Author: No. 1 Emotion
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Life is like a one-way ticket, and there is no way to look back after departure.
Sanmao once said: No one can live forever, and nothing can exist forever.
Birth, old age, sickness and death are a law in nature. No one can break its existence. When the partner around you leaves, it is undoubtedly a sad and painful thing for the alive people, but even if you cannot accept it, the facts will not change at all.
After decades of getting along, I have become relatives with my partner. I suddenly need to face the future alone, and I must feel sad and unwilling.
However, we have to continue walking the road ahead. Time will eventually soothe the pain in our hearts, and we have to take steps forward. So, if one day my wife leaves first, please do the following things as soon as possible!
1: Adjust your mindset and continue moving forward
Life will not stay because of your sadness. The beauty of the past will eventually become a memory, and what you can do now is to prepare for it.
I have promised to live together until old age. The arrival and departure of illness are not something we can arrange. It is inevitable that we will feel heartbroken and cry when our wife leaves, but the future path will still be taken.
Everything in the past is very memorable, but if you keep living in the past, it will become meaningless. I believe that the person who loves you deeply does not want to see your decadent appearance, but hopes that you can continue to run forward, so that you can be worthy of yourself and the love you used to be.
From another perspective, who can escape death? It is just a matter of time sooner or later. Only by accepting the arrangements of fate calmly and withdrawing yourself from sadness can you better face the past, present and future.
So when my wife suddenly leaves one day, we must find a way to adjust our mentality and continue to move forward, which can be regarded as living a good life for the sake of the loved ones.
2: Improve yourself and rely on yourself
When your wife is here, you can become mutual support. This kind of life is beautiful and comfortable. But once your wife leaves, you will have no support, so remember to improve yourself and become your support.
Life seems to have become meaningless, but we must always learn to accept all this. Loneliness itself is the norm in life. We must not only come from loneliness, but also leave from loneliness. But when you face your life, only by becoming your own support can your life continue to shine.
Tagor once said: Loneliness is the companion of life and a close friend of life.
No one can change the fact that my wife has left. In addition to accepting, we also need to think about how to live better instead of losing the fighting spirit of living. This is obviously not the situation the other party wants to see.
So, the more you are left alone, the more you should improve yourself, improve the quality of your life, and make yourself your own support, so that your life will become as exciting as before.
3: Divert attention, cultivate hobbies,
0 How to quickly adapt to a person's life? Of course, it is to find ways to divert attention, and cultivating a few hobbies is the best choice and a shortcut to get out of sadness.
You will find that the monotonous life begins to be full of colors, just because you have found the sustenance of life, no longer immersed in past memories, and will no longer be attacked by sadness.
Guo Moruo said: Since you are alive, you can’t stop. You have to continue doing something and do something you like.
Life itself should use some people or things to waste time.
So, after the boss leaves, cultivate more interests and hobbies to help yourself divert attention and get rid of sadness, so that life can become more fulfilling and meaningful!
Life is like a flash of time. When you get old, you should cherish the time in front of you. Even if your wife has left, you cannot waste your time. You must live every minute and every second of your own. Only in this way will you not come to the world in vain!
