Single mothers belong to the vulnerable group in the eyes of ordinary people. It is not that they have a low status, but that they have a heavy burden. Compared with a complete family, single mothers suffer far more pressure than they imagined.
Some people may say that the burden on a single father is as heavy as it is, why should a single mother work harder?
This starts with the real society. Men can stay at their own home when they divorce, while single mothers cannot stay in their in-laws' house, and their parents' homes do not welcome them back. This phenomenon is very common. There is no need to say much about the reasons for
. It is not realistic to take the child back to your parents' home after divorce, and it is not realistic to live for a long time.
Documentary: A young man is entangled by a single mother and refuses to let him go
In theory, single mothers should feel glad when they meet a man who treats him sincerely. Even if they are unintentional, they should not make any decisions on others, but the reality is speechless.
Mr. Liu is 35 years old. Because he is busy with his career, he has never solved his personal problems. By chance, he met Xiaomei, a single mother who runs a clothing store.
Although the other party was divorced and he still had a 7-year-old child, Xiaomei's temperament is not inferior to that of a young girl in her 20s.
Mr. Liu launched a fierce pursuit of him. He thought he could get a satisfactory result, but he didn't expect to be entangled.
Ask for 2 million to buy a house
After a period of time, Mr. Liu found that Xiaomei is an extremely realistic person. He always likes to start from the perspective of interests when considering problems.
Of course, as a single mother, it is understandable to look at the reality of the problem, but too much interest in the relationship is a bit put before the horse. He spent nearly 50,000 yuan on Xiaomei in just two months, but Xiaomei was still not satisfied.
When talking about marriage, Xiaomei directly offered a price of 2 million yuan, with the reason to give herself and her children a guarantee, and she wanted to buy a house.
This requirement is much greater than Mr. Liu expected. His money was not blown by the strong wind. He could make such a request before getting married. He could not imagine the days after getting married.
also needs to pay 50,000
After the negotiation failed, Mr. Liu proposed to break up. Unexpectedly, Xiaomei did not let him go and asked for 50,000 yuan of mental loss, on the grounds that falling in love with him added a lot to his emotional experience, and the difficulty of remarrying has increased.
. Mr. Liu thought this request was nonsense. "I didn't ask her for the 50,000 yuan, which is worthy of her. She is endless."
After Mr. Liu was rejected by Mr. Liu, Xiaomei actually took her family to ask Mr. Liu's father for an explanation. For the sake of the so-called reputation, she was relied on.
Because the problem cannot be solved, Mr. Liu asked the reporter for help. He was still too naive. Since Xiaomei could give up her face to compensate, she would not be afraid of being exposed...
This is another typical example of meeting bad people. There are more and more elderly single people in society, and there are many people who are as ill as Mr. Liu who are eager to seek medical treatment.
Getting married for the sake of getting married is actually pushing oneself into the abyss. Some people’s divorce is indeed a one-sided problem, while some people’s divorce is a slap.
rashly investing without understanding is a lack of rationality. The author does not recommend marrying a second marriage, but rather knowing the real reason for the other party’s divorce and seeing whether there are shortcomings in personality and three views.
Besides, being single has become the norm now. No one looks down on anyone. Just live your own life well. If you can’t find a suitable one, it’s better to continue being single than to try your own life.
