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The ancients said: "Don't bear the burden if you have little strength, don't persuade others if you speak lightly, don't join the crowd if you have no money."
As a person, you must always learn to lie dormant and silently carry everything in life.
When you become particularly excellent, what you want will come naturally.
As an adult, you can hold back and have "later".
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If you endure the suffering, you will be able to make happiness in the suffering.
Writer Xue Linrong recorded many stories about Lu Xun. The following are two or three things.
When Lu Xun first arrived in Beijing, he lived in an alley in Xuanwumen. He was bitten by bedbug at night and couldn't fall asleep. He could only doze off next to the table.
When I was at work, the neighbor's house was loud. Lu Xun said in the article: "The neighboring room comes to Fujian again, and Judas is a slap in the middle of the night, like a wild dog." In the boredness, Lu Xun also has a pet - a gecko.
On Lu Xun's days of illness, the food required his wife to deliver it to the room, and sometimes she didn't eat a bite. But he was still writing letters and books with his pen.
is in a state of illness, and I have watched the movie several times and recommended it to my friends: "Go and watch it quickly."
How can life be easy? If it is easy, it is to make happiness in suffering. Even if you know that "the future is not long", you must cheer up and live every minute and every second of the present.
Maybe, in our impression, Lu Xun is a serious person. However, the "The True Story of Ah Q" he wrote can also feel a special feeling, as well as Kong Yiji's stubbornness and self-satisfaction, and the childlike fun of a young Runtu.
Life has never been static. If you think carefully, you can still have a hint of happiness no matter how hard the days are. It’s like walking into a dark place and discovering a strong weed and an unknown wild flower.
In a place of pain, you can still start with a smile, and the pain will be stepped on. Otherwise, pain will follow you like a shadow.
The essence of success is "running with tears".
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held back and would not cause trouble.
Zhu Ziqing wrote in the article: "There are others outside of yourself, so you have to speak; others also have other people's self, so you have to talk less or not. So we must know how to be silent."
said, or not, it really makes people feel embarrassed. Many articles advocate "silence is gold"; some articles advocate "talking well".
When interpersonal communication, words are the bridge of communication. If this is not the case, what should we do when we sit opposite each other? Could it be that everyone looks down at their phones?
Smart people are masters of speech control and know how to observe words and expressions. You can always say meaningful words appropriately, instead of chatting endlessly, or be a "stupid gourd".
For example, in the square, someone accidentally squeezed you. You suddenly became angry and wanted to curse, but you held back and said calmly, "It's okay." That's it, things are over.
has the truth, you won’t know each other without fighting. If two people quarrel, you lower your head and let the other party quarrel. In this case, the other party will feel embarrassed and the two have the opportunity to shake hands and make peace.
The ancient saying of "misfortunes come from the mouth" should be avoided at any time. If all disasters are gone, good things will happen naturally.
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Only by holding back your temper can life be better.
In the second volume of " Erke Paiwen's Surprise ", there is a scholar named Wang Weihan. He has a great calligraphy skills and has the style of Wang Xizhi's .
There is a pavilion in Juye County, Gunzhou Prefecture, Shandong Province. Because of the time, the three words "Zhifang Pavilion" on the pavilion have become blurred. Therefore, the villagers specially invited Wang Weihan to leave the calligraphy treasures to let the pavilion shine again.
On the day of the appointment, Wang Weihan and his friends drank a lot of alcohol, which delayed a long time. Among the villagers, there was a talented woman named Xie Tianxiang. She was impatient when she waited and used a towel as a pen to write the word "Zifang".
Wang Weihan, who was late, saw "Handling someone snatched the first prize ", not only was he not angry, but he also said that this was the style of Yan Zhenqing and Liu Gongquan . So he wrote the word "ting".
Afterwards, Xie Tianxiang praised Wang Weihan and married him.
The ancients said: "The world wins and loses, but who knows there is a marriage in the qi."
held back his temper and was kind to everyone. In this way, your eyes, face, and heart will become soft, and the people around you will also have a good attitude towards you. Perhaps, a good fate will arise from the crowd.
Everyone meets in this life, it is fate. Even those who are not destined to be able to teach you something. When you stretch out your warm hand, the other party may not necessarily "take over", but if you stretch out your hand again and again, the other party will feel embarrassed to not take over. In this way, the warmth of the palm of your hand will be conveyed.
You lowered your head and reached out, but you succeeded.
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Only when you hold back your desires can you become rich in life.
It is said that people’s hearts are not enough to swallow elephants.
If you keep working hard to make money and don’t stop for a day, then how can you have time to spend money? If you hold money and don’t let go, then where should you put money when you are very old?
" Zhu Zi's Family Instructions " writes: "If you are mean, you will never enjoy it for a long time; brothers, uncles and nephews must share the weight."
Wealth was originally used to build a beautiful home, for the sake of enjoying happiness. If the rich help the poor and don’t care about the family, they can enjoy their happiness for a long time.
Sadly, too many people, because of their own selfish interests, even their families plot against each other and hide their money. Good days have become intrigue.
Therefore, we must hold back our desires. Swallow all the ideas of greed and extravagance.
A person is used to living a simple life, with less living expenses and less pressure to make money. Instead, he is more successful than those who try his best to make money.
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" Reading Records " says: "What one cannot tolerate, what one cannot tolerate, but those who know the most can do it."
The reason why a person can win is because of his strength, and on the other hand, because the power is used in the idea.
endurance can be "moving forward with loads" or - take a step back, the sky will be wide.
Think and judge everything, and endure it when you should, instead of swallowing your anger all the time.
Therefore, "tolerance" is a kind of ability. People with this ability will live calmly, keep their steps firmly, and be quiet inside.
endured the scorching sun in summer and ushered in the fruits of autumn; endured the wind and snow in winter and ushered in the gentle wind in spring, life should be like this.
Author: Common people eat coarse food.
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