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There is a saying on the Internet that men's aesthetics are consistent and they always love 18-year-old women.
In the eyes of many people, men's love for women is always superficial. They value young bodies and beautiful faces, but in fact, truly mature men care about more than these empty skins.
Women who can fascinate middle-aged men often have these commonalities, which many people ignore.
1: Gentle
As the saying goes, use softness to overcome hardness. Facing a woman who is gentle enough, she can turn into softness around her fingers, and even the toughest man will be defeated.
Gentleness is the best weapon for women and can make women invincible in the men's world.
A woman’s tenderness is not weakness, not submissiveness, not a bottomless concession, but a kind of grandeur and tolerance. Gentleness can be understood as gentleness and softness, and is the wisdom to avoid its sharp edge when facing men.
Some women always can’t learn to be gentle. Even if they are full of love for this man in their hearts, they have to pretend to be tough.
They are worried that men will regard their tenderness as weakness and will use their tenderness to hurt them. This idea actually misunderstands the true meaning of gentleness.
A woman's tenderness is a kind of wisdom. When two people have differences, if both sides are at a strife, then their emotions will only become more and more irritable, and eventually a small difference may also evolve into a rift that can never be compensated.
However, if a woman can be gentler when both parties are very excited, making the man's anger feel like he is hitting cotton, so his emotions will gradually calm down.
After both sides calmed down, the problem was solved.
Men are also human beings, and they will also be tired. What they want is not a rival who faces him every day, but a gentle harbor where they can rest and relax.
2: Independent
Most men have some heroic complex, and they hope that their women can trust and rely on him.
However, the dependence and care given by men are not without bottom line. If a woman cannot learn to be independent and attach to a man like a dodder, men will sooner or later feel bored.
Independent women have their own unique charm. They know where men’s bottom line lies, and they know that men’s love has a limit, so they will make good use of their dependence.
Try to do what you can do yourself. Only when the conditions are right will you seek help from a man. The accidental dependence of
is particularly precious for men because of its rareness, and also makes them feel more fulfilled. If you have to ask a man for help in big or small matters, the man will only feel troublesome and tired.
Independent women also have a cold aura in love, because they are fully capable of handling their own affairs, so they do not have to rely on men. They are devoted and do not rely on this relationship, so they will not lose themselves for this relationship.
It is this kind of distant alienation and freedom that makes men even more fascinated.
3: Strong
A strong woman is like a green bamboo, with her own character.
Although men will be moved by women's tears, they respect those strong women from the bottom of their hearts. Such women will let men see their tenacity, and men will believe more that such women can not only share the joys and sorrows with them.
A woman’s strength is not a show of strength, but a kind of strong tenacity. Even if you face setbacks, you can accept them calmly and regain your momentum even when facing failures.
There are already too many struggles and pressure in men's world. In fact, what they want most is not a canary who is waiting for them to take care of. What they want is a comrade who can help them share the pressure and fight side by side with them.
In fact, women's charm is far more than the three points mentioned above. Every woman is a unique flower with its own unique fragrance. What a woman needs to do is to be herself truly.
If you bloom, the butterfly will come, and there will definitely be a man attracted to you. Instead of trying to please men, turning yourself into a person who is not like yourself and throwing away your true self.
The one man falls in love with is the original you.
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