In the eyes of men, hometown is the root, in the eyes of women, parents' home is the root. No matter how far away they are, their parents' home is always cared about by married women. At the same time, their parents' home is also a "safe haven" for married women to suffer in their in-laws' home. That's what the woman Dandan thinks.
On this day, after Dandan and Zaogen completed the divorce procedures, they resolutely returned to their parents' home.
It’s OK to divorce. There is no hope of living with such a man. It’s long time since I’m leaving. I still have a mother when I go back to my parents’ home. Let’s find a good family to marry in the future! Mother, Grandma Li, comforted Dandan.
Just like that, Dandan lived in her parents' home.
One day, Grandma Li's daughter-in-law said to Dandan: You can live in your parents' home for a few days after divorce, but you can't live in your parents' home for a long time. Don't you feel that your life in your parents' home has caused us inconvenience?
Grandma Li said to her daughter-in-law angrily: Didn’t Dandan go back to her parents’ home because she had one more person at home? And she had a salary and didn’t eat her parents’ home in vain. Besides, the house you live in was bought by Dandan for some money. Don’t be ungrateful!
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Dandan and her husband are rooted in love and get married freely. They are said to have a basis for emotionality, but their feelings will also be defeated by reality.
The hometown where he took root is from the countryside. After graduating from university, he became a teacher and married Dandan, a teacher in the same school. Because the rooted family is relatively poor and cannot afford to buy a wedding house, they rent a house outside. After getting married, Zhagen said to Dandan: You know, it is very difficult for a young man in the countryside to find a partner now. My parents have little farming income, and my younger brother is working, and he has never had a partner. I decided to hand over my salary to my parents in the future, and your salary will be used for the lives of the two of us!
Dandan was very dissatisfied and said to Zagan: We don’t have a house to live in yet. When can we afford a house if you do this?
took root and said: Let’s live a tight life first. When my brother gets married, my salary will no longer be given to my parents!
helpless, Dandan had to take root. However, over time, Dandan feels more and more unfair the more she thinks. So she said to Zagan: You have a younger brother, and I also have a younger brother, let’s help each of you!
Although Dandan is from the city, her family’s financial conditions are average. Her younger brother is going to get married. Her parents are trying to raise funds for her younger brother’s house. Dandan takes the initiative to find Grandma Li and said: Mom, I’ll do my best to buy a wedding house for my younger brother! Grandma Li said: You don’t have a house when you get married, so take care of yourself first! Dandan then told the roots of the matter. Grandma Li said: I told you at the beginning that you should not find someone with two brothers when you find a partner. If you don’t listen, your husband will help his brother get a wife and earn money. He will also support his parents in the future. It’s good that you do this, it’s fair!
Dandan handed over his salary to his mother to help his younger brother buy a house. Her husband took root and was very angry. He said to Dandan: I married you. It is very honored to be a family member in our hometown. They all praised me for finding a city teacher. Our parents hoped that we would change the appearance of our family. If you get married like this, you will not be able to care about your mother-in-law’s family!
Dan was very dissatisfied with her husband's roots. She said: You don't care about your own little family, why are you doing when you get married? My grandmother Gu’s family was yours!
For this reason, the couple often quarreled, their relationship became increasingly weak, and they divorced.
Dandan's parents bought a wedding house for their younger brother. After their younger brother got married, they lived with their parents. Now Dandan divorced and returned to her parents' home. His daughter-in-law Jiaojiao was very dissatisfied with Grandma Li's performance. It turned out that Dandan did not return to her parents' home. Grandma Li was very good to Jiaojiao. Now Dandan has returned to her parents' home. Grandma Li often chatted with Dandan and asked Jiaojiao to wash clothes, cook and do housework. Jiaojiao decided to let Dandan leave her home.
So, in front of Dandan, Jiaojiao bluntly asked her to leave her parents' home, which was opposed by Grandma Li, because Grandma Li believed that Dandan was not only her biological daughter, but also made a lot of contributions to her marrying her daughter-in-law to buy a house.
Dandan is a sensible person. She said to Grandma Li: Mom, you, dad and brother are both my relatives, but my sister-in-law is different. For the sake of harmony at home, I no longer live in my parents' home, so I go out to rent a house by myself!
Dandan left her parents' home, and she shed tears sadly. She found that her parents' home was not a "safe haven" for married women to be hurt. The divorced woman was like floating leaves, but she hoped to fall into a happy place as soon as possible.
