Hello teacher!
There is a question to ask.
Sometimes when you meet a bad person, how do you feel that you give him face? In the end, he still makes bad things? How to get along with
? If you can't avoid it, how can you prevent him from turning the bad side towards him?
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Hello classmate!
1. The weak are showing weakness, and the strong are not necessarily buying it.
sometimes treats it as a fun thing, just like a cat and a mouse, and I like to watch the mouse want to escape but can't escape. You have to make yourself a little thorny, be able to threaten him and make him uncomfortable. Only when you have this capital will your show of goodwill be valuable.
people are very realistic. You are too weak, showing kindness is equivalent to begging for mercy. At this time, it depends on the other party's mood. But if you have a thorn that can hurt the other party, if you show goodwill, the other party will go down the road. … (Hidden content is exclusive to Planet members).
Human nature is always unyielding. When merging others, it often does not have an absolute advantage.
2. Show your unprovoked nature.
Based on the above point, you must show your unprovoked nature. It is to make the other party feel the price.
Give an example! There is an animal in Africa called "Bald Head Brother". It is very small but has a bad temper. Even the leopard lion is not afraid of. Generally, leopards and lions don’t care about him. It’s not that I can’t beat him, but that there is no benefit to win. The flat-headed brother has no meat and is very unpalatable. If you are accidentally injured, you will suffer a loss even if you win.
When facing people who bully you, you must learn like "Big Head Brother". If you mess with me, even if both sides suffer, I will pull you into the water. For example, insulting you in public, making you unable to get out of Taiwan. Bad your business at critical moments.
I used to be in a company and an employee was like this. The company resigned and refused to approve, so he told his leader that ... (Hidden content is exclusive to Planet members). As a result, the leader was afraid and criticized.
3. If you want others to do bad things to you, you must increase the cost of bad things and reduce the benefits of bad things.
This is similar to the previous one. If others bully you, they will naturally not bully you. Those who are reasonable are afraid of shamelessness, and those who are shameless are afraid of life. You must dare to give up, don’t be afraid of being hurt, don’t be afraid of losing, don’t be afraid of both sides.
Find an opportunity and show it. The brave one wins when they meet on a narrow road. Don’t be afraid when they can’t escape. If a person is too gentle and moral, others will not be afraid because you are too docile and unaggressive.
4. Be wise and able to calculate.
As mentioned earlier, you must dare to do it and dare to fight. But there is another important thing, that is, you must be wise and not act recklessly.
You must understand some basic legal knowledge and let the law stand on your own. For example, find opportunities to record videos, audio recordings, etc., and retain evidence.
Make more friends. With more friends, you will be more imposing. … (Hidden content is exclusive to Planet members). It is difficult for a group of people to fight against each other.
In short, you have to use your brain to make yourself smoother. You must be brave and brave, and you must also learn to be smart and be able to calculate.
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