I remember that in college, the class organized a gathering of classmates. After eating and drinking, they started chatting. As they were talking, they talked about the topic of how many years a man was most interested in.
Many male students answered in unison that they were women between the ages of 18 and 20, because at that time they were like buds in buds, untainted from the mud, and unstained by the clear waters, like a piece of white paper, pure, exuding the best vitality of life.
When I graduated and worked, my colleagues around me were men in my thirties and successful careers. For them, although young girls can make them feel the beauty of petiteness and love, if I really want to say how many years old women are most attractive to them, they are still women between the ages of 30 and 40.
Because in the adult world, romance is no longer the entire foundation of love, they value practical meanings such as life experience, status and social identity.
Therefore, in their hearts, women aged 30-40 are the most attractive.
A attitude towards life that knows the world but is not the world
Liu Jing in the TV series " Little Joy " has always been considered a gentle existence like white moonlight: her son likes racing , and she never thinks that this is delaying learning and not doing her job properly.
On the contrary, she believes that children have their own hobbies and is their straightforward nature.
Yingzi likes aerospace, but her mother tried every means to stop her, thinking that these things would delay her daughter's study. Yingzi's depression that had nowhere to rest was well supported by Liu Jing.
She will listen quietly to Yingzi’s unhappy things and solve her problems. She will ask Yingzi about aerospace in the attitude of a seeker.
She is as gentle as the white moon, so she and Yingzi become friends for ages.
Liu Jing knows that learning is the most important thing for students, but she never uses learning as an excuse to destroy children's nature. She treats everyone gently, and her kindness nourishes everyone's hearts as if moistening things silently.
Women around 30-40 have lost their youthful aging. They have seen many people and many things, so they can form an independent and complete way of dealing with people.
They know what the world is like, so they will avoid becoming a worldly person by themselves.
insists on self-centeredness and does not go with the flow. The bottom line of different traits
The heroine in the movie " The Leftover is King " has not stabilized yet, so her mother arranged for her to date, and the other party is an old person.
She doesn't care whether her daughter likes her or not, nor does she care whether her daughter wants to get married. She just thinks that as long as someone wants her daughter who is in her thirties but has not yet married, that's enough.
Fortunately, in the end the heroine still sticks to her heart and does not surrender. It’s just that such independent people in life are rare.
When they watched one person around them step into the marriage hall, but they were still alone;
When they were urged to get married by their parents and elders in their family to put pressure on them;
When they were labeled as "older leftover women" by others and despised by others.
They often can't bear the pressure and choose to follow worldly arrangements and get married if they find a man, so as to block their mouths.
However, they have become puppets of life, and the light on their bodies has disappeared, becoming nothing like everyone else.
Zhou Guoping once said this: "When a person has a persistent self, he has a spiritual coordinate in this world. No matter how far he goes, he can find his way home."
Therefore, those women who insist on themselves and do not go with the flow will exude charm no matter what age they are.
Feminineness is the reason why a woman is liked by men
If you are not beautiful at the age of twenty, then you can think that this is caused by nature, but if you are still like this at the age of thirty or forty, then your unbeautifulness is because you have not injected new colors into your life.
is like a story shared by a friend: When I first graduated, my salary was 6,000, your salary was 4,000, I would not leave you because I despise the money you earned; four years have passed, my salary was 10,000, and your salary was still 4,000, so sorry, I will leave you.
Because I can accept your salary is 4,000, but I won’t accept your salary is 4,000. In other words, you have to tell me that you have been making progress, rather than doing nothing and stop moving forward.
In the variety show "Host Competition", contestant Gong Fan once said this: "Time rolls forward for a long time, and he never waits for anyone. But there is a type of people who are young until they die because they have the spirit of youth."
Those women who always exude attractiveness are precisely because they have been growing up and enriching themselves, so they can exude their own femininity from the inside out. In a gender relationship, femininity is the key to a woman being liked by a man.
