Women are most afraid of having a bad relationship with their parents-in-law after getting married. Many daughters-in-law complain that their parents-in-law are not good to them. They obviously use their own money to buy some cosmetics and skin care products. The parents-in-law may even dislike their daughter-in-law for spending money with big hands, and some even blow their ears in front of their sons and ask their son to talk about their daughter-in-law.
However, some parents-in-law are afraid that their daughter-in-law will suffer from being wronged if they have no money, especially the daughter-in-law who takes care of their children at home and does not work, and cannot make money by themselves. Some things want to buy but do not have the financial conditions, especially those who have average economic foundations in their in-laws, and those who are daughter-in-law dare not spend money indiscriminately. These in-laws see it, and they often use their own money to subsidize their daughter-in-law.
The daughter-in-law also understands the elderly’s painstaking efforts. Even if the elderly give themselves money, they will not spend it indiscriminately, but will use it for family expenses. Some daughters-in-law even took care of their parents-in-law and husbands, and they were very confident that they could manage the financial expenditures at home. Of course, a wife who can be the leader is also well coordinated in all aspects and will reasonably arrange various expenses at home.
htmlOn October 13, Anhui, a daughter-in-law posted a video of her father-in-law paying money to herself after getting off night shift. Netizens were hotly discussed after watching it. Some netizens think that the daughter-in-law is doing this wrong, and some netizens think that since her father-in-law is willing to hand over the money to her daughter-in-law, the daughter-in-law must be very good to the elderly in normal times. In the video of
, the father-in-law came in public. When the daughter-in-law saw her father-in-law get off work, she hurriedly greeted him and said, "My dad, are you back from get off work?" The father-in-law agreed with a smile, "Yes, yes." The daughter-in-law asked, "You are just getting off work now? It's very tiring to get off work over night." The father-in-law still agreed happily and walked into the house.
Granddaughter saw her grandfather coming back, and jumped forward to greet him, while shouting, "Grandpa, grandpa!" The child ran up to hug her grandpa. While agreeing, he was pulling something out of his shirt pocket. After a while, the old man took out a stack of hundred-dollar bills.
The old man walked over to his daughter-in-law and handed the money in his hand to his daughter-in-law, saying, "I paid my salary today, and I paid 1,600 yuan. I will collect it all for you." The daughter-in-law didn't hear it clearly and asked, "How much did I pay?" The old man thought his daughter-in-law thought he had a low salary, so he replied a little crampedly, "It's only 1,600, not as much as your mother gave you." After the old man said, he looked a little at a loss. When the daughter-in-law heard her father-in-law say such words, tears were flowing in her eyes.
The daughter-in-law kept the money and told her father-in-law that she did not dislike the amount of money he gave, but she felt that the old man did not need to hand over all the money to him, but the old man said, "You are all in the house, and we can rest assured to hand it over to you." The daughter-in-law was very moved when she heard it, and felt that she was fortunate to meet such a kind father-in-law.
Netizens felt bad when they saw it. Some netizens said: "A daughter-in-law should not accept this money. After all, the elderly also need money, and only with money can they feel safe. Besides, the elderly are gone in the future. Aren’t this money left for their sons and daughters-in-law? "
Some netizens believe that since the elderly hand over the money to their daughter-in-law, the daughter-in-law must be very good to the elderly. Everyone is mutual, so the elderly treat their daughter-in-law as an outsider, and the daughter-in-law will treat the elderly as their own parents.
Some netizens also think it is too difficult for the elderly to make money. They have not even warmed up even after they have paid their salary, so they have to hand it over to their daughter-in-law. What's going on? This daughter-in-law really has the heart to take it.
Zimo Chat Interesting News: Seeing the old man giving money to his daughter-in-law's careful look, it was really sad. It is indeed not easy for the elderly to work outside at such an old age. It is estimated that their family’s financial conditions are not very good, so the daughter-in-law is at home to take care of the children, so the two elderly people go out to make money to subsidize their family income.
In fact, they didn’t give the money to her because they wanted to please her. They just because their daughter-in-law was at home to take care of their children, and their daily family expenses were the responsibility, so they gave the money to their daughter-in-law for family expenses. They are all family members, and they don’t think about saving money or anything else. After all, isn’t the goal of their lifelong struggle to watch their son get married and start a business?
Most parents in China are like this. Their lifelong efforts are also for their children. They just want to create good family conditions for their children. So even if they are already past the retirement age, as long as their bodies allow them, they will still be idle. If they can contribute some effort to their children, they will never be lazy.
As long as the whole family is one mind and strives for a common goal, life will definitely get better. As the saying goes: Family harmony is prosperous, and it doesn’t matter who is in charge, but family harmony is the most important.
