Preface:
We all know that we need to rely on our children after we are old, but in real life, children are not our only support. Sometimes children cannot treat themselves well, and your life will be a mess. Many people do not put their children's affairs in an important position and choose to live alone.
When people reach old age, what they fear most is not that their children are not around, but these things.
No one to take care of you after getting sick
Your life is actually quite exciting. If you are by your side, there will always be some bumps and bumps, and you will often be disliked by your children. This kind of life is really hard to live. Sometimes a person is the happiest and does not need to be with others.
The most terrible thing is that no one takes care of you after you get sick. In fact, what people are most afraid of is getting sick, and having no money is not the most afraid of. In real life, we all know that only good health is the foundation of life. If you are not in good health, even if you have money, you may not be happy.
What the elderly worry about most is their own body, so we must recognize some things clearly. Without children around us, our lives can still be lived, but if we are sick and no one takes care of us, life will have problems. There are some things in this world that we must rely on ourselves, and we may also need to rely on our neighbors.
No one speaks when you are lonely
Only after we are old age do we understand that when you are lonely, no one speaks when you are lonely, in fact, the least you need children to be by your side. If your children are by your side, you usually don’t chat with us, and you feel very annoyed about every word we say. Many people have not noticed this, but this is very realistic.
What the elderly need most is not the nerves of their children, but the ability of their children to take good care of all aspects of their lives. If your children are by your side, you will not do anything, then such a life is not the best, because sometimes you can’t do it yourself and others can’t do it, so it’s the same with your children.
There are always various things in life, and we must know how to deal with some things. children can bring us benefits, but sometimes they can't help anything. We must know that everything needs to be handled by ourselves. Sometimes we don’t necessarily feel happy if we are with others.
Conclusion:
What the elderly must need is not that their children are by their side, but that their children can think of what we really need. In fact, sometimes loneliness is terrible, and sometimes it is very terrible that no one takes care of them when they are sick. As long as these problems can be solved, it is actually good to live alone.
