The National Day holiday has ended, are you still happy?
For older unmarried young men and women, they must be unhappy.
Every time I go back to my hometown on holidays, I can’t escape the urge to get married and one blind date after another.
This National Day, I accompany my best friend, either on a blind date or on the road to blind dates.
She said that I was more educated when I was scolding people. I asked me to accompany me to help see if it was reliable, and the other was that if I encountered some weird things, I could do it for me if I couldn’t organize a language response.
For someone who has never been on a blind date, I think she is a bit of a big deal.
is just going to meet someone, they are all adults, and they know how to keep a little decent, so that they will not be nervous and ready to fight at any time.
But after several blind dates, I think I was too careless. Every blind date experience is enough to make up jokes to talk about a talk show.
blind date male
match lady said: "My brother has a house and a car in Guangzhou, and he has been doing business as a boss."
With unlimited expectations, we made an appointment to have afternoon tea at a dessert shop.
Just after meeting, the blind date boy felt condescending.
It doesn’t matter if men are over 30 years old, but women will be more difficult when they are over 30 years old.
With the conditions that he has a car and a house, many women pursue him reversely, etc.
Listen to his tone, I thought the house was a large flat floor of Zhujiang New City or at least a luxury house in Haizhu Baiyun. After asking, I found a 72-square-meter second-hand house in Huadu .
Invest in some small business by yourself, but the overall income is not as stable as that of best friend.
My heart rolled my eyes silently, but I endured it, after all, I was just accompanying me on a blind date.
Then, he changed his subject and suddenly said that the child must not take the surname of the woman in the future, and that he would not accept half-married marriage, etc.
My best friend said that her parents were very open-minded and did not have the requirement to marry into a family, and they didn't care about who the child had the surname.
Maybe he was very satisfied with this answer, and made even more uncomfortable requests: he should take his mother to Guangzhou to live with him after marriage.
Then he began to complain about his mother's difficult life. His father was irresponsible and was the boss. His mother not only had all the housework but also had to make money to pull the brother and brother to grow up.
I hope to get my grandson as soon as possible now, so I hope my best friend can be more filial and not let his mother work hard (meaning that it means that all housework is included, and he will have more children after listening to his mother's words).
I asked him, how can you live in your 72-square-meter house if your child is born? He said, didn’t she (referring to my best friend) have a set of more than 130 square meters? Then you can just live in her.
! ! ! I didn't want to refute him based on politeness, but he probably didn't see our expressions right, so he started a deep education from his father: Being a wife and a wife, you should be as virtuous as my mother, put your husband's family first and family first...
To sum up: I not only want your house, but also want you to serve the whole family in marriage.
I couldn't bear it anymore and finally couldn't help it, so I scolded him: It's not easy for your mother to be caused by your father, please go find your father.
Do you think it’s not easy for your mother? So have you done anything for her? Will you marry a wife and go back to help you serve her? Although you are ugly, you think beautifully.
After saying that, we put down two-thirds of the meal fee and left. Then, there was nothing...
blind date male second
matchmaker said, "My brother is tall, big and good, and he is very good at giving birth to you."
added WeChat in advance. When he made an appointment, he said he wanted to go to the city to relax. My best friend asked him if he should go to a quiet place to relax? He replied: "Relaxation lies in the heart, not where to go." This style is full of pretense.
We still went to the appointment despite the traffic jams on National Day.
As soon as we met, it was indeed as the matchmaker said, and it was very tall. It was estimated to be about 180cm, which was very comparable to the height of my best friend 165cm.
But probably every boy is eager to show his 180, for fear that others won't know.
While waiting in the restaurant, he lay on a chair with his feet stretched forward, without caring about the coming and going people stepping over his feet.
It was not until a child almost tripped and his best friend reminded him to put his feet away, and he reluctantly put away his long legs that had nowhere to rest.
Finally waited until we could have dinner and started chatting. He is extremely concerned about his best friend's income and work and keeps asking. After receiving the reply, we also began to ask about his income.
He asked my best friend what requirements do he have for the man’s job and income. My best friend said that his work is stable and his annual income is more than 150,000 yuan (less than half of his best friend’s income, so please don’t argue with this salary requirement, it’s all relative).
result, the weird man said, if I have this income, how can I talk to you? It’s better to find a young one.
I was speechless for a moment and couldn't think of anything to retort him.
Although this is the real idea of many men, speaking it directly makes people want to beat him.
not only disrespects people, but also exposes emotional intelligence and IQ that is inversely proportional to height! The paying session of
is coming in a climax. The waiter saw that he was the only boy, and he habitually put the bill in front of him. After he took the bill, he pushed it directly in front of us.
We have always insisted on spending AA during blind dates, but we never thought of treating blind date men to dinner! ! !
However, in this case, we just wanted to leave quickly and didn't want to be disgusted with him.
So, in the end, my best friend paid the order, and then there was no more...
The profession of a blind date man is a small internet celebrity on a certain video website. He looks like he has a low IQ by pretending to be ugly and having no lower limit to attract traffic.
He knew that I wrote a public account and said that I could help promote it in his video. I declined him and felt that it would insult my diligent code.
blind date male three
matchmaker said: "My brother is very ambitious. Now he is starting a business and wants to make a lot of money."
In order not to be a sucker, he invited the blind date man to dinner. The place he met this time was at his best friend's house.
As soon as I arrived at her house, I saw two aunts in their 50s (one was a matchmaker and the other was the man’s mother). I thought the man went to the bathroom.
So, I sat there and listened to the two aunts raving and praising the man, and probably got the following information: the man originally worked in a state-owned enterprise (there is no certainty in the establishment), but I felt that it made too little money.
So, he quit his job at the age of 35 and started a business with his friends.
is currently in its infancy, but he is "very hardworking" and devotes all his savings to entrepreneurship, so he is still living in a relative's house, busy with projects every day, and has no time to come back on National Day.
(⊙o⊙)…so it’s my mother who came on the blind date.
Later, the two of them added WeChat and originally wanted to make an appointment to go back to Guangzhou to meet after National Day. However, the man insisted on going to Huizhou because his parents both worked in Huizhou.
~~Why do two adults in Guangzhou have to go to Huizhou to meet under the witness of their parents? I don't understand what kind of operation and psychology this is.
During the chat, he was not interested in his best friend's life and work, but he always mentioned from time to time which big person he was going to Shanghai today and to go to Beijing to discuss a big project tomorrow.
Best friend asked me what I think.
I think that even if the scam of "pig killing" is ruled out, this entrepreneurial man will not be a good match.
Don’t think that every entrepreneurial man is the “domineering president” in the TV series. It is likely that he is just a high-minded person and has no achievements in the workplace, so he changes the track and makes trouble.
Normally, those who really have passion for starting a business should be after graduation. When people reach middle age, especially in recent years of the epidemic, the general mentality is to seek stability first and not to quit rashly start a business.
If we just graduated and were in our 20s, we could accompany him to work hard and start a business. Even if we fail, we would never start over.
But we are all 30+, and there are not many trial and error opportunities. As soon as we get married, we will put the baby on the agenda. At this time, a stable living environment is more important.
At this age, I would rather choose a dedicated worker than take the risk of choosing an entrepreneurial man.
, especially now, is still in an unstable stage. Not only do you have to support him, but you have to endure his work hours and be widowed to take care of his children. If you fail, you have to share the debt with him. The risk is too great.
is still talking about this person. I remind my best friend that chatting doesn’t matter, but if you want to invest, you must refuse.
blind date male four
matchmaker said, "My brother is an honest person, very happy (diligent), but a little short."
Under the blows of the first three, what do we think short is? Having a normal view of women is more important.
Meeting again made an afternoon tea, and he arrived first and took a seat to wait for us. This action was very important.
The entire chat process is quite pleasant. He can basically take on any topic. He has no particularly outrageous remarks. He will also find topics when the situation is in a cold situation.
I think I should withdraw at this time and give them time to understand each other.
Later my best friend told me that the two were from another place, with a distance of more than 400 kilometers.
The man is very proactive and said that he is disliked by many girls because he is short (162cm), so he remains to this day.
He doesn't mind that his best friend is taller than him, which can just improve the genes of the next generation. Since his best friend is 30+ and is anxious to get married, he is willing to resign and go to Guangzhou immediately.
But when asked what plans he had to go to Guangzhou, he said he didn't know, so he would go to his best friend's place to live first.
was so scared that my best friend quickly blocked him. Why does a man take it for granted to live in a single woman’s house? ! ! Even if you are 30+, you won’t just catch any one on the street and get married!
It can be imagined that once you go up, your best friend will carry a heavy moral shackle. I have sacrificed so much for you to come to Guangzhou for you. What's wrong with you supporting me for the time being? How can you still get angry and quarrel with me? If it is not suitable, if you want to break up, you will probably be criticized by thousands of people.
The holiday is coming to an end, and the blind date drama has come to an end. My best friend told me resentfully that I should cherish my teammates and not want to divorce when I have a quarrel. If you really get divorced and take care of your child, the situation you face will only be worse than her.
When I met these blind date men, my biggest gain was that I liked my teammates a lot. Although he has many shortcomings, he is at least a normal person.
Spiritual Chicken Soup says: Low-quality marriage is not as good as high-quality singles.
TV series tells us again: It's just thirty. Wang Manni When returning to the town, he can still get the favor and pursuit of "promising young people".
However, the real blind date market is: it is only thirty.
After 30 years old, the matchmaker will keep telling you that you are already over 30 years old. Don’t be too picky. Just give it a little harder after marriage, and life can be lived.
Even their parents are old and unable to sleep or eat.
We think this is ridiculous. Before marriage, we were already "hard donkeys". I have accumulated capital for myself, not to help the poor after getting married.
If you have to work harder than now, why get married? To have a child legally?
But we are ordinary people, and we don’t want DINK , and we also long for marriage to fulfill worldly expectations. Therefore, it is both split and confused.
can only complete blind dates one after another, and meet one object after another who breaks through imagination.
seems to be able to comfort my parents and myself. I have tried my best.
Otherwise, what else can I do?
Some pictures are from the Internet
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