There is a poem that says: "After the song, everyone is a dream, and prosperity falls all over the place."
Everyone cannot escape the fate of the song, and people are dispersed. When the prosperity comes to the end, it is just gradually becoming lonely and empty. The world of the world has only disappeared, but no eternity.
No matter how tall a tree is, it will wither and wither; no matter how dazzling a building is, it will turn into a pile of mud bricks; no matter how long a person lives, it will leave.
people, as long as we come to this world, we are destined to be able to enjoy the process and cannot live for another five hundred years. The so-called "life is exhausted, and the world has no limit" is this.
A person is about to leave the "world". These signs will appear around him. You must be mentally prepared.
1. Dreaming of a relative who has long left.
Psychologist Kenneth Reinger had a "near-death experience" and came to a conclusion that everyone who was about to leave would encounter these four situations.
First, I felt extremely calm; second, I found myself leaving my body and entering the dark passage; third, I met my relatives in the passage; fourth, I had a major experience in my life, flew by scene after scene before my eyes, just like watching a movie.
people will often dream of deceased "relatives" before they are about to leave. This is an inevitable situation. Because people who have reached the end of their lives are most likely to be nostalgic and like to recall the people and things in the past the most.
In folk saying, it means that the deceased relatives came to pick them up home.
According to scientific terms, the human brain extracts fragments of past memories and constructs warm and painless dreams, which make people satisfied and pass away quietly.
Dreams of a deceased relative, which makes people feel terrible. However, these are all inevitable experiences before leaving. Although everything in the world is painful, it is just that being able to meet your relatives again in the end is considered a regret in my heart.
2. I hope to return to my birthplace and return to my hometown.
Ming Dynasty Wang Shizhen wrote in "The Story of the Phoenix": "Even if the tree is a thousand feet tall, the fallen leaves will return to their roots."
A huge tree, even if it is tens of thousands of feet tall, will eventually return to its roots. Everything in the world cannot escape the fate of "gradual decline".
Trees have the fate of "fallen leaves return to their roots", and people also have the fate of "fallen leaves return to their roots".
When we were young, maybe we didn’t have this feeling, thinking that we wanted to escape from our hometown, stay away from our hometown, and travel around the world, so that we can be considered worthwhile in our lives.
html When we were 430 years old, we would tell ourselves that we “never regret.” When we were 40 years old, we would be a little nervous and wanted to return to our hometown. After 50 or 60, we will have the urge to go back to our hometown to retire.
This kind of feeling of missing the hometown will reach its ultimate when people almost leave. There is a saying that goes very well with . No matter how much the child who doesn’t miss home, he will eventually return to his hometown.
3. Perceive the time you left.
has a word called "The deadline is coming". According to Buddhist saying, it is "predicting the time is coming."
A person will sense his “end point” and when will it come. Therefore, he will use his limited time to arrange his funeral and fulfill his greatest responsibility to his family and children and grandchildren.
Zeng Guofan In his later years, his health was not very good. One afternoon, he asked his son to help him walk in the yard, and told his son a lot of things related to the family.
The son was very confused. My father would not say so much in the past. Why did he give me so earnestly today?
After a while, Zeng Guofan asked his son to help him to the study to rest. A few hours later, Zeng Guofan died peacefully while sitting on a chair and was able to die with a good end.
Young children, perhaps they don’t know that their parents suddenly “seriously” instructing you afterwards, which proves that they have realized that there is not much time left. We need to be more careful about all abnormal things and be mentally prepared.
4. The body suddenly improved, it was like a miracle happened.
People with serious illness have actually reached the point of "the oil is exhausted and the lamp is dry". No matter how we treat it or how much medicine we invest, it has no effect.
Generally speaking, many families will take seriously ill elders home and let them leave at home.
A strange scene happened. The elders who took them home actually got better. Some people can talk, some people can get out of bed, some people take the initiative to ask for dinner...
The younger generation who saw this scene were very happy and thought that God blessed, and finally a miracle happened. Who knew that after a few days of , these elders who "miraculously happened" quietly passed away.
People call these things " back to ". When people reach the point where medicine is ineffective, the body's adrenal hormone will be secreted in large quantities, causing the body to temporarily return to normal, just like a "flash-of-the-pan".
Speaking of this, I believe we will all be deeply moved. Why do people have to leave? In fact, this is a Saha world. We are all practitioners among them. Once we have practiced our own homework, we have no regrets and it is time to leave.
that's all.
text/Shushan Youlu