Author: Xu Zhen
In the night of lightning, a strange noise came from the cold morgue.
The young woman on duty was pushed a trolley, moved closer to the 39th iron cabinet step by step, stretched out her trembling hand and held the cabinet door tightly, and pulled it open hard -
The person in the iron cabinet, with pale face, slowly opened his eyes, staring at the young woman straight, three words floated out of her mouth: "It's so cold."
After a scream, the poor young woman was stunned...
This is the "large-scale" domestic drama " Sanyue has a new job " (hereinafter referred to as "Sanyue") 's high-energy picture.
The man in the iron cabinet is Qin Wei. He slept in the iron cabinet in the morgue, just trying to experience life and find some material for his new documentary.
Who knew that by accident, a makeup artist Zhao Sanyue, who was on night shift, was shocked and fainted.
In addition to being a conscientious director, Qin Wei is also a patient with advanced lung cancer tortured by illness. While filming a funeral documentary, he also chose an urn and a cemetery for himself.
Qin Wei chose the cemetery next to the second sister's cemetery. His second sister died suddenly not long ago.
"In order to give birth to me, my parents gave me the second sister who had cardiomyopathy ."
gave me, which is such an understatement.
Hearing Qin Wei lightly say this word, Zhao Sanyue immediately frowned and pointed out mercilessly: "That's not giving away someone, that's abandonment."
Qin Wei is a child with his parents' extra child. He originally had two twin sisters.
The second sister of Qin Wei is in poor health and suffers from myocarditis . In the eyes of her parents, she is just a sickly drag.
So, the second sister became a victim who could be abandoned at any time.
After abandoning her second sister, her biological parents never visited her and cared about her.
Later, it was the second sister who learned the truth about her abandonment and came to the door to look for her relatives.
And her biological parents still responded coldly.
It was not until the second sister unfortunately died suddenly that her biological parents cried loudly in front of everyone, performing a "touching" family affection.
Qin Wei's eldest sister broke up with her parents when she became an adult. She said: "When I thought of a girl in the world who looks exactly the same as me. Just because she is a girl, she was abandoned by her biological parents, and I can't forgive (parents)."
Qin Wei, who was favored by his parents, tried his best to repair his family relationship and specially selected the tomb next to his second sister. I hope that when his parents sweep the grave for him in the future, they will at least look at his second sister.
He also found his elder sister, hoping that his elder sister could take good care of her parents after he left.
In the end, Qin Wei died of due to lung infection.
At Qin Wei's farewell party, his parents' faces turned gray and yellow, with their eyes lit up like two empty sculptures.
Sanyue remembered the funeral of Qin Wei's second sister. The same pair of parents cried heartbrokenly at the funeral of her second sister and howled earth-shaking.
At that time, the old funeral worker didn't even raise his head, and he pointed out his parents' hypocrisy as soon as he opened his mouth:
"Some people like to use tears and loud voices to prove that they are right."
And now,
"His parents finally no longer need to use loud howling and surging tears to prove their sadness.”
After losing a daughter and a son, Qin Wei’s parents finally realized their mistakes and cried and confessed to their eldest daughter’s mistakes: “Nizi, we were wrong, we are sorry for her! "
At this time, according to many domestic drama routines, the daughter should take the initiative to understand, hug her parents and cry, and the whole family headed towards a happy ending in tears.
But the eldest sister did not choose to forgive, did not choose to reconcile. She turned her head and choked:
"It is not me who wants to hear this sentence most, and I am not qualified to forgive you for her. "
Then, one person leaves and goes further and further.
Reconciliation with a head-wrenching cry is the norm in film and television dramas; in life, you can also choose not to reconcile with bastard parents.
Isn't it a kind of moral kidnapping ? ml5
I remember there was a very classic program called "Chinese Dream Show", hosted by Zhou Libo .
One episode of it is that a girl was abandoned by her biological parents. They abandoned the girl for more than 20 years. They were obviously in a town, but they did not take the initiative to meet the girl. When the girl became an adult and had the ability to support her, her biological parents hoped that the girl would leave her adoptive parents' home and return to her own home.
Zhou Libo asked the girl: "If there is this opportunity, would you be willing to come back? "
The girl held the microphone and said firmly: "I don't want to." "
She said that when she grew up, her adoptive parents treated her as their own son and made up for the lack of family affection.
She said that When she needed her parents the most, her biological parents in the same town were even stingy at her.
If you are that girl, would you be willing to return to your biological parents' home without any grudges?
, and Zhou Libo, as the host, said to the girl high and above:
"Don't be so narrow-minded. "
" Parents also have a hidden secret. "
" Life is an angle. If you don't accept (birth parents), you will never be happy! "
Three combos, every sentence is heartbroken, but every sentence is unreasonable.
He taught girls to be generous, but he did not comment on the indifference of the girl's biological parents for more than 20 years;
He taught girls to be tolerant, but he never asked how painful the girl has been in the past 20 years...
Finally, Zhou Li Bo also asserted that girls who do not accept their parents cannot be happy.
This is simply nonsense!
Does anyone think of an abandoned girl?
If she is not adopted, she may find food in the trash can, may sleep on paper, and may live alone with difficulty.
How does he speak up and persuade people to be bastards What about parents reconciliation?
Now, many people are talking about reconciliation with their original families.
Parents abandon you, you must reconciliation when you grow up;
Parents control you without any sense of boundaries, you must reconciliation when you grow up;
Parents beat you and scold you, causing you to be hurt again and again, You still have to reconcile when you grow up...
Otherwise, it is just ignorant or unfilial.
But sometimes, I think " filial piety is the first " is the biggest moral kidnapping.
It only requires children to forgive without bottom line, but never emphasizes the harm caused by parents to their children, which may need to be compensated for in a lifetime.
If what parents bring to their children is abandonment and pain, why do you have to force their children to give to their parents? Reconciliation and filial piety?
Have those parents who ignore their children ever thought that their children are flesh and blood people will be sad and sad?
Don’t say anything else, I slapped you, and then I said lightly, "Oh, I know I hurt you, but you have to reconcile. If you don’t reconcile, you don’t respect me."
Do you agree?
I slapped you, you want to hit you back, at least you have to scold me, you may not reconcile with me from the bottom of your heart.
What's more, children who are hurt by bastard parents may have to spend their entire lives healing psychological trauma.
Why do you ask others to smooth out this huge pain as if nothing happened?
people have seven emotions and six desires . Anger and resentment are normal emotions, and they should be allowed to exist.
Only by not indulging in painful relationships, tearing oneself up, making choices freely from one's heart, can we truly come out of our own life.
I have a friend who is the firm "disrecisive" faction.
She bought a new house and when she decorated the house, she was still missing the final payment of 20,000 yuan.
She was the first to want to borrow money from her mother.
After answering the phone, my mother cursed: "Where do I have money! Who is the daughter? I even asked my family to borrow money, but I didn't see you making money to subsidize the family..."
Does my mother have no money?
No, my mother just gave all the money to her son to open a pet store.
When she learned the truth, her heart was cold.
A total of 50,000 yuan was saved by my mother for more than two years.
"Mom is usually reluctant to travel, and she is even reluctant to buy a good piece of clothing. She has been wearing a winter clothing for two years. But she can give the money to her brother at once, and don't calculate interest. Mom said that the 50,000 yuan is considered investment for her brother. If she makes money, she still belongs to her brother. If she loses money, she will pay her off, so that her brother will not be under pressure. "
She understood that parents may not love every child fairly.
Just like when I was a child, mother would add fried eggs and wonton to her brother's breakfast noodles, while she only had plain noodles;
Just like when I was in school, mother would enroll her brother in tutoring classes, and she could only review with her classmates.
Now she lives in her own house and lives her own stable life.
Sincerity is to exchange for sincerity . If parents do not give their own sincerity, how can they hope to get all the selfless love of their children?
reconciliation is not the only antidote in life.
When you no longer focus on reconciling with your parents, you realize that the world is vast and life is endless.
Life is not a drama, not everything requires everything. The most important thing is not reconciliation with parents, not reconciliation with life.
is to reconcile with yourself and accept a complete self.
You must respect your feelings, you are the standard for feeling all things.
When your family makes you feel hurt, why should you let go?
If you feel that reconciliation with your parents, reconciliation with your family, and reconciliation with your life will make you more painful, then you will "never forgive".
