It is impossible for a pure friendship between men and women. If you don’t pay attention, you will end up like this woman in the article. Who can you blame for this ending now? If you want to blame, blame yourself. I hope this case can bring all women's attention.
for yourself and for your family. You must forgive your male best friend, otherwise you will do this in the future. At that time, you will only call it "Daily" and "Daily" not "Daily". Who can you blame? What's going on? Why is this happening? Let's take a look at this matter together. A 33-year-old woman cried: She was in a bad mood and found a male best friend to drink, but she didn't expect that it would ruin the rest of her life.
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My mother told me to forget it, go back and apologize to my husband, you apologize to him, even if this matter is over, if you don’t go back, 100% of your case will be tragedy, you don’t want to lose everything, don’t want your husband to divorce you, even if you don’t do it for yourself, you should consider it for your children.
I told my mother, do you think I don’t want to go back? Do you think my husband can forgive me if I go back? It's impossible, he doesn't love me at all. All this is my fault. Life ruined everything about me. Now I regret it. My mother told me that you didn't go back, so why did you know that you couldn't go back in the past?
If you don’t love you so much, you will definitely give you a chance. As long as you go back and tell your husband about this, your husband will definitely give you a chance. I believe your husband believes that you can do this well. As long as you promise not to do this again in the future, your husband will definitely give you a chance. After my mother finished speaking, my father told me again. I won't leave you there either, so hurry up and go back.
It is not a solution for you to stay there. Your husband will not forgive you even if you go back and admit your mistake with him. Only when you go back can you tell this matter. If you don’t go back, you will never be able to overcome this matter. Such things are something that men can’t accept, but what can it do?
If you go back, at least there is a little chance. If you don’t go back, there will be no chance at all. Do you really want to lose everything? Do you really want your child to have no father? This matter is indeed your fault. You apologize to your husband after you go back, and then the matter will be over.
blocked. If you don’t have your husband, what should you do? Don’t talk about your child, just say yourself, your own affairs can’t be solved, if you don’t have your husband, just wait, if you don’t have your husband, what should you do? If you don’t have your husband, just say yourself, you don’t have a husband, do you think your will can still be passed?
In the past, everything would be fine if you had your husband. What would the child do if you didn’t have your husband? Don’t talk about your children, just talk about yourself. Your own affairs can’t be solved. If you don’t have your husband, just wait to drink the northwest wind. Have you worked in the past few years? You are all raised by your husband. Now if you divorce your husband, you and your children will drink the northwest wind.
So, no matter whether it is for the child or for you, you cannot divorce your husband. Just say that, go back quickly. If you don’t go back, you will not be able to come back in the future. For yourself, it’s for the child. You have to endure this matter and you have to find a way to answer it.
I cried when I heard my parents say this. You think I don’t want to go back to the past, but I have no choice. If there is a choice, will I let such a tragedy happen? I just have no choice, what can I do about this matter now? If God could give me a chance to make a new choice, I would never let such a tragedy happen.
Today I told this matter, and I hope all women can pay attention, not only for themselves but also for their children, and we must be responsible for ourselves. I used to be unresponsible to myself because I think what happened to contact my male best friend, and what happened to go out to play with my male best friend? I think many women have these bad habits.
always feels that nothing is wrong. I also think so, including me. I just go out to play with them. I have two male besties, and I often go out to play with them. But my husband doesn’t know about these things, and I don’t want my husband to know about them.
If my husband knew about it, he would definitely quarrel with me. In order to avoid these tragedies, I have never told them, nor have I told my husband about these things. They are all in peace together. It is because I do a good job in all aspects that they will not make trouble, especially my husband. My husband does not allow me to have anything to do with other men, especially male besties.
But there is any woman who doesn’t need male friends, and who can refuse other men’s good to him, including me, I can’t refuse. My male best friend is very nice to me, I really can’t refuse. They are kind to me, I think they are kind to me, this is their business, everyone in lunch is good to you, everyone is good to you, it’s their purpose.
Everyone who does not have free lunch at the end of the day is good for you. If you accept someone’s good, it means you accept someone’s feelings or love for you. If you don’t want to accept others or don’t want to give them a chance, don’t accept others’ kindness to you. Then I told my husband what it had to do. I didn't do anything to others, and I didn't ask them to be nice to me. They were good to me, that was himself.
If I take the initiative to make others treat me well, it is my problem. The problem is that I have not actively asked others to do anything for me, and they take the initiative to do things for me. Since this is the case, what else can I say? When I heard me say this, my husband got angry. My husband told me that you were unreasonable. If it weren’t for some purpose, would you think they would be good to you? If you accept others’ kindness to you, do you understand?
You will sooner or later. I am your husband, so I will tell you about this, and others will not tell you. I think my husband is a little too much and always quarrels over such things. Later, my husband didn't care about this matter again.
Maybe, it’s not good for both of us to always quarrel, and then I deliberately restrained a little. On the surface, I have been away from my male best friend and I don’t have much to do with those men. I believe many women are like this, on the surface, they have nothing to do with those men. They live with their husbands well, and I am the same, including me. On the surface, I won’t chat with them, let alone go out to play with them.
But I never thought that this was just a superficial one. The real situation I would still go out to play with them, and it would still have something to do with them. It was just that I didn’t tell anyone, I didn’t tell my husband, and my husband didn’t know it. That day I asked them to come out to play with me again.
What I didn’t expect was that my husband quarreled with me because of this. My husband told me, my friend saw you, have you gone out to play with those men? How many times have I told you, how do you go out to play with them? I don't know why my husband didn't know about this.
I still want to explain to my husband, but my husband didn't give me the opportunity to explain. He kept scolding me and asked me to go back quickly, otherwise 100% of the wait for me would be a tragedy. I told my husband that I was just out to play with them, not often or occasionally. Don't worry about this. If you really can't do it, I'll go back.
My husband told me that this is the best way to do it. I have told you how many times that every man is good to a woman has a purpose. Otherwise, how could he be so good to you? Come back quickly. I don’t want to tell you about this. If you do this again next time, don’t blame me for divorce.
I immediately got angry when I heard my husband say divorce. I loved and took care of me so much and gave everything I had for this family. I just came out to play with them. Why did my husband divorce me? I really can't stand it. Because of this, I blocked my husband's WeChat directly. My husband was unreasonable. He made me angry, and then I was in a bad mood. Then I took the initiative to invite two male besties to have a drink. I used to go out to drink when I was in a bad mood.
So I didn’t think it was anything to do with this matter, it was just coming out to drink. At that time, I was in a bad mood. I just quarreled with my husband and blocked my husband’s WeChat, so I didn’t think much about it. While drinking and chatting, I complained to them about me. How could I have such a husband? Why would I not understand me? It’s not easy for me, do you think it’s easy for me to take care of my children at home?
It is also very difficult for me to take care of my children at home. But why does my husband not understand me? My male best friend told me that men are like this. Don’t think so much, don’t mind so much. Wouldn’t we just contact less in the future? Just live with your husband, men are so stingy when they get married.
I was so angry today. Then we kept drinking. We thought we were just drinking, but we never thought that we would ruin everything because of this. I accidentally got drunk while drinking, and I don’t know what happened, I just remember them drinking with me.
I forgot the rest of the time, it was too late to say anything when I woke up. It was already late when I woke up. The next morning, I woke up early in the morning and found that I was at home and they were lying next to me. It scared me directly, and we were not wearing any clothes at that time.
I felt uncomfortable when faced with this matter. I didn’t know how to do it. This matter was not what I thought. I explained this matter to them clearly, and they didn’t say anything. When they returned home, they even threatened me with this matter.
And there was another person who took a photo and told me that if I no longer maintain a relationship with them, they would tell my husband about this matter if my husband knew about it, wait for me to have a rough rule of 1%. The more I am like this, the more uncomfortable it is. I told them everything in the past, and they knew everything. Now they threaten me about this matter. If they were asked to tell them about this matter, what should I do?
Thinking of this, I was scared. I didn’t dare to tell others, especially my husband, and I could only tell my parents. My parents knew that I would ask me to go back and apologize immediately, otherwise I wouldn’t be able to live my life in the future. Do you think I don’t want to go back? I can't go back, it's all my fault, if I had stayed away from my male bestie before.
is this ending now? The more I think about it, the more I regret it, the more I feel uncomfortable. Why do I have to do this in the first place? This ending can only be blamed on myself. I hope that through my personal experience, all women can pay attention. For myself, it is all for posting, and you must stay away from your male best friend.
