She has been in the company for more than a year. I am an veteran. When I first came, I just looked pretty good, very sunny, and had a good work ability. But I have been getting too close to her recently. After a few times, I suddenly broke out and my feelings for her were out of control. Although I know that I and she have a family, it is wrong to do this, but I just can't give up this idea.
Yesterday morning I went to the administrative hall with her. She went to do business. When she arrived at the exit of the underground garage, she said let's have lunch here. To be honest, she was a little unexpected, she was very happy and nervous. After all, this was the first time she had eaten alone with her.
Actually, I still like to chat with her very much, and she seems to like to hear me say nonsense and nonsense. We moved from floor one to floor five in the mall and couldn't find a place to eat. In fact, I didn't want to find a place to eat early, so I wanted to go with her for a while. Finally, we found a grilled fish family, and after eating, we moved for a while, and returned.
I had insomnia last night. I have always regarded myself as aloof. How could I have this idea? This would be great if I was young, just rush up when I saw the girl I like. Now I feel uncomfortable, so I can only think about it in my heart. After all, they are all married people.
I actually liked her quite before, but I didn’t like her emotionally. I just felt comfortable with her and got along very well. But this time it was different. I really liked her. I really wanted to get closer.
Men are perverts, and I am no exception. Why do I want to see her when she is in front of me? I can't help it, but in the end I didn't watch it. Typically, I have a thief heart but no courage.
I guess I can't see her today. Her child's hand was injured and the car door was closed. It's okay to be able to listen to the sound from WeChat. She likes to send several voice messages on WeChat. If it were others who sent messages like this, I didn't even read them. Basically, I didn't listen to them, but I just like to listen to her voice, which was the same before.
Although I have been persuading myself that these are nothing and will not have any results, I don’t know when I will get out of it. I have experienced a lot of emotional things in this life. So far, I have been thinking about it twice. This time, I count it once. To be honest, I didn’t do this when I was pursuing my wife because I was confident at that time.
just saw her ID card. Alas, although I knew her age for a long time, I still sighed after reading the ID card that I am 41 years old and I am still a young man. Sometimes I wonder what my psychology is for. Anyway, I don’t know.
I really can't calm down during this period. I'm not in a state at all. I don't dare to send her WeChat or call her. The heaviness in my heart can't be removed. I have been thinking these days, if she and I were really together, in which direction would we develop and how would we develop.
I have been busy for a while and I didn't dare to stop. When I stopped, I would think about it. I was full of fear. I was afraid that she would completely ignore me, I was afraid that she would gradually alienate me, and for the first time I was full of inferiority in front of a girl. what do I do? Should I confess to her?
or above is a self-reporter from netizens. Gu Feng suggests: Of course, you cannot confess your love. You must be responsible for your marriage and your own emotions. You are still in the same unit, and she accepted it. If you fall into an extramarital affair in the future, you will be ruined if the matter is exposed; if you refuse you, you will be in the same unit, and meeting in the future will be embarrassing.
When a relationship enters marriage, love will inevitably go vigorously and dull. We may meet some people in our lives that make us feel moved, and we will feel that this is true love, but this is just an illusion. You don’t need to react to this illusion at all, otherwise it will only make life worse.
Don’t confess your love to the female colleague you like, manage your own marriage with care, and you will find that everything is developing in a good direction.When you feel like you are in the female colleague in the workplace, you will feel more and more that everything is good in your heart.
But if you can consider your liking from the perspective of an onlooker, you will find that this is actually a man’s liking for beautiful girls, without any emotional factors at all.
Restrain your heart, return to your own family life, manage that relationship with your heart, and manage that marriage with your heart. I believe you can find new heart-warming points in your marriage and make your happiness more complete.
So let’s put family first. Since it’s a secret love, it’s better to let go as soon as possible. Otherwise, not only will I feel uncomfortable, but if I persist, I may not end up with anything.
It will be the same over time. Live the present and take good care of your family. Don’t try to destroy two families. Be a responsible and responsible man.
You can treat secret love as a seasoning for life, and treat her like a normal colleague. If she greets her or just a few words, you will be happy. You enjoy this kind of happiness, just like admiring a beautiful little flower, and you have a happy mood, and you never thought of having it. No matter how good the women outside are, they are someone else's. Your own wife is the person you should cherish the most.
It is also a very beautiful thing to hide in your heart. Time will dilute everything. It is said that what you can't get is the best. If you really get it, the feeling in your heart will no longer exist. If you are married, your marriage life will inevitably become dull. It is normal to have the experience of liking others. I will gradually calm down.
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