Hubei boy, married Pakistani wife, gave birth to 3 children in 6 years, built a house for my father-in-law, and bought a motorcycle
narration: Xie Yang
compilation: Mr. Xiao Han
picture: from the Internet, infringement
"When I got married, I didn't want a penny of betrothal gift. Now I have a career and make money, it's also worth helping my father-in-law's family. After all, it's not easy to raise my daughter, and then I will marry to a foreign country. I definitely hope we live a good life."
This is a passage from the heart that the setting sun said. I understand your difficulties. You understand my intention. Can such two families not be happy?
My name is Xie Yang, I am from Xiantao City, Hubei Province. I am 31 years old this year. Living in a superior family since childhood, so there is no big burden on life. When I was a child, I grew up happily. In my parents' words, they often say this: "Yang Yang is so sensible, whoever marrys him in the future will definitely live a good life." Whenever someone praises me like this, my parents always smile happily and can't stop smiling.
I had good grades since I was a child and went to graduate school. Later, during my postgraduate study, I met my wife Babubaya. She is a Pakistani and she was studying in a university in China. We are alumni of the same school. Because one rainy day, Babubaya and I met, and from then on, we started a relationship that lasted for more than a year. Until we got married after graduation, everything went smoothly. And the story of my wife Babubaya and I is also very simple and romantic.
1991, I was born in a business family in Xiantao, Hubei. My father is a well-known businessman with a wealth of assets. In addition, I am an only child, so I have lived a very comfortable life since my birth date. My parents are usually busy with business and basically live with their grandparents. My grandparents are three or four kilometers away from our family and are still in the suburbs at that time.
My grandfather has a very good personality, can hold talks, sing and dance, and also cook good food. Grandma is different. It can be said that she belongs to the shopkeeper of the family. Grandma has the final say in big and small matters. Since my father is married, he still listens to grandma very much.
Many people will say that such a man must be a "mother's boy". In fact, it is not the case. Grandma is very wise and knows the importance of it. She never participates in her father's career. However, when it comes to being a human being, she is very strict and must not do things that are ignorant. I also grew up under the guidance of my grandmother. I have had good qualities since I was a child. Even though I grew up, I have never scolded anyone.
When I was a child, I lived a better life than the children of my neighbors and knew how to share. My parents usually bought me a lot of snacks, and I was not stingy and shared them all with my neighbors' children. Therefore, I was surrounded by a group of very obedient friends. But when it comes to studying, grandma is never polite. Once she has the idea of cheating, she will be stopped by grandma.
So I dare not be lazy, and I do my homework almost every day at school. The first thing I do when I get home is to complete my homework first and then eat. When it comes to education, my grandfather has said a lot of good things for me, but my grandfather’s status at home is not quite right. Basically, he said a lot of things, but his grandmother responded to it with a look.
Since this is the case, my grandfather still talks good things for me again and again, so my relationship with my grandfather is very good because my grandfather never loses his temper with me.
From elementary school to junior high school, I have always been the first in the grade. When I was in high school, my grades dropped severely. My grandmother asked me more than once why, but I didn’t know, but I just felt that I couldn’t learn.
In 2010, I took the college entrance examination and did not meet my parents' expectations. In their concept, I can only pass the exam by being admitted to universities such as Tsinghua , Peking University , Fudan , and I can only study Wuhan University . For me, it was unexpected that I could get such a score.
After going to college, he did not fall in love, nor would he go out to eat meat and drink with his classmates, but he still studied hard and prepared for the postgraduate entrance examination. In addition to the requirements of his parents, he wanted to have a higher education level. Whether he would take over his father's business or start his own business in the future, at least he would not fall behind in the "software".
The four years of university have been ordinary, like a learning machine, graduated smoothly and successfully passed the postgraduate entrance examination.
In the second year of graduate school, I met Babubaya. She spoke very well in Chinese. Through understanding, I learned that there are few opportunities for Pakistani women to study abroad. First, she worked hard, but her father had good connections, which gave me the opportunity to study in China.
Babubaya has a gentle personality. In her deep eyes, it is as clear as a calm lake water, and a smile is always on her face. Sometimes I feel that Babubaya is a gift from God. We got married after more than a year of talk.
When I got married, I had never met Babubaya's family. In 2017, my wife gave birth to a pair of twin sons for me. I originally planned to go to Pakistan to pay my respects to my father-in-law this year, but the two children were young and it was not convenient to take care of them, so I had to wait for another year. However, in 2018, I was in the rising period of my career and had no time to go to Pakistan. The child at this time was only one year old and was afraid of an accident on the road, so he didn't succeed.
Sometimes it is like this, and there are always many trivial matters. In 2019, my wife gave birth to a second child and was a lovely daughter. I also know that my father-in-law's family's life was not satisfactory, and my wife sometimes missed her parents and cried secretly.
2020 was an extraordinary year. The epidemic broke out and our dream of going to Pakistan was stranded again, but it provided financial assistance to the father-in-law and his family. At that time, the two brother-in-law wanted to get married and needed to build a house. I promised to bear all the costs and bought a motorcycle for my father-in-law.
Babubaya has not returned to Pakistan for 10 years. Ten years ago she was a little girl. Now Babubaya is a mother of three children. It can only be said that time is ruthless, which makes us age unknowingly. But I love my wife and my children even more. I will continue to work hard to create a better living space for my wife, children, and young people.
