Author: Five-layer
Is there anyone who didn’t give his wife a bride when he got married? I think there must be some, and I believe that without a material foundation, they can still live happily and sweetly.
But by my side, there is such a couple who have made their lives more and more messy because they did not give a bride gift.
This year is the second year that my friend Yangzi got married, but for him, he doesn’t feel that he is really married. This is because the couple live a life, they support each other and give each other care and love.
But what about him? I feel like I'm just a single and have more roommates than a single.
However, to talk about their conflicts, we have to start with the engagement between the two. At that time, Yangzi's wife asked for a bride price of 200,000 yuan, because when her sister got married, the other party gave it so much. Therefore, in his wife's opinion, he should also be treated the same as his sister.
may request to be transferred to the Yangzi family, but his parents said that they just held a marriage for their eldest son last year, and the dowry was only given 100,000 yuan. You want 200,000, which is really too much. We don't have that much money now!
As he said that, Yangzi had to discuss whether he could reduce the bride price!
Yangzi also conveyed his parents' words truthfully, and hoped that his wife would not ask for so much for their relationship. Just as the two were discussing, Yangzi's wife suddenly said: Actually, I can also not want the bride price! As long as you agree to all housework in the future, then your family will not be born, and discuss who to go to during the Chinese New Year. These requirements.
After hearing this, Yangzi felt that it was not a big deal, and it was unacceptable. So, he agreed immediately.
Then, the two got married soon. Yangzi’s parents were still very happy. This daughter-in-law was sensible and didn’t ask for a bride price.
Only after Yangzi didn't want to get married did he discover the problem. For example, sometimes when Yangzi works overtime and comes home late, his wife never cares whether he eats or not. Even if Yang Zi was so hungry, there was nothing left for him at home.
Furthermore, when Yangzi was busy with work, he didn’t have the energy to wash his own dishes and chopsticks and clothes. My wife ignored it completely and let those things go, making it smelly at home.
more times, and Yangzi's psychology gradually became unbalanced. We are getting married after all! Even if I agreed to AA, I have difficulties, how can you turn a blind eye? Can't help me? Be sure to do as you said!
Yangzi argued with his wife for this, but every time his wife said: Why do I want to help you! I didn't ask for the bride price, and I agreed to have all the housework AA. We have an equal marriage, and I didn’t ask for your help. Why do you have to force me to help you!
Ha? How could Yangzi accept this indifferent remark from his wife. He insisted on making this issue clear with his wife. But my wife didn't care about him, as long as it was Yangzi who made her unhappy. They go back to their own home directly! I was happy to stay for a few days and insisted on my husband to come back.
If you say that, these Yangtze can barely accept them. Then what happened during the Chinese New Year afterwards was nothing more than that, which made his anger surge into his heart.
It was on New Year's Eve, after Yangzi and his wife finished their meal at their parents' house at noon. My wife didn't say hello and disappeared. Yangzi immediately contacted her, but the other person didn't care, so I went back to my parents' home. Is there any problem? Why do you tell you that we are an equal marriage, and you will go home if you want to go home? Similarly, what do I want to go home and tell you?
The incident made Yang Zi very embarrassed at his parents' home. At this point, he thought he really should have a good talk with his wife about their future and how they should go.
But not long after, Yangzi hadn't had a good talk with his wife. His mother suddenly became ill! In Yangzi's opinion, his father is still at work, and his brother and sister-in-law are also very busy! The whole family is just his own wife, and the work is easy and leisurely. It is not a problem to take care of my mother-in-law for a few days.
When my wife found out, of course she would not agree. She retorted: Why don’t you find a nurse? But want me to serve? Is it funny? My sister-in-law at least got the bride price. Did I get anything? If that's the case, why should I help? Think about it yourself, does it make sense? I am not a free nanny, please find a way to solve it yourself!
This made Yangzi completely angry.He denounced his wife not worthy of being a wife and not like a daughter-in-law. You have married into the house, how can you still be so selfish! Although it is a housework, we are husband and wife! How could it be that it wouldn't help each other? My mother asked her to find a nursing worker when she was sick. Are you worried about losing money?
With hearing this, my wife got the same old trick again and went back to her own home, no matter what you think.
Yangzi doesn’t understand, can he marry this person? Is it not worthy of enjoying the marriage without giving a bride gift? He thought he had a fake marriage!
Although the two of them made up again after this matter was over. But they all knew that they would not be able to continue like this. I feel that they don't feel like they are married at all. Especially the woman, she seemed to be angry. And what about Yangtze? There are also problems with your mentality. Why do you need your wife to help you with everything? What have you done?
In fact, whether to give a bride gift or not does not determine whether the marriage is successful. But like Yangzi's marriage, people obviously want a bride price. And you can't understand it, just want to save money. Then it is worth bearing some consequences!
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