The relationship between people has never been so easy.
Even if we get along well at the beginning and the two of us are very harmonious, it doesn’t mean that we can always do this, and this relationship can always be continued.
Friends, cherish and maintain them properly, so that they can always be so smooth.
It’s a pity that in many relationships, many times, even if you are very kind to someone, you always care about the relationship between you and treat each other well, but the other party may not treat you well.
will only care less and less about your feelings, and will take you seriously, and will always disappoint the other party.
When a person disappoints you, once or twice, you may be able to bear it. If you are too disappointed, you will be unable to accept it in the end.
You will be extremely disappointed, and your feelings will also begin to become very different.
gave up and no longer had any expectations.
If you are a person, you just a little disappointed, soon your emotions will pass.
Because you can adjust yourself and tell yourself that no one is perfect, you will feel a little dissatisfied, which is normal. In addition, the other party will be willing to coax you and will not let you fall into that mood all the time.
If you think about the other person, the other person will take care of you. Of course, this disappointment will not continue.
However, when disappointment accumulates to a certain level and has reached the extreme, the other party no longer cares about your feelings. At that time, even if you still want to defend the other party, you can't do it at all, you can't find a reason, and you can't deceive yourself.
All bad emotions will only burst out directly. For that person, all bad things will circle in your mind.
As you think about it, you will begin to realize that the other party is so unworthy, and you don’t want to have any hope for him anymore. Little by little, your heart will start to cool down and you no longer have any hope for this relationship.
From then on, I no longer long for the other party’s care, no longer long for the other party’s concern, no longer want the other party’s care.
began to take back his heart and no longer beg for the other party's love. He just wanted to put more time and thoughts on himself, to fulfill himself and treat himself kindly.
too lazy to say anything, and began to become silent.
If you are just disappointed, you will feel wronged, dissatisfied, and want to vent.
In front of the other party, they will directly accuse, express their inner thoughts, tell the other party what they did not do well, and let the other party know what they want the other party to be like and how they treat themselves.
Whatever you think, you will tell him that he is determined to repair the relationship between you and solve the problems between you.
However, disappointed to the peak, when you find that no matter what you say or do, it is useless, but you will not be so stupid to change something or say something to the other party.
You begin to learn to digest all emotions by yourself, and you are no longer willing to share many things.
no longer tells the other person about you, no longer wants to know about you, his attitude begins to become very distant, and the other person's joys, anger, sorrows, and happiness will no longer affect you, as if it has nothing to do with you.
used to always like to talk to you, and like to talk to each other endlessly. Since then, it has just become quieter and quieter, as if you don’t like to talk at all and don’t have anything to say to anyone.
does not have the desire to talk to the other party. Apart from some necessary notifications, I am too lazy to say one word. I feel that it is completely unnecessary and it is simply redundant. It is better to save some effort.
reduces intersection and even plans to leave.
When you like that person, you want to stay with the other person at all times and do something with the other person.
You will be very happy when the other person is by your side. After the other person has left for a while, you will be very uneasy and miss you very much.
always finds various reasons to approach the other party, and even if there is nothing to do, they will contact the other party.
But once he disappoints you and is desperate, how much I wanted to stick with him in the past, I will only want to alienate him from now on, and I will not want to see him or get close to him.
will minimize contact as much as possible. It is best not to meet each other. They must meet each other. They will only be very cold and deliberately keep a distance. They are not willing to have any connection with each other. They just want to be busy with their own affairs and stay away from each other.
is not only about being more indifferent, but just keeps a distance from the other party. Deep down in his heart, he will no longer want to have any relationship with the other party. Although he is still in touch at this moment, he is already planning to escape from the other party.
In the past, I liked each other very much, but in the years ahead, I no longer wanted to be with each other.
Want to have a new beginning, or just be alone, live your own years, pamper yourself, or start a new relationship so that you can have new encounters, new possibilities, and new life.
was extremely disappointed. Coaxing was no longer useful, and affection was no longer useful.
has no hope anymore and has decided not to look back from now on.
suffered many days and nights, and was sad for the other party many times. Finally, he decided to take back his likes and his love.
is actually not a retraction. Over the years, that love has been worn out and nothing is left.
No matter what kind of relationships, when you are so serious, the other person just lets you down and makes you so painful, it is indeed quite sad. However, even so, you don’t have to regret your efforts.
will like him and accompany him for a long time, and that is your own voluntary after all.
After that, I won’t talk about the past, just live a good life in the future.
text/Tan Meng
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