Everyone desires success, but not everyone can succeed.
There is a saying that you must be familiar with: even a pig can fly when standing on the wind. The subtext of the sentence
is undoubtedly that his success is nothing great. If it were me, he might be able to fly higher.
I often encourage myself in this way. The key point of the problem of
is where the trend is. Many people don’t know where the trend is, and more of them just follow the trend.
Once the road to success becomes overcrowded, it is often easy to get stuck in the middle of the road and get in a dilemma. On the contrary, those smart people turn around early, grop and go to the destination.
The mountains and rivers are full of roads, and there is another village with dark willows and flowers. The dilemma we are facing is not without solutions. As long as our mentality changes, adversity will become good situations, and backwardness can also become transcendence.
A person's stubbornness does not hit the wall and does not look back is not an advantage. Only those who can turn around in the horns are great wisdom.
I have a female friend who is very stubborn and no one can stop her from deeming something. Because of her personality, the relationship between husband and wife is also very bad.
She always dislikes her man for being incompetent and voluntarily acts as a military advisor. Her husband shirked all kinds of responsibilities and refused to do what she said.
She was eager to find a dazzling career to prove herself. In her words, the man in the family could not count on him, and he was forced to go to Liangshan.
A friend started doing a WeChat business and asked a few of us sisters to have dinner. I went there a few times and didn't want to go because I knew what it meant, but I completely disagree with doing micro-business.
Not long after, she took out more than 100,000 yuan in savings to find that friend to stock up on the goods. After hearing this, I quickly dissuaded her, and you will understand everything if you search the Internet for such products and models. More than one hundred thousand is not a small amount.
But she said: You are worried about this and that, and you always want to wait and see. In the end, those who did not hesitate had made money, but you still had nothing.
I said: Although you are looking for a friend to purchase goods, she is not the boss after all. If you can't sell these goods, she will not have the ability or right to give you a refund.
She looked at me and said, "Selling a job like this, it depends on your education, but it depends on your ability. If you really have the ability, you won't be able to sell it." Besides, I have experienced this product myself, and it is really good. I believe that the people around me alone have a considerable demand. Is my popularity so bad? Seeing me, don’t even buy such a good product?
I was speechless. I really don’t want to buy it. I like her people, but I really don’t like such products.
Not only me, but others probably think so. Later, she began to diligently flood the circle of friends, and kept hiking into the crowd. Later, the epidemic came and her career was incomplete. And her previous friend had already joined a small company and worked as an ordinary worker. He never said: Good sisters just want to make money together and become independent women together.
Nowadays, my female friend is no longer in a hurry to make a lot of money, but starts to complain about her bad vision. She often says, "Look at that person, who looks average and works average, but actually marrys a rich second generation. Look at the quality of life of others, why did I marry such a thing?" It's really a loss!
always hopes that I am richer. It seems that I have a pursuit and a motivated heart, but I unknowingly fall into the material horn, which makes my life worse.
A person, especially middle-aged people, should be open-minded about material things, otherwise they will only be exhausted and they will not be able to make money in vain. If you can make more money, you can make more money. If you really don’t make much money, it’s better to see if you can gain more in other aspects of your life.
Some time ago, I swept such a real story. Someone who sold to grab cakes and sent his son to Peking University . Peking University recently invited him to go to the Peking University cafeteria to make hand-catch cakes.
Many people commented below that those who make hand-catch cakes are not poor, they make tens of thousands of yuan a month!
Although it is endless to make hand-catch cakes, I thought about it, how fast does this person need to stand there to make so many cakes during peak periods? He said, "I'm making thousands of cakes a day." How many people can complete this "big project"?
Although a person who makes hand-catch cakes has no culture and is much behind many people, the son he raised is the best in the country and surpasses many people.
When you are in a difficult situation in your life, don’t be anxious, don’t deny your family, and don’t deny yourself.
When I graduated and looked for a job, a classmate and I applied for the same position. In the end, the person chose me. I was actually a little happy.
Although that classmate is not inferior to me, he is still eliminated. Maybe life requires such a little bit of luck.
But more than a year later, I have a better position and a better choice. I went straight to two steps, but I was still in the same place.
Who can tell the good and bad luck of life and the turning point of fate?
Life, be down-to-earth, earn money within your ability, enjoy the ups and downs with all your heart, and don’t be depressed in past experiences, and don’t get lost in your imagination of the future.
Relax, when encountering problems, calm down for three seconds, and then think about it, blessings come uninvited.
and I encourage you
