I have a boyfriend who has been together for many years. We have been together for eight years. We were together in college. At that time, he was my senior. He looked average, but he played basketball very well. I was also very simple at that time. I thought that men who played basketball well were handsome. Later, I started pursuing him. It is relatively easy for you to chase men. After I gave him a few gifts, he agreed to be with me, and then we became couples. After I was with him, It’s all my efforts, because my family is better than his. Even when I go on dates, I don’t think so. I always have this idea. I think it’s a very happy thing to pay for my lover. Although my sisters around me also say I’m stupid, they think I shouldn’t do this. They think men should give in when they are in love, not girls should give stupidly. At that time, I felt that they didn’t understand love. I think if they met someone they loved, they would definitely understand me.
Later, I and my seniors graduated from college. After graduation, we went to big cities to work hard together. Later, in order to develop better, he applied to the branch. The branch was in other cities. To be honest, I was not happy. I thought my lover should stay together, but he really wanted to go to the branch. He said that men should focus on career. If they don’t have a career, men would be very inferior. Because after he said such things, I could only support him, so he agreed to him go to the branch. After he went to the branch, we lived a life of separation in another place. At the beginning, he came back to see me every week. Every time he came back to see me, we would go to eat delicious food and watch movies. Later, he said that he was too busy at work, and then he would come back to see me once a month or two. I had complaints in my heart, but I didn’t dare to say it. I was afraid that what I said would have had conflicts with us.
Time flies very quickly, and we have been together for eight years in a blink of an eye, so I asked him about marriage, because I am in my 30s and I can't waste it anymore. If he doesn't want to get married, I will break up with him. When I asked him about marriage, he immediately agreed. I was really happy at the time, so I went to do some marriage. I knew he didn't have much money, so I didn't ask for any bride price. He just wanted to give a few thousand yuan symbolically. Of course, my family would also dowry things and would not let him give this money for nothing.
I plan to get marriage certificate with him first, and then choose a good day to hold the wedding. On the day I went to get the certificate, I was really happy. I got up at 5:00 in the morning, then put on some makeup seriously, put on my favorite skirt, and later I went to the Civil Affairs Bureau with him.
That day, many people came to get their certificates. There was a long queue at the door of the Civil Affairs Bureau. I was afraid that he would work too hard, so I went to queue by myself. I asked him to wait for me on the bench under the tree. When we were called, I would call him over. He walked out behind
. I thought he was going to answer the phone, so I didn't ask him either. He went out for about half an hour and I couldn't find him. Then I went to the door to see. I also asked the guard about the situation. After looking at the photo, the guard was very excited and said to me, "Girl, this man cannot marry. If you marry him, you will definitely regret it in the future. A girl came to him just now. The two of them were very close. I heard that the man told the girl that he had been forced to get married. He also said that he would divorce in the future and then marry that girl."
After hearing the guard's words, I felt very angry. Later I found my boyfriend. He was at a corner at the door of the Civil Affairs Bureau, and the girl was still next to him. He was holding the girl. I slapped my boyfriend and left angrily. I really didn't expect that such a thing would happen to me
