Last time I saw several signs of a marriage breaking up, but is there any way to repair the marriage when it is about to end? The author gave us 7 rules.
The first rule is to improve your love map. If you love him, you must understand him. Many married couples have changed into similar things, not caring about their lack of trivial matters in life, and only a rough impression of the fun, preference, fear and pressure of one or both of the couples. Couples with high emotional intelligence can immediately understand each other's world. The author calls this area full of life trivia a love map, the term refers to the place in your brain where all relevant life information about your spouse is stored.
Without such a love map, you can't really understand your spouse. If you don't know someone, how can you fall in love with him? The more familiar you are with each other, the easier it is for you to stay in touch with each other, as if life is spinning around you.
The question that is often used is whether you know the name of your spouse’s close friend, do you know the pressure your spouse is currently facing? Can you name the person who has annoyed your spouse recently? etc. The more you understand each other's inner world, the deeper your relationship will be and the richer your rewards will be.
