There are sun and moon in the world, all things are divided into yin and yang, cold and heat in the four seasons, and the world is divided into rich and poor.
Whether it is a person or a thing, there are "two-sided" aspects. If there are gentlemen, there will naturally be villains; if there are great talents, there will naturally be mediocre people; if there are rich people, there will naturally be poor.
Everything needs to be viewed "dialectically".
For ordinary people, the most concerned thing is the "rich and poor". Why can some people be rich and some people be poor? Could it be that this is the so-called "unfairness of heaven"?
Rich and poor are bound to exist. How to change depends on the wisdom of each of us. For example, if the opportunity flashes by and you seize it, you will be able to get up; if you can't seize any opportunity, you will become more and more miserable.
is like those ordinary people who have worked all their lives. They also know that they can't make much money by working, but they can only do this. Why? Because they missed many opportunities and many opportunities, they naturally had no choice.
Life is a test for everyone. can react and act quickly, generally people who are not too bad. People who can't react and act too slowly generally won't have any good results.
The poor appearance of ordinary people is hidden among these three points and we need to work hard to change.
1. Whether to "be cared about one place and persevere."
There is a master who gave it to Jia Pingwa for eight words - cares about one thing and keeps his mouth tight.
The so-called "focus on one thing" means that people focus on a certain aspect, not to have three minutes of popularity, but to bring their "persistence" potential to the extreme.
In an industry, you have studied this business for a period of time, and the result you have obtained is different from that of you who studied this business for "10,000 hours".
Seven years ago, two friends chose to open an online store, hoping to make some money on the Internet. A friend opened an online store for three months and gave up in vain. Another friend kept sticking to it and gritted his teeth for a year before the online store started to make money.
Until today, the former is still "what you do, nothing will be accomplished." The latter, who still worked hard in his online store, has made a lot of money and has made a considerable amount of wealth.
The gap between people is actually not the gap in "eye view", but the gap in "persistence".
2. Whether to "recognize yourself and restrain your greed."
Ancient Greek philosopher said that people should recognize themselves.
It is not easy to recognize others. It is even more difficult to recognize yourself. This is what Laozi said about "Those who know others are wise, those who know themselves are clear; those who defeat others are powerful, and those who defeat themselves are strong."
Why can’t people recognize themselves? It can be summarized in one sentence. is taller than the sky and his life is thinner than paper. clearly only has the life of a millionaire, but I have to think that I have the life of a millionaire. In the end, even the millions that belong to you were lost.
There is a local boss who has made tens of millions of dollars. He is not satisfied with his food and clothing and feels that he can make more money. Therefore, he invested his full wealth, hoping to play a big vote.
Unfortunately, his wealth was wasted and he owed others a lot of money. Now he is no longer the boss, he is just a poor worm who hides from others and owes millions.
people are poor either because they don’t try or because they are overly greedy. people in the world were defeated by not knowing how to "retain desires". In the end, they were miserable and miserable, and even their blessings were gone.
3. Whether to "meet a noble person by chance, seize the opportunity."
Lu Meng wrote in "Breaking Kiln Fu ": "A horse can gallop thousands of miles away, and no one can go by himself. People have thousands of tricks, but no luck can reach his own."
A horse can gallop for thousands of miles. If there is no Bole to control it, it can still "died in the stable." A person has countless strategies and strategies. If he doesn’t encounter his own opportunities, it will be difficult for him to accomplish anything.
In this world, there is no shortage of capable people, only noble people and opportunities.
Both of them are ordinary people. Who knew that one of them was appreciated by the boss and followed the boss around and traveled around and gained a lot. And the other person, no one appreciates him, can only work until he is old and never succeeds.
can only be said that has the help of noble people and will struggle for twenty years less. Without noble people to help, it may be difficult to make a comeback in your life. By chance, you can earn wealth that others will not have in their lifetime in a short period of time. If you don’t encounter an opportunity, maybe this life will end and it will be difficult to change.
Neighbors and opportunities are the pedals of ordinary people "Fish jumps into dragon door and turns into dragons" . Whether you can encounter it will determine the fate of ordinary people in this life.
to the end
A person is poor, that has a root cause. either has bad luck, or is not strong enough, or is not persistent enough in doing things, or lacks appreciation and promotion from others, and can only stay at the bottom of the body for the rest of your life.
has too many conditions and restrictions, all of which tie people into a framework, making it difficult to break through.
get rid of the core of the framework, either you are strong enough to break this framework, or you have external forces to help you. Otherwise, fate will be so difficult to change. You must know that without poverty, how can we get rich? Without wealth, how can we be poor?
Everything seems to be a contradiction, but I don’t know it is “supplementary”.
text/Shushan Youlu
