Chen Xiaoqing said:
"There are three things in the world that cannot be hidden, poverty, cough and love."
Perhaps there are too many things that happen to us in life that we can all disguise and hide them and cannot be discovered by others.
But feelings are an exception.
Love someone, the full love will make you feel clearly. If you don’t love someone, the heartless indifference will also make you feel clearly.
In a relationship, if a man has the following three changes, then it is obvious that he has no feelings for you anymore. What you need to do is to recognize it as soon as possible and stop the loss in time.
reject contact with
has something to say:
"Whether to love someone or not, the physical distance is the most obvious."
Indeed, words can be disguised, care can be faked, but the body's instinctive reaction cannot deceive people.
If a person's body becomes repulsive to you and deliberately keeps a distance from you, then he must have no feelings for you, or even dislikes you.
I once watched a video like this:
A couple resting in the rest area, and the girl naturally moved the stool to a position next to the man.
But when the woman sat down and was about to hug the man's arm, the man immediately avoided and moved the stool outward.
The girl was naturally very unhappy about the man's behavior and asked him: "Why do you deliberately keep a distance from me? Are you tired of me?"
The man just explained:
"So many people, the impact is not good."
But from the clips in the girl's memories, we can see that when the two of them were together, even in the crowd, he would hold her hand tightly!
Instinctive reaction best shows a person's psychological changes.
If a man really loves a woman, he must hope to get close and embrace each other tightly. After all, love is deeply in love.
But when a man is deliberately repelling contact, and even when you get close to him, he will look disgusted. This only means that he no longer loves you, or even gets bored.
lack of patience
I really like the love words in a novel:
"For you, I have the greatest patience in the world."
Once you really belong to a person, then the passionate love will make people completely change. No matter how boring it is or how boring it is, as long as it is you, he will not be irritated.
On the contrary, if a man is with you, he always complains all kinds of times, and even doesn't want to waste even a minute of time on you.
Then it's not because he's busy, but because you don't matter in his heart.
My friend Xiaorui and her ex have been together for three years.
Xiaorui is a clingy and slow-tempered person. When the two of them were together, he was really nice to Xiaorui.
In Xiaorui's words, I would chat with her at night without getting tired of it, and would accompany her to go shopping and shop whenever I had time. Sometimes I would wait for two or three hours and never complain.
But in the six months before the breakup, Xiaorui clearly felt that he had changed.
In the process of living together, he was impatient as long as it was Xiaorui. Once he dated Xiaorui because he was a little slower and was just 10 minutes late, he got angry with Xiaorui.
At the beginning, Xiaorui felt that it was just because he was under too much pressure that he became so happy and angry.
But it was not until Xiao Rui discovered his ulterior motives on his mobile phone that she truly realized that this change was just because she didn't love her anymore.
What does it look like to love someone?
is actually to keep the warmest sincerity, keep the greatest patience, be deeply in love, and never leave it for a lifetime.
A man’s feelings have always been very realistic. The more he loves you, the more patience he will have.
If a man has no patience with you, it only means that he has no love.
Nothing to say
Teacher He said:
"The end of a relationship often starts with two people having nothing to say. When one party loses the desire to share, the words naturally become less. No communication is needed, and a stranger becomes."
Love will inevitably be accompanied by sharing.
Those couples who love each other deeply will inevitably have endless things to say and endless things to share.
But once a person becomes silent and doesn't want to say a word with you, and doesn't want to hear about your affairs at all, then it's obvious that your relationship has become unfamiliar.
TV series " My First Half of Life ", Luo Zijun and Chen Junsheng got married because of love, and it was precisely because of his deep love for Chen Junsheng that Luo Zijun was willing to be a full-time housewife after graduating from college.
But time can really erase too many things, including feelings.
In the play, we can see that during the period before the divorce, Chen Junsheng was no longer willing to communicate with Luo Zijun when he returned home.
When Luo Zijun chattered about some new things she encountered in one day, Chen Junsheng not only looked tired, but also deliberately left with an excuse for having a job.
Good feelings need to be shared and communicated. Of course, for those who love each other, they will be happy to share them.
But once in a relationship, the two people suddenly become quiet together and there is nothing to say, then love will be gone and feelings will become dispensable.
Love or not love someone, some of the manifestations are really hard to hide.
When a man has the above three changes to you, it is obvious that his love for you is gone.
What you need to do is to recognize it as soon as possible and stay away in time.
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Author: Li Yu Weiliang, a post-90s writer who can be rational and emotional, likes to express personal opinions in words, bringing you spiritual healing, emotional resolving, and life insights.
