We met in school, and we are 15 years old now, but we are not mature at all. At that time, I didn’t know what reconciliation was. Basically, I just broke up and replaced the next one after a few months. It was not until I met him that I realized that I could still make up. I felt the warmth of getting back together and couldn’t extricate myself falling in love with this feeling. At that time, he was a playboy. Basically, his previous relationship could only last for a year before falling in love with others. When I was with him, he was thinking of his old lover again. In school, we often quarrel because of disagreement in character. I think he is not considerate enough, and he thinks I am not sensible enough and can't be a human being. Indeed, many times, because of the family's growth environment, I am not as mature as him. He also taught me a lot. It turns out that I am a timid and cowardly person who doesn’t like to talkatively, and I have changed silently when I am with him.
He has a bad temper, a bad patience, and even beats me. I often break up with a disagreement, but every time I split half a day or a day, I make up for no reason. He is very smart and he knows what I want. At that time, I gave up many opportunities for him, such as taking a junior college entrance examination. When I wanted to sign up, he only said one thing: If you go to college, we won’t see you, so I gave up. The school organized the Mandarin exam. Because there were too many people in line, he didn’t have the patience to wait and asked me to accompany him to have a meal, but I missed it again. Before he knew it, he had become my whole world. It seems to have become a habit that cannot be changed.
Broken and reunion has passed a year and a half. We are facing an internship and we have not escaped the curse of breaking up after graduation. After a month of separation, he contacted me and reconciled naturally. That was the longest time we separated. I went out for an internship and happened to be near his home. The first thing I often did after get off work was to find him. Every time I rested, I would fool my family and say that I was in the dormitory and then be with him. It was also at this time that we raised him and wanted to go home until 9.10 o'clock. One morning in April 2015, he suddenly said he wanted to join the army. His father asked him to go. After thinking about it, he decided to go. On September 10, 2015, he embarked on a new journey to join the army in Guangdong. I have been together for three years and I have almost never separated. Of course, we are not used to it just now. The days when he didn't have a cell phone were also my torment. He said that in the army, I was the only motivation for him to persevere, and when he first got his phone, he only called me. I would leave a message on his QQ space every day, telling him what I encountered and did every day, and I just persisted for two years. At that time, I was looking forward to the arrival of every weekend. In order to call him, I often gave up the opportunity to go and play, fearing that if I go, I would have less time to call him. We also quarrel when he was in the army, but the better the more we are, the helplessness that we want to see but cannot see each other makes us cherish each other more.
Finally survived these two years. I thought we had finally survived the most difficult moment and moved towards happiness, but it was not as simple as I thought. He started to think that I was annoyed when I was together for 3 months every day. Maybe he thought that I was revolving around him every day. He said he was very annoyed and let him be quiet. It took more than a month to calm down. I probably knew that he might have to give up on me. It really feels like the pain that I have lost the whole world. I can’t eat or sleep every day, and I can’t do a good job. Maybe women are like this. Every time they break up, they want to become beautiful and change themselves, so I went to drift my head, and our mutual friend posted a picture of my drifting head. He called me angrily, and he felt that I had listened to him for so long. He didn't love me to do my nails or dye my head. It was this mentality that we had made up again.
The good times didn't last long for 4 months, and he thought I was annoyed again. I also found out that he was chatting with the girl and asked to break up again. Still so many times, it's just not suitable. I tried to accept a new person, but when I failed, he was all in my heart. Although the boy was very, very nice to me later, I still had no feelings for him. One night, my ex-boyfriend sent me a WeChat message asking me if I had found a boyfriend, and I said I had found it. He said I wish you happiness and deleted me. At about 5 a.m., he called me and asked where I was immediately driving to me. He didn't say he would make up and be friends, but he was still as ambiguous as before.A few months later, he was going to work in Shenzhen, and we started to work again. What’s different from being a soldier this time is freedom of mobile phones, at least we can say goodbye to each other. Gradually, the content of chatting every day became less and less. He said he was very busy, so I thought I could go to find him. I immediately went to Shenzhen to find him. He didn't let me go and said I didn't have time to take care of me, so I went there stubbornly. When he got off the high-speed train, he didn't come to pick me up, but gave me an address and asked me to take a taxi, and he helped me pay. When he went out to work, he asked me to clean up the house for him. I think it was really worth it as a girlfriend. After cleaning up, I went to his store to find him, but he didn't let me go. I think everyone knows what's going on. He still swears that we are not friends? I made up my mind to return to Kunming and stop contacting him again. He came back soon. We're making up. It was because he was drunk and called me. He knew I would forgive him and he knew that I would wait for him no matter what. After three months, suddenly one day, his ex-girlfriend sent him a WeChat message and asked him to go out to meet him, and he took me there.
But they are very chatting in the relationship. Not long after, he told me that he was very messy and seemed to like her very much, so he asked me to give him time to think about it. During this time I gave him time, I learned that he was driving her on a date. I was very desperate, thinking about how much time I had been on the way for almost three hours over the years. What’s even more sad is that we have been together for 6 years. He didn’t even know how many buildings and units my family was, but he knew where all the houses that the woman rented were. I sent him a crazily WeChat message and asked him why he did this and what I did wrong. He always answered me. I thought we were just here to die. Three months later, I clearly remember that it was November 25th. Because this day was the first time we were together.
We met, in the hospital, and visited our mutual friends. I haven't seen him for three months, but it still hasn't changed. I thought he had a new life and didn't want to disturb him, but he told me that he was not with her, so he just chatted about family matters casually. When he left, he said he sent me, but when he went downstairs, he kissed me and made up so unclearly. We have changed a lot this time, as if we cherish each other more, and we no longer let go as easily as before, and we quarrel easily. We didn’t even stop us during the epidemic period. It seemed like we finally got through a lot of twists and turns. His father had previously suggested that we disagree with us and we reached a consensus that we would be together even if we disagree. On April 3, I found that he was as depressed as if he had something to do. I asked him, and he finally became the evil man. He said he was under great pressure, his father urged him and his grandma urged him, but he didn't know how to tell me. He felt very regretful and helpless, but he had to obey his father's words. It was really helpless. I thought I had finally survived. I thought that both of us gradually grew up and became what we wanted to win. We have had the same little habits for the past 7 years. He has given me a lot of security. Other girls outside may be very annoyed by their boyfriends' snoring, but I have to listen to his snoring before I can sleep. I feel that I love it to the core, and even his bad habits are good. Addiction to him is like a cigarette that is difficult to quit. In my heart, it means. It was really helpless. I thought I had finally survived. I thought that both of us gradually grew up and became what we wanted to win.
htmlWe have had the same little habits in 2007. He has given me a lot of security. Other girls outside may be very annoyed to my boyfriend's snoring, but I have to listen to his snoring before I can sleep. I feel that I love it to the core, and even his bad habits are good. Addiction to him is like a cigarette that is difficult to quit. In my heart, he is the most important thing, and I feel very guilty. When I don’t have him, my family and friends spent it with me. After reconciliation, he treated him as the whole world, which was to value relatives and friends. Countless times, my friends and family advised me not to repeat the same mistakes, but I betrayed the whole world for him. I was with him without telling my family and friends, but in the end I separated again because his father disagreed. This may be the choice made by men and women in ordinary films to treat their family opposition! Sadly, I have no more friends and family to persuade me. .
