A woman with advanced liver cancer, at the end of her life is to file a divorce by running around the court every day.
Does it sound a bit incredible? Is this woman’s head problem or does something her husband does that makes her unable to forgive even before she dies?
Qin Ling is a good daughter, a good wife, a good mother, and her attitude towards her parents-in-law who has never liked her has always been very good. Why did such a good woman draw a line with her husband and her in-laws before she died? What did her marriage go through?
1,
Qin Ling is a piano teacher who is currently edited by the school. She has a decent job and a superior family background. Before she met her husband Wu Gang, she has always been a happy and good girl who spreads positive energy all day long.
Wu Gang's parents are ordinary retired workers in factories and live in dormitories divided by the unit. The financial conditions are average.
Before marriage, Wu Gang was down-to-earth and willing to work hard, and worked hard and was considerate and caring for Qin Ling.
When we got married, Qin Ling paid for the wedding house. Wu Gang's family only spent tens of thousands of yuan to buy a few pieces of furniture, but Wu Gang's parents asked Qin Ling to write Wu Gang's name on the property certificate.
Qin Ling didn't want Wu Gang to be stuck between her and her parents and agreed. Fortunately, Qin Ling's mother reminded her to be careful. It is okay to write Wu Gang's name on the property certificate, but the proportion must be clearly divided. Qin Ling accounts for 90%, while Wu Gang accounts for 10%.
After marriage, my parents-in-law urged Qin Ling to have a child and passed on the Wu family's family. The two of them prepared for a long time but didn't get pregnant. They went to the hospital for examination and found out that it was Wu Gang's problem.
But in order to protect Wu Gang's face as a man, Qin Ling lied to the public that it was her own problem, and Wu Gang's parents also firmly believed that it was Qin Ling's problem.
Since everyone wants a child, Qin Ling went to the orphanage to adopt a little girl named Miaomiao.
Qin Ling thought Miaomiao's arrival would allow her to give an explanation to Wu Gang's parents and make Wu Gang feel the joy of being a father, but Wu Gang did not fulfill his responsibilities for this family, and his previous down-to-earth and willingness to work hard has also changed.
He wanted to take shortcuts to make money quickly, and used recruitment and financing as bait to draw big cakes to borrow money from relatives and friends around him. After borrowing 800,000 yuan, he ran away directly, leaving Qin Ling and Miaomiao to be disturbed and even threatened by debt collection friends and loan sharks.
Wu Gang chose to borrow money and ran away before he never thought what consequences his actions would bring to Qin Ling and his daughter. He was not a good husband, a good father, and a responsible man.
Qin Ling has always been considerate and tolerant of him and has safeguarded his dignity everywhere, but in the end it was deception and even use.
Qin Ling is pitiful, Wu Gang is shameless, but the way of getting along between husband and wife is not to blindly please and tolerate. The lower Qin Ling puts herself, the more arrogant Wu Gang will be (he may be grateful for your understanding on the surface, and turning his face will hurt you more deeply.)
2,
is Qin Ling a good daughter-in-law?
of course.
Because of the words of her parents-in-law, she could add Wu Gang's name to the wedding house she invested in. Her mother-in-law asked her to have a child as soon as possible, but she did not refuse at all.
Finally, it was found that her husband could not have children. She did not tell the truth to her parents-in-law, but took the responsibility on herself, and even went to the welfare home to adopt a child in order to atone for the sake of her sins.
But how did my parents-in-law treat her?
takes all her good deeds to the Wu family for granted. If she gets married to Wu Gang, the house should be half as high as Wu Gang. It is Qin Ling's fault that she can't give birth to a child. She also fooled someone else's children. They don't want to admit Miaomiao's granddaughter at all.
The old couple took Miaomiao out for fun on the excuse and threw her at the train station. They also told Miaomiao all day that she was not Qin Ling's biological child. Her mother would throw her away sooner or later and would not love her.
child of 0 has been intimidated by his grandparents and discarded him. He has nightmares all day long, fearing that his mother will not love him anymore, so he throws himself away.
Knowing that his son was not going the right way, they did not persuade him to persuade him to do whatever he wanted and asked him to ask Qin Ling for money to pay back the debt.
Wu Gang hid out due to debts. They contacted Wu Gang privately and applied for death according to their son's wishes to avoid debts, but did not persuade his son to come back and face all this, nor did they tell Qin Ling about Wu Gang anything.
What kind of mother-in-law is the most hateful?
is this kind of mother-in-law who is devoted to her son and never cares about her daughter-in-law's life or death.
As a daughter-in-law, Qin Ling was filial to her parents-in-law. Even when Wu Gang left home for five years, Qin Ling sued for divorce. When her parents-in-law came to her house to make a fuss about robbing the property certificate, Qin Ling still said to her parents and explained. But her parents-in-law ignored her at all and pushed Qin Ling to the ground, even Miaomiao fell down.
It does not mean how kind and noble you are. The stupidest thing Qin Ling has ever done is to be too kind to her parents-in-law. A good temper is a good thing, but a good temper with a scoundrel can only be the result of bullying or even eating alive.
If Qin Ling had a more temper and should not always be submissive to her parents-in-law, then her parents-in-law would not knead her like dough.
3,
When Qin Ling was diagnosed with advanced liver cancer, Wu Gang's parents revoked their application for death for their son. Their purpose was very clear, that is, after Qin Ling died, they would divide the house according to the inheritance, so that Wu Gang could get most of the house payment, and even if the loan of 800,000 yuan was paid, there would still be a surplus.
learned that his wife was seriously ill and was about to die. The first thing that Wu Gang thought of was not to come back to take care of her at first sight, but to plot against how to get more money.
Seeing her daughter-in-law having liver cancer , her parents-in-law didn't feel distraught, and she blamed her for being so hard and could withstand for a few months. Why didn't she die early and leave the house for her son?
Such husbands and in-laws are not relatives, they are evil people and beasts.
Wu Gang never showed up from beginning to end, but secretly directed his parents how to get more money with Qin Ling. This wife, who fell in love with him, bought a wedding house for her, took on the charge of infertility, and was also charged with debts by usury. She did not get Wu Gang's heartache until she died, but was squeezed out the last drop of blood by different methods.
I heard that Qin Ling was going to sue for divorce, but Wu Gang did not come forward to respond, but spent time waiting for the court to complete all the publicity procedures. He felt that as a cancer patient, Qin Ling might die one day and could not get married, so that the house could be distributed to him.
But as the public announcement period was almost over, Qin Ling was still carrying it (even her mother-in-law scolded her for being so tough), her husband-in-law thought about asking for more money through mediation.
Qin Ling agreed to the 500,000 request from her mother-in-law. She was hospitalized before the agreement to mediate and divorce was signed. Seeing that Qin Ling was about to die, her husband immediately went back on her repent.
They just waited for Qin Ling to divide the house after she died.
Sure enough, Qin Ling's condition worsened the day before the announcement was over and the doctor shook her head and wanted to give up. It was Miaomiao's singing, and it was Qin Ling's concern for Miaomiao that made her fight for Miaomiao for one more day in the hands of the god of death. The trial result that came saved her property and left a financial guarantee for her daughter and her mother.
The ending of the story defeats the selfishness and indifference in human nature with miracles and persistence in family affection, which makes people feel shocking and warm.
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Qin Ling is a good person. It is her sorrow to meet Wu Gang, and it is even more misfortune to get liver cancer.
We cannot predict what kind of disease we will get, or how we will leave the world, but some problems in life can be avoided.
After marriage, Qin Ling found out that her husband Wu Gang had a problem, she could have directly explained the reason and asked her husband to make changes for the family, but she did not do so. She thought that the indulgence of Wu Gang and pleasing Wu Gang's parents would lead to her family status getting lower and lower.
Knowing that Wu Gang's parents are rogues, Qin Ling should have drawn a clear line with them earlier. There is no need for Wu Gang to be left home for five years and still can't get along with them.
The husband can sue for divorce after two years of disappearance. Why did Qin Ling think of divorce until Wu Gang disappeared for five years and was diagnosed with her own advanced liver cancer for only half a year before she thought of divorce.
She still had fantasies about Wu Gang and wanted to wait for him to come back to explain clearly. When she learned that she didn't have much time left, she thought about how to leave a guarantee for her mother and daughter.
A person's kindness must be sharp. You can be kind to others but not bullied by others. It has the ability to understand their kindness and must not be bullied by others.
It is obvious that Qin Ling is kind enough but too kind. Such a woman is pitiful and stupid.
