Aristotle said: "Love lives in two different bodies with the same soul."
In the journey of love, the luckiest thing is to meet someone you love deeply in this life, and the other person also loves you deeply.
You can understand your look, and you can immediately understand her movements. The best lover is to have a connection with each other. We call this soul mate .
So, are you soul mates?
We think that only when two people in love develop these 4 feelings can they be considered soul mates.
spiritual comfort
Deep in our hearts, each of us longs to be loved, respected, and satisfied. If spiritually satisfied, it is often happier than physical physical satisfaction.
If two people love each other and in this process, you will be spiritually comforted by each other, then you must be a soul mate.
In the TV series " Parental Love ", Jiang Defu and An Jie are a pair of soul mates. Although they are different in their background and the cultural levels of the two are completely different, they give each other enough spiritual food.
Although Jiang Defu is a rough person, he can remember An Jie's hobbies and satisfy her yearning for a petty bourgeois life. After work, he can bring coffee for An Jie.
Similarly, Anjie gave Jiang Defu enough warmth and love to accompany Jiang Defu through more than 50 years of ups and downs.
Appreciate each other
Soul mates know how to appreciate each other's strengths. This appreciation breaks any conditions and will not cause differences due to individual identity, economic interests, etc.
Once met such an old couple. The husband likes to fish. Every day before dawn, he will carry a fishing rod and take a bucket to fish by the river. His wife prepares dry food for it early.
From young to now, the two have gray hair, and they are still the same. When they were young, their husband would go to the fields to pick a big handful of wild flowers every time they fished and bring it to his wife.
Later, the economy improved, and the man would buy his wife a large bouquet of flowers as soon as he went home. This habit lasted for a long time.
The wife never scolds her husband for being incompetent. She believes that she should support her husband's little hobby, and in her heart, he is a particularly responsible and responsible man.
Similarly, in a man's heart, he feels that his wife is a woman with thoughts and wisdom, and is very particular about life.
This old couple is now in their sixties. They often go shopping with their hands together and eat a bunch of candied haws .
Mutual understanding
In psychology, there is a term called partner responsiveness. Partner responsiveness refers to the ability to clearly perceive response, understanding, support and care from our partner in an intimate relationship.
Not everyone can understand each other, and between soul mates, they can think from the perspective of others, perceive each other's emotions from the bottom of their hearts, and truly understand each other.
He has become your listener, and you like to share and tell him when you are happy and sad.
It seems that there is the same magnetic field between them. They will not suspect each other out of thin air, nor will they threaten each other. Instead, they will give each other freedom and space, thinking about him at all times, each independent, but relying on each other.
Full each other
Franklin Jones said: "Love cannot make the earth work, but love can make your life journey more valuable."
A pair of true soul mates, they can make each other fulfilling each other instead of torture each other.
We always say that if two people live together is far less happy than being alone, then we choose to let go. However, a good love must make both parties happier together and make life easier.
The great philosopher Plato said: "In order to achieve perfection, half of people are always looking for their other half, so the other half that can make each other complete is the so-called soul mate."
You are together, progressing and satisfying each other. You have made him and he has made you. This is the true soul mate. The love between
Yang Jiang and Qian Zhongshu is well-known for their love. They have achieved each other's success and have achieved today's glory.
Qian Zhongshu once wrote words to Yang Jiang in the book. There was no word of love between the lines, but he was expressing his deepest love. He said: "Before seeing her, I never wanted to get married; after marrying her, I never regret it. "
The great writer in front of people is an irreconcilable person. Qian Zhongshu is not divided and his life is a mess. Yang Jiang feels at ease as a full-time housewife to take care of him and keep his life in order.
In this environment, Qian Zhongshu can create with peace of mind. If there is no Yang Jiang, Qian Zhongshu would be no more Qian Zhongshu.
The best love must be a step-by-step process. Each has different ideals, but can fulfill each other to realize his own value.
If you have the above four feelings, it means that you and him are a real soul mate. Reference materials: "Marriage Psychology", "Part of Psychology"
