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Introduction:
A 65-year-old woman said: "Although I am a little old, I also want to have my own happiness. Love has no age and time limit. My future journey is still long, and I need love and company. But my children oppose it in all kinds of ways. In their eyes, if I remarry, it will be embarrassing. I really don't understand what they think, but I still insist on finding a partner. This is my freedom." What kind of thing is it? Let’s take a look at Ms. Guo’s story together.
Self-reporter: Ms. Guo 65 years old
I am 65 years old this year. When I was young, I worked in the town health center and I am also a serious medical worker. I have worked hard all my life, and now I have finally retired. I want to live my relaxed and happy life, but I always have all kinds of things to worry about, which makes me not very happy after retirement.
My husband and I have a peaceful divorce. My husband and I have different values and their personalities are not very suitable. He always likes to smoke and drink. He likes to beat people after drinking. I am really fed up with such a life. In addition, he is not enterprising and always has a nagging day. I am taking care of the two children in the family by myself. My mother-in-law is not in good health, and he doesn't help me share the burden. I make money and support my family. I was really tired during that period.
Later, the child grew up and became an adult. After going to college, I divorced my husband. In fact, there is no relationship between us. We all know this, but I have endured it for many years for the sake of the child. After the divorce, I felt particularly relaxed and the children started a new journey. I could also make money and go to work happily, and I had no worries every day.
Later, after several years, I always feel very lonely after being alone, especially at night, when it rains or thunders, I feel very scared at home by myself, and the children are not by my side. I just thought that if I meet a suitable man, I still want to get married, but I know that the children are not happy, so I have never had a blind date before the children get married.
Later, my children got married and had their own small family, so I was left alone. I was also at the age of retirement and started to go on blind dates. I did not notify the children in advance. I felt that this matter belonged to me and I had the right to make my own decisions. Then, after introduction from others, I met a man who was one year older than me. He was elegant and polite, and he looked like a very gentleman.
So we started dating slowly because we felt very good about each other and our material conditions were similar. His monthly pension was about 6,000 yuan, and he had a daughter who had already started a family, so I don’t think there was any worries about our life in our later years, but what I didn’t expect was that the problem occurred to my children.
Later, when we wanted to live together, I told my child about this. Unexpectedly, my son and daughter were very angry. They said, "You are so old and you still want to marry a man. You don't feel shy. If you do this, many people will laugh at you and laugh at us. How do you ask us to raise our heads to be human beings?" Every word of their words made me feel heart-wrenching, which made me feel particularly uncomfortable.
After listening to it, I did not agree with their views. Instead, I said a sentence that left them speechless. I said, "You all have started a family and have their own new family, but I still eat and sleep by myself. My life is very boring every day, and I also need company. This has nothing to do with age. Why should I live in other people's opinions? If you care so much, come and spend more time with me, but have you cared about me? Ask yourself.”
My children think I made sense and didn’t care about this matter. Later, I lived with a new man, and I never quarreled after being together, because we all know this age, and what we need is each other’s company, not all day long. We want to feel every bit of a happy life in our care, and I am very happy now.
Today’s topic:
Single elderly people have a very miserable life in their later years. If they are alone without children, they are very lonely. At this time, as children, we must understand and care more. If we cannot accompany our parents as a whole, then follow their parents' ideas for a long time and let them do what they want to do. As long as their parents are happy and happy, do you think single elderly people over 60 years old should remarry and find a partner? Will you object? Everyone is welcome to leave a message in the comment section below to discuss.
Do you think single elderly people over 60 years old should remarry and find a partner? Will you object?
