Discourse is the bridge of communication between people.
A person speaks beautifully and nicely, which does not mean that he must be good, but if a person speaks meanly, likes to exaggerate and distort black and white, he must not be a good person.
It can be said that what a person says can reflect to a certain extent what kind of person he is.
Everyone has a temper and thoughts, and speaking can reflect a person's inner world more directly.
What is more obvious is that what a person says represents his emotions, mood and purpose.
Kind and upright people will not talk casually and disturb people's hearts, while people with poor character are good at using sweet words to conceal their true motives.
We must learn to know people and stay away from those with bad intentions.
likes people who often talk about these three sentences, their character is worrying, don’t have deep friendships, and stay away from them decisively.
harsh words that poke people's pain
A person with good character will be a gentle person in his heart.
Because the heart is soft, you will naturally consider other people's feelings when speaking and will not reveal other people's scars.
Even if there are misunderstandings and conflicts with others, you can still keep your mouth in your mouth, and will not speak too much, poke others' pain points to relieve your hatred.
However, a person with poor character will not care about other people's self-esteem and decency. Even if you don't offend him, he will be jealous and rude to you because he is jealous of your high-quality life.
shake out the wrong or sad things you have done in the past and find ways to make you fool.
sentences are to make you feel pain and embarrassment, and they will gain psychological balance.
Sadly, this kind of person has weak empathy and always can't stand others' goodness, will not really applaud others' success, and will be narrow-minded and cannot be close friends, which makes people avoid him.
bad words to sow discord
Some people are often mentally dark, and they think that others should not get what they cannot get.
If others make them lose their sense of superiority and presence, then she will have to dig out her mind and say something sow discord.
Zhen Huan is a cross, Anlingrong is this type. She was born in an unfortunate original family and it is a fact that she has not been loved well.
But it is also true that she provoked the relationship between Meizhuang and Zhen Huan.
is a very despicable act of using words to secretly distract others.
When you get along with them, you must be extra careful to prevent them from being plotted and hurt.
Because such a person's mind is unusual, he will turn things in his actions.
If you accidentally offend them, you will suffer from torture and be disturbed. It is best to stay away from them.
Lies to bully good people
Mo Yan wrote in " Late-mature People ":
"The biggest ugliness in human nature is that they like to make things difficult for others, especially when they hold power, they will make things difficult for those who can make things difficult for him."
There is a type of people in life who seem harmless on the surface. When they are not doing well, they will be very low-key and even modest. People around them cannot understand their true character.
Once they get rich and become successful one day, they will reveal their true colors, use their status and fame to deliberately take advantage of those honest and good people.
Because of their scheming and weak moral concepts, such people are often profit-oriented and do not respect others' kindness and lenient, and do not pity others' situations. Instead, they try their best to use information asymmetry, deceive others with lies, and oppress others.
They often have dissatisfaction with others and make things difficult for others. No matter what crisis others have, just be comfortable. They put all the money they earn into their own pockets and always turn a blind eye to the injustice caused by others.
When we get along with such people, we will only suffer deeply.
Because they are very cold by nature, the so-called morality cannot restrain them.
In order to avoid losses and harm, we should contact them less and reduce the possibility of being threatened by them.
People with bad character always like to play tricks, seeking their own interests, and often do things that hurt people without feeling guilty.
We cannot awaken and correct people with misconduct. We can only protect ourselves as much as possible, learn to distinguish right from wrong, and not interact with them.
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