, a well-known investor, Charlie Munger, said: "Only when humans invent the methods can human society develop rapidly."
Compared with inventions, inventive methods are of greater value to the development of individuals and society. "It is better to teach people how to fish than to teach people how to fish." This is also true.
Looking at those excellent and successful people, they all have mastered some methods.
About learning, growth, and life, understanding these 9 sentences may heal your confusion and lead you out of the misunderstandings of learning.
01
Learning is far from as difficult as many people imagine. As long as you master the good method, even if you have ordinary qualifications, you can still achieve a good harvest in your studies and break through your own limitations.
——"Study Master"
Author Li Tuoyuan is a boy born in the 1990s. He was born in an ordinary family in a second-tier city. He gave up the admission in his third year of high school and was admitted to Yale University and received a full scholarship for four years. After graduation, I will be admitted to , Harvard Business School, and , and continue to study.
In the book "Learning Master", Li Tuoyuan shared his learning methods and experiences.
He believes that on campus, using the correct learning method can improve your grades in a short period of time, and continuous learning for life can give you a learning ability in life.
Objectively understand yourself, and within a limited range, and with unlimited efforts, you can become a master in controlling your studies and future life.
02
Many people can't remember things not because of their low IQ, but because they have not mastered the methods to improve memory efficiency.
——"Learning Master"
Whether it is study or life, if we master the memory method, we can achieve twice the result with half the effort.
Li Tuoyuan shared three methods of memory:
makes the memory process interesting, and adding memory to individual tags will make it faster to remember;
associates irregular information and makes regular memory;
uses the old knowledge you already know to digest new knowledge, and iterate memory can make the brain more flexible.
The fastest success in learning is to focus on memory and repeat it continuously until the memory compound interest effect appears. When methods become a habit, you can realize your maximum learning potential.
03
Lifetime learning makes you more outstanding.
——"Learning Master"
Jade will not become a tool without being carved. If a person does not learn, he will not know the righteousness.
Learning itself is a long-term thing. When you continue to learn, people will be constantly shaped in an active and positive state. People's understanding and discernment of things will be more accurate and faster.
The more perfect the logical thinking, the easier it is to seize opportunities and get more rewards than others.
Learning is a ability, and lifelong learning can make you outstanding.
04
What we pursue is not time length, but efficiency per unit time.
——"Learning Master"
Wash your phone during the day and work hard at night.
Many people are not focused during the effective time during the day and cannot complete their study and work efficiently. At night, they light the night light to make up for the "loss".
No unscientific method can obtain scientific learning results.
Li Tuoyuan shares the real Harvard in the book. Students rarely have the learning experience from daytime to four in the morning. Most of them get up at around 6:30 every day, then self-disciplinedly conduct personal classes and extracurricular studies, and enter the rest around 12:00 pm.
Good learning habits are the best guarantee for learning results. The desperate efforts of the sheep are never our role models.
05
When you are truly powerful, it is when you can ignore it.
——"Courage of not caring"
The ultimate meaning of hard work is to make yourself excellent and strong. If your efforts are not for others, then please don’t care too much about the eyes and comments from the outside world.
Psychological counselor Oshima trusts to share with his visitors. The reason why people care so much about others' judgment is because they want to avoid being criticized by others, but the result is counterproductive. The more you care, the more severe others will criticize you.
When you learn to ignore useless criticism and focus on your own efforts, you will get the respect of people around you.
06
Sometimes, people cannot understand other people's emotions, or even their own emotions.
——"The Courage of Not Care"
We have been educated since childhood to take care of other people's emotions.
However, long-term indulging in the emotions of considering others will suppress your true inner needs.
blindly tolerating others will also encourage others to "attack" their own nature towards themselves.
Learn to cultivate your emotional insensitivity, that is, don’t care too much about others, and don’t ignore yourself too much.
Understanding your own emotions and controlling your own emotions is more important than paying attention to others.
07
work is getting smoother and smoother, part of the reason is that there is no meaningless blame to pull yourself back.
——"Courage of Not Care"
The author Oshima Trust believes that humans, like other animals, have the instinct to "eliminate the weak".
In life, some people will always blame and judge the other party on reasons for your goodness. This is to cover up one's own wrong behavior under the guise of "good intention".
When we encounter criticism and remarks that we don’t understand, we can fight back strongly, or pretend to accept the other party’s “good intention”. In the end, I threw it away after listening and didn't have to take it to heart at all.
08
Modesty sometimes may not be a virtue.
——"Courage of not caring"
modestly said "it's okay", but in fact, they are often doing things that go against their will.
Sometimes, honesty is the best medicine to make people feel relaxed .
In life, proper modesty is a normal social etiquette, and excessive modesty is a thankless expression. Meeting someone who doesn’t know you will be regarded as hypocrisy.
Only by being yourself can you get real rewards in life.
09
clearly did not make a mistake, and reflection was useless.
——"The Courage of Not Care"
Rational analysis of problems and objectively understanding yourself is one of the manifestations of a person's maturity.
No matter at any time, we should have a clear self-awareness.
For those problems that are not caused by their own mistakes, we should not bear too much the result.
Careful reflection can allow yourself to grow from the inside; ineffective reflection will only increase your psychological burden.
We should all have a courage to care about. It is a sense of blunt force that allows us to digest sensitive nerves and relax our minds.
Correct learning methods and sober life cognition can cure confusion and lead us out of misunderstandings.
The right direction is more important than hard work. Sometimes, when you are tired of walking in your life, you can stop and listen to the true voice in your heart.
Let go of what you should not care about, and focus on what you should learn. Believe in yourself, you are the best!
