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Someone once said that a husband can have a wealthy wife, and a husband can't have a wealthy wife.
In a family, the more the husband can protect his wife, the more respect and attention the wife will be from her in-laws. On the contrary, the more foolish the husband is, the more filial the wife is, the more likely he is to be wronged.
Therefore, maintaining a marriage is not only based on "tolerance", but also digesting all unpleasantness and growing each other. Only in this way can we achieve a win-win situation.
02
If it weren't for the child, Su Qiao might have divorced after marrying her husband for 2 years. Her husband, who was concerned about her before marriage, turned out to be a mama boy after marriage and followed her parents' advice.
Su Qiao and her husband met at a job. They both had a good impression of each other. In addition, they were about the same age and soon got together. During her relationship, her husband was very nice to her and obeyed her everything, which made Su Qiao mistakenly believe that her husband would continue to be better as usual.
Until parents-in-law have any headaches and fevers, their husbands always rushed to the front, contributed money and effort, and took over the big debts, Su Qiao changed her view of her husband. Even without Su Qiao's knowledge, her husband secretly subsidized her mother-in-law for living expenses of 2,000 yuan every month. And the money ended up in my brother-in-law's pocket.
03
My brother-in-law got married earlier than them, and the children are about to go to elementary school. Originally, my parents-in-law had been living in their hometown and lived with my brother-in-law's family. But since my brother-in-law's child was about to go to school, my mother-in-law began to express her intentions of coming to her eldest son's house to support her.
When her husband discussed with Su Qiao, she refused. Once they let their parents-in-law live, their brother-in-law and his family of four will naturally follow. But my husband didn't believe it, and insisted that his brother would not bring his family to him, so that Su Qiao would not be suspicious all day long.
Su Qiao advised her not to listen to her husband, so she had to give up. But my husband was even more demanding. Without Su Qiao's consent, he made a decision without authorization that he would bring his parents and his younger brother's family of four. He also greeted Su Qiao, "My brother's family of four will accompany my parents to live for a long time, please treat it well."
Su Qiao thought that the old man was joking, and the family was only more than 100 square meters. Seeing that the child was about to be born, she squeezed in her parents-in-law and brother-in-law's family of four. Wouldn't she even have to give up the baby room?
04
Su Qiao was unwilling, and she explained to her husband that because her mother-in-law was unwilling to take care of the confinement period, she had already greeted her parents and wanted to serve the confinement period. Now that her parents-in-law brings her brother-in-law’s family to live there for a long time, what should her parents do?
My husband said disapprovingly, my parents have come to live for a long time, and your confinement period will naturally be taken care of by my parents, so let your parents go back. After all, there is no reason why any parents-in-law want to live with their son-in-law’s parents?
Looking at her parents who were embarrassed and ashamed, Su Qiao felt distressed at once. She did not refuse, but told her husband that you can take your parents and brothers' family to live there. We are two AA, I can't afford to raise whoever parents and relatives. I have no obligation to accompany your adoptive parents and brothers.
Su Qiao did what she said, and packed her luggage the next day and accompanied her parents back to her parents' home. She also thought about it. If her husband still insisted on doing so, she wouldn't mind divorce and let him leave the house with nothing.
Today’s topic:
Do you support Su Qiao’s husband to bring the wolf into the house?
