Sick old man
My neighbor Xiaolin is already in her forties, one of whom is in college and the other is in junior high school, and her parents are almost seventy years old. In 2020, her mother was diagnosed with a malignant tumor. In order to treat her mother, she was forced to sell her old house and then took her to the provincial hospital. When she was hospitalized for the first time, she paid 200,000 yuan for the surgical treatment alone.
For more than two years, the cost of medical treatment has made her spend all her savings at home. Now she is physically and mentally exhausted. In order to take care of her mother, she quit her job and has no income. She relies on her husband to work alone to support her family. Her physical and mental tormented.
Emotionally collapsed woman
One day, she couldn't breathe in the ward, so she went outside the ward for some breath. When I came back, I found that the old mother lying on the hospital bed was staring at the door. When I saw her, I said, "Don't leave, you dare not leave, I must not be without people around me." At this time, her emotions suddenly collapsed and she started crying. The person who was in the room comforted him for a long time before he stopped crying. Who can understand the helplessness of middle-aged people?
Second, when people reach middle age, they must always maintain the ability to make money. has reached this age, and its ability to make money has invisibly weakened. Many companies have basically stuck to the age limit of recruitment at 35. Isn't it embarrassing to be at the age of 40 or 50? But on the road to making money in , do you dare to slack off? Because you are most afraid of middle-aged self having no money.
Struggle on the road to making money
No money, children cannot go to school, no money, the elderly cannot see a doctor, or even have no money, children cannot get married... So, when you are middle-aged, you are still struggling on the road to making money, which just wants to make yourself live a better life and make yourself more confident. Only you know the pain of middle-aged people making money!
Third, I am worried that my children will always rely on their parents and cannot be independent. In today's society, many new types of leap have emerged, and some elderly people don't know it. In April this year, an applicant from our company came to Xiao Zhang, who was also a top student who graduated from 985 in 2017. When he filled out his resume, I was shocked. His career experience was nothing, so I asked him, "You have been graduating for two or three years, why don't you have any experience in your career?"
worry that their children cannot be independent
It turned out that after Xiao Zhang graduated, he found several companies to work, but was not satisfied. He would stop working for one or two months every time. Later, he told his parents that he wanted to take the postgraduate entrance examination. He didn't pass the exam for three years. Then, he said he wanted to take the civil service exam, but he didn't get ashore and stayed at home for so many years.
Why are you looking for a job again? Your parents gave him an ultimatum. If you don’t find a job to support him, you will drive him out of the house. When he saw that his parents were serious, he had to come out to find a job. Have you seen this? This is a new type of dependents. Taking advantage of the excuses of taking the postgraduate entrance examination and taking civil servants, you can stay at home with peace of mind. When you encounter such a child, if you don’t make up your mind to wean him, he can really keep dependent on his parents. This is also the sorrow of parents.
Postgraduate exam
fourth, when people reach middle age, they are even more afraid that their bodies will collapse. Middle-aged people face both physical and mental pressure, and their ability to withstand is almost at their limit. In this case, you may be more worried about your body collapse because you are the head of the family and the whole family's life is counting on you. It’s time to pay the tuition fee for the child, the water and electricity fee should be recharged, the rice jar is empty, the relatives’ children still have to receive gifts when they get married, and parents are also watching you. All you can do is to work hard and make money.
When people reach middle age, who is not moving forward with a burden? Be kind to the middle-aged self, and be kind to the middle-aged man around you who is holding on to everything, because the burden on them is too heavy.
People are middle-aged, who is not moving forward with a burden?
