. She acts decisively and will not fall into the past and the pain and cannot extricate herself. This makes her turn against the wind with a bad hand.
I especially like the concept of marriage and love conveyed to women in this drama. Love and marriage is not about adding points and deducting points on the table. Whoever scores are higher will win. We must know what we want and then work hard for it.
Moreover, it is not necessary to get married, nor is it that you cannot get divorced after getting married. Women must learn to protect themselves and be able to live for themselves.
A girl in trouble should be able to develop some courage after seeing Zhu Suosuo, bravely face the difficulties given by life, and break out her own world.
The world is so big, and the happiness that truly belongs to us is still ahead. Don’t give up, just like Zhu Suosuo.
" Know "
"Know " is a drama that many people will watch. Sheng Minglan can be regarded as a model of turning the tables against the wind. Her experience also makes all women understand that although everything will not go well in this life, we can work hard for ourselves.
The most valuable thing about this drama is that it teaches us many life principles, such as looking forward to everything, looking at the lowest point when we get along with others, and stopping losses in time when we enter the poor alley. These principles of
are still very useful in real life, which also makes us understand that from ancient times to the present, the path of women's growth is very clear, that is, to see their goals clearly and not give up to make themselves better.
After all, we can only rely on ourselves. Only by recognizing this reality and letting go of expectations of others can we become the heroine of life.
I especially like Sheng Minglan's view of marriage and love. I think that if women in reality can do not rely on their partner and do not rely on their partner, then they can all have a happy life because you are all your masters.
" Beijing Women's Picture Book "
I remember when I was watching "Beijing Women's Picture Book", I followed Chen Ke and cried and laughed, lamenting that it is really not easy for women to make themselves live a better life.
But so many years have passed, and I have a different feeling when I look back at this drama. I began to experience the difficulty of women in the new era, but I also felt the power of women in the new era.
For women, a good life is never a luxury. We have nothing wrong with wanting better ones, but we must get it through our own efforts.
, especially Chen Ke said, "That pair of crystal shoes that can go to dance. Since girls in the city are rushing to wear them, it is better to make money to buy a pair, maybe you can get it faster." It has been inspiring me and making me understand that getting what I want through my own efforts is the most down-to-earth happiness.
Of course, the setbacks and difficulties in life are never stopped. We must constantly make ourselves stronger so that we can have the ability and confidence to face and solve them at any time, and believe that we can, because they were also rookies and novices.
" My first half of life "
"My first half of life" has been telling women from the beginning that you want to be independent, you have to rely on yourself, otherwise you will definitely be hurt, but as long as you are independent and as long as you rely on yourself, you can decide your own destiny.
You see, Luo Zijun has always relied on Chen Junsheng, so he was abandoned. If Tang Jing had not been helping her, she might have reached a desperate situation long ago. When Tang Jing faced the betrayal of He Han and Luo Zijun, he was able to turn around decisively and make himself live a better life. This comparison is telling us that women, if they want to be not weak, they must be strong enough.
Of course, strong women like Tang Jing are not not sad when facing emotional problems. This is in line with reality. We are not made of steel. Everyone will be sad and helpless. It is just whether they can quickly withdraw their lives from adversity and find new life goals. This determines how strong our ability to resist setbacks is.
I hope all women can live like Tang Jing. After all, no one knows what kind of hardships they will encounter in this life. It is really important to take the initiative firmly in their own hands.
I always believe that when a woman is strong, she will be very happy, because what is the definition of happiness and belongs entirely to ourselves.
" Ode to Joy "
The new "Ode to Joy" has been released, and there are many scoldings. Although I haven't watched it, I have heard about some reasons. Everyone thinks that the characters and plots are really unearthable, making people unable to feel substituted.
In fact, the first few movies "Ode to Joy" are a bit unrealistic, but at least they can help all women learn some practical principles, which is why the first few movies are pretty good.
In the first and second parts, my favorite is Qu Xiaoxiao , because she is very clear about emotional issues, knows what she wants, can work hard to fight for it, and knows that the relationship cannot continue, stop the loss in time. Her like
has given us some inspiration, that is, when facing emotional problems, you don’t have to be indecisive. Life is just a few decades long, and it is important to make yourself happy. However, you must also learn to manage and protect. When you find that the problem cannot be solved, decisively withdrawing may be the better ending.
I really don’t want all women to fall into the abyss of love. I hope everyone can be free and happy. So, work hard to improve yourself together. The strong ability you have is the best guarantee for you to manage your relationship well.
I like the brilliant youth at the age of 20 and the calm self at the age of 30. I think age has never been able to define a woman's boundaries, and we can only understand ourselves.
So, you need to understand what you really want and how to work hard. If you can't find the direction for the time being, you can go and watch these six dramas.
Although every has unrealistic aspects, every can give us some inspiration. I believe that after watching it, you will have some insights and will feel that your soul is awakened.
A truly powerful woman has clear goals, and a truly smart woman knows what she wants. Never live a confused life, stop occasionally, analyze and review, so that she can go faster and farther.
Draw strength from other people's lives and find a lifestyle that suits you. May every woman be strong and happy, and may all women be a better self.
I am Xiyan, a columnist, an older girl who is neither old nor old. She likes to write warm words and do emotional programs. She has published "The Rest of Your Life is About Me". If you have a story, remember to come to me.
