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Women born in the 1960s or 1970s are often the most miserable generation. They have experienced poverty and famine, have not received much education, and many families prefer boys over girls...
so much that many of them live without autonomy.
When I was in my teenage years old, I went out to work and helped my parents support my brother or younger brother at home. When I reached the age of marriage, I would be introduced by someone and I would just marry someone.
At that time, they didn't understand what love was, and they didn't know much about each other. They just thought it would be enough to have a similar one. Anyway, who wouldn't they live with for the rest of their lives?
But when you really get married, you will find that it is almost a lot different, and it will be really different if you live your whole life.
Most of them are around 60 years old. In the past, they dare not divorce, live for themselves, are afraid of laughing at others, are afraid of not having the ability to survive alone after divorce, and are also afraid that their children will not have a complete family. Therefore, no matter how frustrated they are, they will endure it, and if they can accept their fate, they will accept their fate.
But now, some people don’t want to endure it anymore, nor do they want to accept their fate. If they hold on, they will be over in their lifetime.
Just like Aunt Su Min, who was popular on the Internet some time ago, she has been in charge of her family for half her life, but she has never received any gratitude from her husband or any respect.
She realized that if she continued to live so depressedly, her life would be in vain.
She is a good wife, a good mother, and a good daughter-in-law. She is worthy of everyone, but she is sorry for herself. This feeling made her feel extremely panicked and extremely tormented.
So she let go of everything and drove on a self-driving tour. No matter how dangerous the road ahead is or how many unknowns are, she hopes to set out at least once in her life, for her own sake.
As a result, several months of travel have completely changed her, not only allowing her to see the great mountains and rivers of the motherland, but also allowing her to regain herself.
During the journey, she really lived for herself.
is no longer limited to the kitchen and housework, no longer looking at the husband's face, but just follows the inner wishes, do what you want, please and please yourself to your heart's content, this is what a woman should look like.
After returning from a trip, she chose to divorce her husband and no longer trap herself in that small world. Although she was fifty-eight years old, she felt that she had lived again and was getting younger and younger.
She has been suffering for half her life and undoubtedly sets a good example for women. At least two advices we need to keep in mind at all times.
1: Life is your own, never let yourself be wronged for anyone
Many women have suffered half their lives before they know that living for themselves, and only then do they know that life is yourself, and there is never the need to let themselves be wronged for anyone.
Before, they always lived a passive and humble life.
Since there is no source of income, they always have to look at their husbands’ expressions, as if they are inferior to others if they don’t make money. But have you ever thought that you have given as much to this family as your husband, or even more than your husband?
If you don’t have you taken care of housework, raising children, and taking care of your parents-in-law, can your husband work outside without worry? He thought that what supports the whole family was the money he earned, but in fact, what supports the whole family was all the love you gave.
There is no situation between a couple who owe whom. They don’t know how to affirm your efforts. This is his fault and does not mean that you are really worthless. Don’t deny yourself and let yourself be humble all the time.
2: Life is not long, you must always know how to love yourself
There are many ways for women to love themselves. You don’t have to spend much money on yourself, how many beautiful clothes you buy, or you don’t have to eat expensive dinners to satisfy your taste buds, but you must know how to take into account your feelings and satisfy your spiritual needs.
For example, if you don’t want to help others do something, then refuse decisively and not do it.
There is no need to let yourself suffer in vain because of your affection. If he really treats you as a friend, he will definitely respect you and it is impossible to blame you or hold a grudge against you for this.
Another example, if you want to do something yourself, then do it, no matter what others say, this is your interest and hobby. When you do it, you are happy inside. There is nothing more worth doing in this world than pleasing yourself.
Please remember that this life is not long, and knowing how to love yourself is more important than anything else.
Born as a woman is not just to become someone's wife and the mother of a certain child, but also to become an independent and complete person. Please love yourself well and be yourself bravely. This is the prerequisite for playing other roles well.
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