The wisdom shown by women in marriage is reflected by "details". After these details are done, you will become a treasure in your husband's hands and he will definitely take care of you. The key to how a marriage is managed lies in women.
Some people will say that time is the biggest enemy of a woman, and no matter how beautiful a woman is, she cannot withstand the baptism of time. In fact, time is not only not the biggest enemy of women. As long as we maintain it properly, the more time-baptized a woman will be, the more charming it will be. As long as we know how to maintain and as long as we usually pay attention to cultivating our external and temperament, even when we are middle-aged and elderly, we will still be the scenery on the street.
Many women believe that dressing too well after getting married means being uneasy in the room, which often leads to criticism. In fact, marriage should not be a stumbling block that stops us from pursuing beauty, but should be the driving force behind our pursuing beauty.
You must know that now every woman wants to marry rich people, but where do so many rich people come from to let us choose? The rich man who has married a rich man is worried about his husband being stolen every day, and the unmarried man is "eying" on the side. I think everyone has seen such a life. Therefore, as a wife, we must always be prepared and start our "marriage defense war" at any time.
What should we do to "defend" our marriage? The most important point is to always pay attention to your appearance, temperament, cultivation, etc., so that you can be a charming woman.
20-year-old woman is invincible, cute and lively; 30-year-old woman is hardworking in her career and full of energy; 40-year-old woman is successful in her career and has a steady temperament; women after 50 should have a wide range of demeanor and extraordinary cultivation. Women of every age have different characteristics. Even when we reach middle-aged and elderly people, we should have our own unique temperament, so that we can stand out among the crowd and make people forget the customs.
So, how can you make yourself a special woman that people can remember, no matter how old you are? These require a lot of effort.
First of all, we must have confidence. As the saying goes, a confident woman is the most beautiful. As long as you have confidence, you will shine with a unique brilliance. Be sure to straighten your back. As long as you straighten your back, you will be different from others in any situation. Bent over and hunched over is a common manifestation of insecure. Such a woman can’t even see her face clearly, so how could others remember her all at once?
Secondly, you must pay attention to the maintenance of your appearance. Even if we don’t have the money to use expensive skin care products, at least we should do it, keep it clean and meticulous under any circumstances. A clean woman can't hate anyone. If conditions permit, we should use some cosmetics appropriately to make us look younger. Drawing light makeup is also a polite expression for others.
Then we must have our own career. Even if we only earn 500 yuan a month, we must have a job. A woman with her own career will not be completely focused on her husband. Her life is full of color, and she will be able to retain a man's heart more than those mediocre housewives.
Finally, we need to increase our knowledge. Even if a woman with nothing is as beautiful as a woman, it is difficult for men to stay by her for a long time. When the weather was gone, what can we do to save our marriage? On the contrary, women with ordinary appearance but rich connotations are the older they are, the more wise they are. They can hold men firmly in their hands, and they can also hold their love and family firmly in their hands.
From love to wrong love, from hesitation to choice, from expectation to panic, from sweetness to betrayal... In fact, these all depend on ourselves.What kind of love to choose, what kind of people to marry, how to manage a good marriage and stay away from harm, the initiative is also in our own hands.
When we start living with another person, we need to share money and coordinate sex, and oil, salt, sauce and vinegar are indispensable every day. In addition, there are emotional baggages brought by both parties from their respective original families.
Faced with all this, we must understand that love cannot always be romantic and sweet, and marriage will not always be messy and in a mess.
When we have too many anxiety in our marriage and cannot be relieved for a long time, even a very mature marriage will encounter a crisis. No matter how perfect a marriage is, it will fall into trouble due to changes in the relationship between the two parties.
Love is an interactive process that includes gaining and giving. Over-reliance is equivalent to excessive demand. The party being asked will naturally have to bear huge pressure. Once this pressure exceeds a certain critical point, the relationship between the request and the request will lose balance and eventually collapse.
Love connects two people who have no relationship with each other with inextricable emotions, and the two parties are a spiritual connection; marriage is to tie the two people together into a community of interests with clear legal provisions and clear responsibilities.
In marriage, as long as one party can open up and accept differences, the two parties can establish the most harmonious relationship. Of course, everyone, including me, will think privately: "What I am saying is right. If other people's ideas can be the same as mine, the world will be better." In fact, being able to recognize that differences are just differences, not about right and wrong is a manifestation of maturity.
When a partner’s thoughts and feelings are different from ours, we should give our partner emotional support, rather than eager to convince and change our partner.
Only when understanding, respecting and tolerating each other can both parties let go of their guard, express their true thoughts in each other, and ultimately effectively solve the problem.
There are many ways to establish emotional connections in a marriage relationship, and there are many ways to express love. If you understand this, you will get along with your partner more like a fish in water. Paying attention to privacy may not be your partner hiding himself, but just a way of survival that he prefers. Try to accept your partner's way of survival without having to spend time changing.
Marriage is a practice, and there is no shortcut to happiness.
Learn to be tolerant and generous, but in fact, nothing is impossible. Everything is difficult at the beginning. Once you start to act, everything will become simple.
