In the relationship between men and women, the most important thing is to be honest with each other, and the most feared thing is to deceive.
You treat the other person sincerely and hope that the other person can be treated sincerely. If you find that you are lying to the other person and cheating on you, you will feel very disappointed, sad and angry.
Good relationship is based on sincerity. Once deception occurs, it will be difficult for this relationship to continue.
Women cannot accept men's lies, but a kind lie is a manifestation of true love.
If a man really loves a woman, he will be unable to help but tell these three lies to her. Don’t misunderstand women.
01
I have time
I have heard a saying: For important people, the people you like are always ready.
If a man likes you, he will always say to you "have time".
When you need him, even if he is busy, he will lie to you that he has time and will appear by your side as soon as possible.
In his opinion, nothing is more important than you. You can work overtime when you have too much work, and you can make an appointment with friends another day.
Only those who have you in their hearts will value you so much. And those who don’t have you in their hearts will find various reasons to say they can’t leave even if they are not busy.
In life, there are always women who complain about their partner: he always says he has no time and doesn’t have time to reply on the phone or WeChat. I don’t believe that he really doesn’t have any time.
Yes, no matter how busy you are, don’t you even have a minute to reply? He knew that women would be anxious, but he ignored them.
Zhang Ailing once said: If a person is alone, it is because he doesn’t want to have time. If a person cannot walk away, it is because he does not want to walk away. If a person makes too many excuses for you, it is because he doesn't care.
A man really loves you, and even if he is very busy, he will lie to you and say "having time". It’s not that he is not busy, but that he cares about your feelings and is willing to give you time because you are the most important in his heart.
02
Not bother
If a man likes a woman, he will be willing to do anything for her and will not be troublesome.
What you like will do everything he can to find for you, and it will only make you smile if you are trying hard.
He wants to send you home. No matter how far he is, he will "go along the way" just to stay with you for a while.
The food you like to eat, no matter how cold the weather is or how late the night, he will go out to buy it for you, not afraid of trouble.
He really likes you, so he will think about you, try his best to meet your requirements, and be willing to work hard.
There is no effort in this world for no reason, and no one likes to be troubled and burdened. All efforts are because of love.
A man who loves you will never be afraid of you trouble him, just afraid that you will not trouble him.
He is willing to give more in exchange for your happiness. When he sees you happy, he will be happy. It is worth doing everything for you no matter how troublesome it is.
The man who loves you deeply is always afraid of not doing enough to you or not being good enough. A man who doesn't love you will only blame you for being too troublesome and disturbing him.
03
I'm fine
Tu Lei once said: No matter how poor or embarrassed a man is, he is financially struggling, and he is willing to give her all his beloved woman and take the initiative to give her a sense of security.
The man who loves you will show a strong image in front of you, making you feel that he can rely on.
But men will also encounter difficulties and weakness. In order not to worry about their beloved women, they often report good news but not bad news, and lied to you to say "I'm fine."
He would rather bear everything alone and endure the pain than make you sad and worried about him.
In front of you, he will force himself to keep his energy and not show any thoughts. When you find that he has something to do, he will comfort you again: Don't worry, it's okay.
Men are also human beings and sometimes weak, but they assume more responsibilities and responsibilities, so they show strength.
The world of adults, there is no word easy. It’s not that men are not tired or painful, they just don’t want to cry out for pain in front of you.
A man would rather leave the pain to himself. No matter how tired or hard he is, he never complains and will find a way to solve it himself. The lies he told you were actually just to reassure you.
When a man always reports good news to you but not bad news, it means that he is deeply in love with you and wants to give you a sense of security.
Conclusion:
Yishu said: Such things as emotions are unreasonable. If you want to fall in love with someone, your body cannot control your master, and your heart cannot control your master.
A man loves a woman deeply and will think about her, want her to be happy, do anything for her, and sometimes he will say "a lie with kindness".
Sweet words are not necessarily out of sincerity, and a kind lie may also be due to true love.
Whether a man is sincere to you or falsely, it does not depend on what he says to you, but on what he does for you.
A man lies but does what he does sincerely to you. Such a man is a manifestation of loving you deeply.
When you meet such a man, women must understand his painstaking efforts, know how to cherish, and seize their own happiness!
