Author: Five-layer
In real life, whether it is a couple or a couple, I think I can’t be completely honest with my partner! Because if you don’t say something, it may make everyone’s life happier.
But before you conceal it, you must think about whether these matters involve matters of principle. Otherwise, once discovered, it is not something that can be solved by an apology.
is like everything that classmate Qinqin has experienced. To this day, she still cannot forgive her for lying to her husband and family.
Her story starts from a year ago. At that time, when Qinqin was doing hygiene at home, she suddenly was in her husband's wardrobe. Found his graduation certificate!
It would be fine if I didn’t look at it, but I immediately made Qinqin angry. Because, the husband’s graduation certificate was printed at all, he told him about his education. It is an independent college under 211. Anyone who has been to college knows that this is the third one.
At that moment, Qinqin thought she was dazzled. After all, since he was in love, my husband often showed off to himself, and he graduated from 211 University. Even her father-in-law and in-laws mentioned her son's glorious past in front of her.
The family of three said this, and she never doubted it. Now that the evidence is in front of you, Qinqin simply feels that her pride has always been a joke.
I remember when she was looking for a partner, she didn’t look at her family background or her appearance. I only ask that the other party graduated from the first degree. Because she studied alone, she wanted a husband who could be better than herself to change her life together.
, but I picked it up and picked it and found a liar. If the relatives and friends around you know, how can you meet people in the future? When she thought that she had shown off her husband with others many times on weekdays, she wanted to find a hole in the ground.
That night, I waited for my husband to come home. Qinqin sat in the living room with a cold face. He was about to ask, but Qinqin threw two notebooks on his face.
My husband opened it and found that it was broken. He quickly explained to Qinqin: I didn't mean it at the beginning, but because I like you too much, I didn't tell the truth. Moreover, I'm not totally lying to you! My university is originally a college under 211!
, which can be the same? If you say this yourself, will you lose your heart? I knew that what I asked back then was to graduate from the first year. You can even cheat this? The key is that your parents cooperate. You are really a liar, and I feel now that this marriage is a trap. Did you think of this way because you were poor and cheated on a fool, and you would be considered one!
After hearing Qinqin's angry scolding, her husband refused to agree. He said: Don't say so badly, what is cheating! We are a lie with kindness. You said yourself that you didn’t want to find someone to get married at that time? If you really care about your education, why don’t you investigate it in advance? At best, I am just hiding it, and it's not a lie. Moreover, we have been married for three years, and you still care so much! Is it necessary?
is very nice, but Qinqin can't accept it no matter what. She decided that her husband and family were all liars, and such basic personal information could be concealed. God knows what else she doesn’t know!
But my husband doesn't take it seriously at all, and he always thinks it's nothing. He also mocked Qinqin for being vain, because you are just discriminating with education and are afraid that you will lose face outside.
This trick made Qinqin despair. She didn't know how to face her future, how to face her marriage, and how to face her in-laws. Although I have been married for three years, my education may no longer be the focus of my life. But even this can be deceived, can they still have trust?
However, even though the two of them were quarreling and making noise about this. Qinqin still did not file for divorce. Maybe she accepted her fate. Who told me that she didn’t investigate before marriage?
But I really think her husband's family is so scary. In order to get married, they can deceive people together. Whoever joins such a family will be unlucky. I think what Qinqin should do the most is to investigate everything about her husband as soon as possible.
Is his work real? Are your deposits in the bank? In my opinion, there is no problem with some irrelevant concealment.But at the point where even my education is cheated, I really doubt this person's character.
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