7,000 yuan a month, and the pension should be well spent. After all, 7,000 yuan is a lot, and you can do a lot of things. To put it bluntly, some people work hard but don’t have 7,000 yuan a month, but why can’t this old man even afford two yuan of water? How come he doesn’t have 7,000 yuan a month but doesn’t have 2 yuan of water? What’s going on?
Forget it if you don’t have two dollars to drink water, but now you have to go to someone else’s gun. You’re too thick-skinned. What’s going on? How could you live like this when you have money? Why did you look at this? The 64-year-old man cried: I have a pension of 7,000 yuan, but I don’t have 2 yuan to drink water, and I have to go to someone else’s house for free.
case story sharing person,
64-year-old aunt Lin:
I was wrong, I shouldn't remarry. I hope that through my personal experience, all the elderly can pay attention. If you can stop remarrying, try not to remarry, otherwise you will regret it like I am now. I have a pension of 7,000 yuan a month, but now I don’t have two yuan to drink water.
is not a joke. I am serious. This incident really happened to me. And I didn’t know where to eat at noon today. Yesterday I went to my friend’s place for free, but it was impossible for others to always eat. My life was so happy in the past, because I remarried, so I told you about my personal experience.
I hope that all the elderly can learn from it. Just now I walked 4 kilometers, and it took about an hour to walk, and I didn't dare to go in. I came to the door of a friend's house, but I didn't dare to go in. My main purpose of coming here is to go to my friend's place for free. It's ridiculous to say it. I ran over here from afar to eat. I had no choice. If I don't come here to eat, where would I go? I'm really hungry. I didn't have dinner in the morning. It's already 11 o'clock and it's almost 12 o'clock. After standing at the door for a while, I didn't dare to go in. Should I go in?
It has been more than ten minutes since I went in. I was too scared. I came here for dinner a few days ago, and now I am here to eat again. I can't say it, but I have come here, and if I don't come here, I can go wherever I go. My good friends have already started to escape from me and avoid me. Isn't it because I often find others to eat?
Now there is something wrong with this now. I don’t dare to go to someone else to take on it. I went to someone else's place to have a free meal and didn't buy anything. Not to mention my friend, I couldn't stand it if I were me. I talked like this again and again, and often, who could stand such things? At this moment, I was so thirsty. I wanted to buy water to drink, but I found that there was no money in my pocket. If I had money just now, I wouldn't have to walk a few kilometers to come here. I really didn't have money and didn't see anyone drinking water for two yuan. I really wanted to drink it.
Then I saw a bottle of water on the roadside. I don’t know who finished drinking this bottle of water and threw it away. I really want to drink it when I saw this. But I didn't dare to take it because of my face, so I had no choice. I quickly took away the bottle of water when no one paid attention. No matter whether I did it or not, I would be too thirsty. ? I finished drinking the water and started to worry about whether to go in for a meal after drinking it.
If I don’t go in and eat, where can I go to eat? Go home for a meal? Go out for a meal? Is there any meal to eat when I go home? Can I go back to the past? When I got home, I was afraid that others would ask me for money. I chose to remarry two years ago. At that time, my children did not agree to remarry. My children told me that you are so old, and what remarry is to harm others and yourself. Isn't you good to be alone? Why care?
If you can’t take care of yourself, we can take care of you. If you want to take care of you, we can hire a nanny for you, or if you come to our side and we take care of you, why do you need to remarry? I told my kids that you all said.
7,000 yuan a month, and the pension should be well spent. After all, 7,000 yuan is a lot, and you can do a lot of things. To put it bluntly, some people work hard but don’t have 7,000 yuan a month, but why can’t this old man even afford two yuan of water? How come he doesn’t have 7,000 yuan a month but doesn’t have 2 yuan of water? What’s going on?
Forget it if you don’t have two dollars to drink water, but now you have to go to someone else’s gun. You’re too thick-skinned. What’s going on? How could you live like this when you have money? Why did you look at this? The 64-year-old man cried: I have a pension of 7,000 yuan, but I don’t have 2 yuan to drink water, and I have to go to someone else’s house for free.
case story sharing person,
64-year-old aunt Lin:
I was wrong, I shouldn't remarry. I hope that through my personal experience, all the elderly can pay attention. If you can stop remarrying, try not to remarry, otherwise you will regret it like I am now. I have a pension of 7,000 yuan a month, but now I don’t have two yuan to drink water.
is not a joke. I am serious. This incident really happened to me. And I didn’t know where to eat at noon today. Yesterday I went to my friend’s place for free, but it was impossible for others to always eat. My life was so happy in the past, because I remarried, so I told you about my personal experience.
I hope that all the elderly can learn from it. Just now I walked 4 kilometers, and it took about an hour to walk, and I didn't dare to go in. I came to the door of a friend's house, but I didn't dare to go in. My main purpose of coming here is to go to my friend's place for free. It's ridiculous to say it. I ran over here from afar to eat. I had no choice. If I don't come here to eat, where would I go? I'm really hungry. I didn't have dinner in the morning. It's already 11 o'clock and it's almost 12 o'clock. After standing at the door for a while, I didn't dare to go in. Should I go in?
It has been more than ten minutes since I went in. I was too scared. I came here for dinner a few days ago, and now I am here to eat again. I can't say it, but I have come here, and if I don't come here, I can go wherever I go. My good friends have already started to escape from me and avoid me. Isn't it because I often find others to eat?
Now there is something wrong with this now. I don’t dare to go to someone else to take on it. I went to someone else's place to have a free meal and didn't buy anything. Not to mention my friend, I couldn't stand it if I were me. I talked like this again and again, and often, who could stand such things? At this moment, I was so thirsty. I wanted to buy water to drink, but I found that there was no money in my pocket. If I had money just now, I wouldn't have to walk a few kilometers to come here. I really didn't have money and didn't see anyone drinking water for two yuan. I really wanted to drink it.
Then I saw a bottle of water on the roadside. I don’t know who finished drinking this bottle of water and threw it away. I really want to drink it when I saw this. But I didn't dare to take it because of my face, so I had no choice. I quickly took away the bottle of water when no one paid attention. No matter whether I did it or not, I would be too thirsty. ? I finished drinking the water and started to worry about whether to go in for a meal after drinking it.
If I don’t go in and eat, where can I go to eat? Go home for a meal? Go out for a meal? Is there any meal to eat when I go home? Can I go back to the past? When I got home, I was afraid that others would ask me for money. I chose to remarry two years ago. At that time, my children did not agree to remarry. My children told me that you are so old, and what remarry is to harm others and yourself. Isn't you good to be alone? Why care?
If you can’t take care of yourself, we can take care of you. If you want to take care of you, we can hire a nanny for you, or if you come to our side and we take care of you, why do you need to remarry? I told my kids that you all said.
But I have been to your place before. Do you have time to take care of me? Not only do you have no time to take care of me, but you also have to ask me to take care of you. This is not the most difficult. The most difficult thing is that I was wronged when I was with you. You have to go to work every day, so where can you have time to take care of me? I chose to remarry because I couldn't stand such grievances. If I was with others, then I would be taken care of. You don't have to worry about my affairs all the time, so isn't it for your own good?
My son told me that it was for our good. In fact, you are for yourself. We do not agree with this matter. No matter what, you cannot remarry. If you need to take care of it, we can take care of it. There is no need to remarry and remarry will be a disaster for us. Do you think you can live a good life after remarriage?
After remarriage, it is very likely that you will get stronger and stronger. At that time, it will not only harm you, but also harm us. There are few cases of happy remarriage among the elderly now, let alone you have so many pensions? , If you are with others, isn’t this going to be cheaper for others? There is also the story we told our mother when she passed away. We promised our mother to take good care of you, so you should not choose to care about this matter, just take care of you, just tell us everything, we will take care of you, we will take care of you, we will do everything for you, just say that, without you, there is nothing.
Although we are very busy at work, we won’t care about your business. Don’t worry, if we eat, we won’t be hungry. Then come to us and we will take care of you. If you don’t do well enough, you tell us that we will try our best to change and do better. If that happens, you won’t choose to remarry, but I will eventually choose to remarry, no matter what my children say or what they make to me.
I chose to care about it and not just for the sake of the children and the others? Although it is for my own wizards on the surface, isn’t it for them? This is also the fundamental reason why many elderly people choose to remarry. They always think that they won’t bother their children after remarrying, so that they can reduce the burden on their children. Therefore, they choose to remarry. I also think so, including me.
So soon I chose to remarry me or the one who remarried me was a woman named Xiao Zhang. Xiao Zhang is younger than me. We have known each other for many years. I have a better relationship with Xiao Zhang. At that time, I thought I would live a good life after remarrying, but I only realized it after remarrying. In ideals and reality, we will live a good life and feel that we will be very happy. But after returning, I realized that it was impossible to have a good time to quarrel with him. We are originally from two worlds.
can't be integrated together now. He thinks about his affairs. I think about my affairs, no matter how I am, I can't be accommodated. If it weren't for the marriage, we might have separated long ago and made noises every day. At this moment, Xiao Zhang was still sick. If Xiao Zhang and I had not remarried or were not together, I could give up directly and ignore this matter.
But now Xiao Zhang and I have remarried, can I give up on this matter? I can't give up at all. If I choose to give up, what will others say that Xiao Zhang is my wife? Can I give up Xiao Zhang? I can also quickly send Xiao Zhang to the hospital. I spent more than 500,000 yuan in the hospital.
In the past six months, no one knows how I survived it. My hair is always overwhelmed during the day. I have to take care of Xiao Zhang and at night. I am old and I need to take care of others, but in the end I have to take care of Xiao Zhang. Xiao Zhang spent all my money, so let it go, the methods he did not do well to me after he was discharged from the hospital.
And Xiao Zhang's children were also struggling with them. They felt that I was not taking good care of them, so Xiao Zhang asked me to make compensation. Xiao Zhang even gave the money to his children in front of me. If I didn't give it, I would even secretly transfer my money to his children with my mother. Faced with such a thing, I don’t know what to say.It was fine if I had money in the past, but now I have no money and it’s even more a big deal.
And in order to treat Xiao Zhang, I have borrowed more than 200,000 yuan. Even if I don’t eat or drink, it will take several years to pay back the money. Now Xiao Zhang needs several thousand yuan in medical expenses every month, so where can I get that much money? The money at home is just enough, so I can't ask my child to pay it back with debts.
You should not bring this account into the yellow picture. If you don’t have money, just ask your child if he wants us. My relatives and friends told me, when will you pay back the money you owe us? It is natural to repay debts. Don’t bring this account into the loess. If you don’t have money, just say it directly. When asked your child, we are not as rich as you.
For you, tens of thousands of yuan is nothing, but for us, tens of thousands of yuan is everything. It’s not because you are our words. I have nothing to say on the surface. On the surface, my family is pretty good, but I have no money, so I have no words to talk about the house. I have nothing to say. On the surface, my family is pretty good, but in fact I have no money, and even the house has been secretly taken to his child by Xiao Zhang. Now I regret it. If I didn’t care, would it be the ending now?
I borrowed so much money but didn’t pay it. The money at home was just enough to pay. Why do I have the nerve to ask my child what to do if I want money? The more this happens, the more annoyed you are. The family was out of money, so Xiao Zhang forced me to go out to work, or asked me to ask my child for money. I was embarrassed to ask my child for money, so I asked me to ask, and my child would not give it to me. Not only would I not give it to me, but they would also scold me for not giving it to me at the beginning, but I had to remarry myself.
sometimes even don’t give me home for dinner. Xiao Zhang told me that there was no money at home and it was not handled. If you don’t get the money back, don’t think about going home for dinner. You have so many children and their conditions are so good, what’s wrong with you asking them to ask for money? You are their father, and you tell them to think that they will definitely give it. If they don’t give the money, you will just stay there and not leave. Isn’t that good?
If you don’t have Lao Qiang, don’t think about coming back. Xiao Zhang and his children come to make things difficult for me. How can I feel about it? I don’t want to go home anymore. What can I do if I don’t want to go home? I can only go to my friends for free, and then there is a mosquito net and I have a meal. I have gone to all my friends all over. Every time I go to other people’s houses when they are having dinner, and then chat with others in court. In fact, I don’t come to chat with others.
I came here and I was here for free. I had too much free meal, so I felt embarrassed not to take anything every time I came here. I didn’t want to do this. If I could get something, I didn’t want it either. What else can I do? Now the ending is that who can I blame for the monthly salary of 7,000 yuan, but I don’t have two yuan to take the bus and have no money to eat. I can only go to my friend’s place to have a meal, and I don’t know how to live in the future.
Conclusion:
Who can I blame for this ending now? If you blame yourself, blame yourself. If you listen to your child and if you don’t remarry, will this ending still be there now? How many elderly people feel happy when they remarry, but very few, although there are, they are very few. Most elderly people cannot get happiness when they remarry. Just like the old man in the article, I think there will be a happy result after remarrying, but isn’t it still not happy?
So if the elderly have a choice, don’t care about who is not doing well? If you eat a person and your whole family are not hungry, it is more important that you will not harm the child because of this matter. If you don’t handle it well, it is likely that it will harm the child. It was originally intended to reduce the burden on the child, but it ended up harming the child, so why bother not to remarry?
This tragedy will not happen. Just live alone, and you have 7,000 yuan per person. You can live happily anyway. If you remarry, it will be different. If you live two people, and are you sure they really live with you? So don’t remarry and be kind to yourself. If you are not responsible for yourself, no one will be responsible for you.
It was fine if I had money in the past, but now I have no money and it’s even more a big deal.
And in order to treat Xiao Zhang, I have borrowed more than 200,000 yuan. Even if I don’t eat or drink, it will take several years to pay back the money. Now Xiao Zhang needs several thousand yuan in medical expenses every month, so where can I get that much money? The money at home is just enough, so I can't ask my child to pay it back with debts.
You should not bring this account into the yellow picture. If you don’t have money, just ask your child if he wants us. My relatives and friends told me, when will you pay back the money you owe us? It is natural to repay debts. Don’t bring this account into the loess. If you don’t have money, just say it directly. When asked your child, we are not as rich as you.
For you, tens of thousands of yuan is nothing, but for us, tens of thousands of yuan is everything. It’s not because you are our words. I have nothing to say on the surface. On the surface, my family is pretty good, but I have no money, so I have no words to talk about the house. I have nothing to say. On the surface, my family is pretty good, but in fact I have no money, and even the house has been secretly taken to his child by Xiao Zhang. Now I regret it. If I didn’t care, would it be the ending now?
I borrowed so much money but didn’t pay it. The money at home was just enough to pay. Why do I have the nerve to ask my child what to do if I want money? The more this happens, the more annoyed you are. The family was out of money, so Xiao Zhang forced me to go out to work, or asked me to ask my child for money. I was embarrassed to ask my child for money, so I asked me to ask, and my child would not give it to me. Not only would I not give it to me, but they would also scold me for not giving it to me at the beginning, but I had to remarry myself.
sometimes even don’t give me home for dinner. Xiao Zhang told me that there was no money at home and it was not handled. If you don’t get the money back, don’t think about going home for dinner. You have so many children and their conditions are so good, what’s wrong with you asking them to ask for money? You are their father, and you tell them to think that they will definitely give it. If they don’t give the money, you will just stay there and not leave. Isn’t that good?
If you don’t have Lao Qiang, don’t think about coming back. Xiao Zhang and his children come to make things difficult for me. How can I feel about it? I don’t want to go home anymore. What can I do if I don’t want to go home? I can only go to my friends for free, and then there is a mosquito net and I have a meal. I have gone to all my friends all over. Every time I go to other people’s houses when they are having dinner, and then chat with others in court. In fact, I don’t come to chat with others.
I came here and I was here for free. I had too much free meal, so I felt embarrassed not to take anything every time I came here. I didn’t want to do this. If I could get something, I didn’t want it either. What else can I do? Now the ending is that who can I blame for the monthly salary of 7,000 yuan, but I don’t have two yuan to take the bus and have no money to eat. I can only go to my friend’s place to have a meal, and I don’t know how to live in the future.
Conclusion:
Who can I blame for this ending now? If you blame yourself, blame yourself. If you listen to your child and if you don’t remarry, will this ending still be there now? How many elderly people feel happy when they remarry, but very few, although there are, they are very few. Most elderly people cannot get happiness when they remarry. Just like the old man in the article, I think there will be a happy result after remarrying, but isn’t it still not happy?
So if the elderly have a choice, don’t care about who is not doing well? If you eat a person and your whole family are not hungry, it is more important that you will not harm the child because of this matter. If you don’t handle it well, it is likely that it will harm the child. It was originally intended to reduce the burden on the child, but it ended up harming the child, so why bother not to remarry?
This tragedy will not happen. Just live alone, and you have 7,000 yuan per person. You can live happily anyway. If you remarry, it will be different. If you live two people, and are you sure they really live with you? So don’t remarry and be kind to yourself. If you are not responsible for yourself, no one will be responsible for you.
