"One flower, one world, , one leaf, one Bodhi ." The world calls love in various ways, but when people are desperate, only love can bring warmth across thousands of mountains and rivers, allowing you to regain hope.
But love is not omnipotent. When love returns to life, it will reveal its authenticity while showing its romance. Many times, although we have been together for a long time, in the end, we find that it is just a dream of the same bed and a different dream for many years.
For women, such a truth is very cruel. Many times, you can only give naively in the other party's lies, and you also think you have found true love. In the end, it is just a dream that ruins all the beauty.
Therefore, women should not entrust themselves at will. Even if they have been together for a long time, they should be clear about the other person's feelings, do not give in a mess, and do not make excuses for someone who does not cherish you.
In this life, people want to find someone who loves you. Life is short, don’t use love as a bet.
And in life, if you want to know whether a man loves you, you might as well test it like this.
1: Appropriately disconnect and look at his attitude
Many women will give without hesitation once they enter into their relationship, hoping to move the other person with full enthusiasm. However, they do not know that many times feelings are like sand in their hands. The tighter they hold, the easier it is to disperse.
So, if you want to know whether a man loves you, don’t be blindly enthusiastic. You might as well break off the connection appropriately and look at his attitude.
If a man is not directly insensitive to your disconnection, he will not try to contact you, and your disappearance does not cause any trouble to his life, it means that he does not love you at all. No matter how long you have been together, you must learn to let go.
Because your disconnection doesn't matter to him. You are like any passerby in his life, just passing by in a hurry and encountering a story, the ending is always to leave, so your disconnection is something he already had the idea.
When he treats you as one of these, there is no need to give his sincerity. Even if you are together, it is just your wishful thinking.
You cannot get your expectations for your relationship in this relationship, nor can you truly gain happiness.
If he really loves you, he will become anxious at the first moment when you are disconnected. He knows that he cannot lose you. This anxiety is out of love for you and care for you. Women must see this clearly.
Only in this way can we live up to the deep affection, and it is not bad to give deep affection. On the road ahead, we can cherish what should be cherished and let go of what does not belong to us.
2: See if he is willing to spend money for you
Many people always think that love is great and can transcend life and death, but love has its realistic side. Not to mention life and death, many times, they cannot overcome this hurdle of life. You must know that when love enters life, it cannot avoid material things.
Material is not omnipotent, but talking about feelings without matter is empty talk and has no practical effect. It is like some general promises that have been destroyed by the end of the world, and it is just a disguise of a lie.
So, if you want to know whether a man loves you, the easiest way is to see if he is willing to spend money on you. This method is very direct and very objective.
If he is unwilling to spend money for you, then you must stay away from such a man as soon as possible and don’t make excuses for him. This has nothing to do with being stingy. You just don’t matter to him. Naturally, he doesn’t want to spend his hard-earned money on you.
Love itself is like a transaction, two people keep investing in it, trying to get the return they want, but if one of them is unwilling and you are the only one investing, then you will only get the opposite effect.
Any man in the world will be willing to spend money for the person he likes, because they regard each other as their partner in life. If they work hard to develop, they will become each other's family, and it is understandable to spend some money.
So, if you meet a man who is full of sweet words but is always unwilling to spend money on you, no matter how much you love him, you should let go sooner. This relationship was wrong from the beginning, and all your efforts were just digging your own grave.
Because marriage is not the grave of love, choosing the wrong person is, don’t waste energy on those who don’t love you. The most important thing is to bravely pursue the love that truly belongs to you.
3: Try to be cold to your attitude
In life, if a man does not love you enough, then he encounters a little setback on the road to getting along with you, and the other party will think of letting go and will not be willing to work hard for it. Therefore, if you want to know whether a man loves you, you might as well try to be cold to your attitude.
When he sees your lukewarm attitude, if he doesn’t love you, he will give up and will not spend any more time on you, because you are never the only one to him. When you meet such a man, let go early!
Even if the other person’s love for you is not the unique romance in the world, you must be the other person’s only. If what he gives you is the same as what he gives you, then such feelings are meaningless.
Those who love you look at your cold attitude will still care about you. If you encounter something unhappy, only if you have you in your heart will care about your emotions and will not focus on your attitude towards him.
Summary:
Someone said: Love is not as great as we imagined. Love is very simple. Love is just not wanting to wait for a second. I want to find you immediately, and then hold hands with you silently.
It is obvious that love and not love are moving forward desperately, even if you regret it in the future, love has no reason, there is no excuse to be good to you, and I wish I could give you the whole world.
So, if you want to know whether a person loves you or not, you don’t need to deliberately pursue the results. Just try and he can reveal his feet. If you happen to love him too, then cherish each other and keep happy.
