I found that things I have not experienced before cannot listen to other people's experiences. Only by feeling them and experiencing them can you understand the ups and downs of them. When you understand them, you are covered in bruises... This is how people are. They don't like to listen to their parents' advice, they are nagging, and they will never remember them if they don't hit the wall once.
Maybe everyone is the same, and the vicissitudes of the present are all paying for the frivolity of youth. But each of us must use our own feet to walk our own path, because no one will take your own life for you. Until now, I don’t know if obedient will live a better life. There is no standard answer, because each fate is different. Only experience can make people grow.
People always need to have experience to grow up. How can they see the rainbow without experiencing the wind and rain? People can’t teach people how to teach things, and some things can never be learned without experiencing them. This is life.
