"One Born" should be the tag for many post-90s generations. One thing is undeniable, that is, only children are selfish because they have no brothers and sisters. Everything the parents buy is unique, without any share, and no need to grab it. Even the love of parents is exclusive. In this growth environment where love is combined, they naturally lack the awareness of sharing, less tolerance and patience, and are even more accustomed to being self-centered and habitually believe that others should care about their own feelings.
Perhaps it is precisely because of this that more and more single people are afraid of blind dates and even more afraid of getting married, because they are afraid of meeting a selfish partner and fear that the misfortune of marriage will indirectly ruin their lives. Of course, nothing is absolute. Not all only children are selfish. Uncle Qiang just wants to share what he sees and hears with everyone, hoping to bring you some thought.
Joy is doing administrative management in an Internet company. With her efforts, she has taken root in this strange city. Although she has to pay the mortgage every month,Joy feels that she is living a fulfilling life every day. But in certain specific festivals, Joey will feel very distressed. One is Valentine's Day. Joey, who is already 30 years old, not only is he not married, but he doesn't even have a marriage partner. Looking at the couples outside, Joey will naturally feel lost. The other is the Spring Festival. Every year when Joey goes home, his parents will urge him to get married.
After celebrating her 30th birthday, Joey also felt that she had to consider major life events, but she had no suitable marriage partner around her. In desperation, she could only follow her parents' arrangements and started her blind date. After several screenings from his parents, he helped Joey find a good partner. More importantly, the other party and Joey are in the same city. In this way, if two people meet each other, they don’t have to suffer from the pain of missing each other in another place. Therefore, Joey is still very looking forward to this blind date.
Finally arrived on the day of the blind date. Joey put on his exquisite makeup in advance and arrived fifteen minutes in advance. Joey sat alone in the booth waiting, but almost an hour had passed, and the man had not seen him. This made Joey a little dissatisfied, but she still called the other party patiently. Unexpectedly, the other party said that she was getting up late and there was a bit of traffic jam on the road, so it would take half an hour to get there.
After hearing this explanation, Joey began to lose expectations for this blind date, but due to politeness, she still chose to continue waiting. Another half hour passed, and the man came late. After what happened just now, Joey was no longer in the mood to look at the other person, and because he had been waiting for too long, Joey was a little hungry, so after a simple greeting, Joey asked the waiter to send the menu.
Just as she was looking through the menu, the man leaned casually on the back of the chair, and then said lightly: "I have eaten on the way here, so I'm not hungry now. If you want to eat, just order your own. Of course, you can buy the order yourself, I don't care." As soon as these words came out, Joey's anger suddenly popped up. She stared at the other party, and the man was also frightened by Joey's eyes. Why are you trying to leave your eyes and play with your phone intently?
The anger came to his mouth. Joey still held it back, closed the menu immediately, and said, "Since you are not hungry, let's go away." At this time, the man reacted and hurriedly said, "Aren't we here for a blind date? We haven't spoken yet, why did we go away?" Joey said angrily, "No need to go on a blind date. I didn't look at you, goodbye." After saying this, Joey left with his bag and blocked the other party's contact information.
