I heard a friend say that his wife came over to him at two or three in the morning to pick skewers when they were not married. I couldn't help but like him before I heard the following text. I could endure it in this way, and I really loved it.
He did have a happy smile on his face, but he said that the person who loved him miserably was him and his wife. That day was actually the day when his wife went abroad, and she could only come back once a year. She took a car for more than two hours to meet me. I would go over to see her after dawn, but she couldn't wait...
My friend nagged a lot behind me, and the more I heard it, the more I understood that this was not a complaint, it was clearly trying to show my love!
However, in love, many seemingly unreasonable behaviors do contain a lot of affection.
and The way women miss you: toss .
When longing comes to you like a tide, feelings are often eager to find a vent, so many women will try to mess with their beloved.
They may be so crazy that they drove hundreds of kilometers of night trains because of the words "I miss you". They may be so brave that they will fly into the flames to love someone because of a promise.
In many cases, when a woman falls into a relationship, she will do many irrational and even extreme behaviors.
Their rationality clearly tells themselves that they should not do that, but the surging thoughts and vigorous love make them no longer like themselves.
I was obviously very tired, but when I saw the other person, all my fatigue seemed to have disappeared; I was obviously very confused, but after I started missing the other person, I felt that I had found motivation.
The different ways of thinking between men and women make the way both parties express their longing differently, and for women, the way of missing them is often tossing.
In the book "Ping Ru Meitang: Our Love", it records a small matter:
When Meitang was very sick, she wanted to eat horseshoe cake. Ping Ru rode a bicycle for a long time without saying a word and bought it back.
But I bought the cake, but Meitang said she didn't want to eat it like a child. Pingru wrote in the book at that time: "I was eighty-seven years old at that time. After my children learned about this, they all blamed me for not riding a bike out at night. I knew that my mother was confused at that time. But I was always unable to get used to it. I couldn't follow her what she told me to do."
Perhaps from the perspective of an outsider, Meitang was too willful. She knew that Pingru was old and had to torment him so much, but Pingru, the person in the game, had no complaints about it, but she just said plainly that she could not meet her requirements.
In love, it is like a person who knows the warmth and coldness of water. Outsiders cannot see the surging tides in it, nor can they feel the deep affection in it.
In the eyes of outsiders, Haitang is just making trouble and tossing, while in Pingru's eyes, Haitang is just telling his longing and his needs.
Not all affection is gathered in that straightforward sentence "I love you", but all affection can be turned into countless tangible actions.
Some men always feel that women's emotions are unstable. They are obviously happy the previous second, but the next second suddenly they have a cold face and ignore others.
The man was confused and began to complain about the woman's heart being in the bottom of the sea, pushing all the misunderstanding to the woman.
But in fact, there is no one in this world who will make emotions for no reason. Everything will have cause and effect, but not everyone can find the cause, and more people can only see the consequences.
In love, if a woman really often uses tantrums to mess with you, then what you should do most is not to complain, but to analyze the causes and consequences and understand how women think in their hearts.
You must understand that everyone in this world is an independent individual with their own thoughts. It is normal for you to not understand a person’s behavior.
But if you want to be with someone for a long time, you have to try to understand the other person's behavior and accept the other person's different opinions.
Take a step back, if you always only care about your own opinions in a relationship, then no matter how many people you meet, you will not be able to find someone who can accompany you for a long time.
In fact, once a woman's heart moves into someone, her emotions will have a lot to do with the other party. A word from the other party or a micro-expression from the other party can easily make the woman have many thoughts, arouse their fear, and cause their random thoughts.
Miss you in my heart, but I haven’t seen a greeting from morning to night. They will feel extremely lost in their hearts. Lost is particularly easy to cause random thoughts, which will turn into seemingly unreasonable tossing.
If you easily feel that a woman is unreasonable because of her troubles, it will be particularly easy to hurt the woman's heart, allowing the woman to further confirm all kinds of absurd thoughts in her heart, and eventually there will be cracks that cannot be reunited.
If you really want a sincere relationship, try to understand the other person.
I am Aya, the writer of warm emotions. How lucky I can meet you in this life! Click to follow and let’s learn together!
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