The traditional concept of a good match has been passed down to this day. It is the experience learned from predecessors and has been learned from blood and tears. We have installed street lights in the dim front so that we can walk better on the road of life and avoid detours.
But for these old reasons, we must look at them with dialectical thoughts and cannot blindly criticize or disobey. So, is it necessary to be unhappy for a marriage that is not a good match?
Marriage is not a joke, it is related to your happiness in the second half of your life and requires consideration from multiple factors. Marriage is not just a union of two people, but also a union of two families. Ma Dong The union of his wife is indispensable to the help of his parents, and the harmonious development of his marriage is also indispensable to the understanding of his parents.
Work hard in career and serious husband
Ma Dong was born in a literary and artistic family with a superior background. His father and mother are talented men and beautiful women with strong professional abilities and enjoy a high reputation in the literary and artistic circles. Even though he was born in a literary and artistic family, Ma Dong took a completely different path from his parents because of his father's wishes and started learning computers. In order to cultivate him, the family spent all their money and sent him abroad, and he also lived a difficult life without eating.
Since childhood, he has no worries about food and clothing. With his family conditions, he relies on part-time jobs to maintain his life, and his independence and stress resistance have been enhanced. After eight years of support abroad, he returned to China.
The parents thought he could do a more relaxed job as they wished, but they didn't expect that by chance, he became a host, continued an indissoluble bond with the literary and artistic circles, and said goodbye to the computer.
is also the job he met his wife Peng Xiaosheng . When the ratings are low and the career is low, Peng Xiaosheng encourages him, gives him advice, and helps him improve. He gradually developed feelings for her, and the two failed to get together smoothly due to family conditions.
Later, it was also because of the advice of Ma Dong’s family that the two were able to be together. But this factor has always been buried in Peng Xiaosheng's heart and tied it in her heart. Due to family gaps many times, I feel inferior and sad because of the environment gap.
Fortunately, Ma Dong took this relationship very seriously and took care of her parents carefully, so she felt relieved. But this knot was so dead that it was buried in her heart.
She collapsed many times and quarreled with Ma Dong, but Ma Dong didn't take it to heart. Finally, Ma Dong made a big decision to discuss with her. She reacted casually, and Ma Dong quickly reacted to his wife's alienation. I attach great importance to wanting to untie my wife's knot, find solutions, and discuss with my mother.
Finally, with their efforts, the wife's knot was untied, and the family was managed better. My husband also worked very hard and welcomed one peak after another in his career. He produced high-profile programs such as " Talk about " and were sought after by everyone.
It is futile to work hard for one person, and two people must work together. Peng Xiaosheng sacrificed a lot for this family and had psychological problems in his heart for a long time.
Ma Dong not only works hard in his career, but also does not reduce his concern in his family. After discovering my wife's psychological problems, I attached great importance to it. Therefore, with the careful management of the two, this unfamiliar marriage became happy. Of course, this marriage is also inseparable from the help of Ma Dong’s parents.
reasonable parents-in-law
As a crosstalk master, Ma Ji , he is easy-going and understands his children. He does not put pressure on Ma Dong, nor does he add his expectations to Ma Dong, but hopes that Ma Dong will live his life easily and ordinary, very reasonable. When Ma Dong chased Peng Xiaosheng, Ma Ji, as his father, made a lot of effort and personally talked to his daughter-in-law.
In order to eliminate the worries of her daughter-in-law, she even went to see her parents, very sincere. His behavior also played a big role, bringing his daughter-in-law into the house.
Ma Dong's mother is also very understanding. After knowing the knot of her daughter-in-law, she was not shocked or confused. It was not deliberately made things difficult for the sake of words, but took it seriously. In order to help her untie her knot, she talked to her specifically.
A young woman, she handed over the right to be the head of her daughter-in-law, so that her daughter-in-law could feel their sincerity and trust in her.This approach completely opened the knot in the daughter-in-law's heart, and the daughter-in-law finally became a family with them from the bottom of her heart.
Peng Xiaosheng not only chose the right husband, but also chose the right husband's family. The family was not in a good match and the road of no return was so she walked out of a different style. If it weren't for such a husband or such a husband's family, he would definitely lose all his money when he took this path. Of course, it cannot be absolutely said that the daughter-in-law chose the right daughter-in-law, or it can be said that the mother-in-law chose the right daughter-in-law.
Gentle and capable daughter-in-law
Peng Xiaosheng appeared at the trough of Ma Dong's career. Thanks to her keen eyes and tried her best to dissuade her. Only then can Ma Dong continue and achieve his current career.
She is beautiful and capable, and is willing to sacrifice her career for her family. She is completely worthy of Ma Dong, but because of the gap in family conditions, she has been inferior for many years. She was very humble and didn't know that she was just a star. If Ma Dong married her, maybe Ma Dong had made a profit.
After she married into the Ma family, she worked hard and took care of the family's daily life and kept the family in an orderly manner. After her father-in-law passed away, she did not fall down during the period when the whole family was in a downturn. Instead, he acted as an emotional pillar and became the strongest one in the family. He kept in mind the mission of taking care of his family and took good care of everyone.
If she weren't there, this family would be shrouded in black air pressure during this period, and everyone would not be able to eat well or have a good rest. Sooner or later, their bodies would not be able to hold on.
She worked hard for this family for many years, suppressed her psychological problems, and occasionally quarreled with Ma Dong, but did not take down her heavy responsibility and left. Finally, Ma Dong and their family did not let her down, discovered her problem and actively solved it. After the solution, she worked harder to this family and took good care of her daughter, husband, and mother-in-law. The daughter is growing up healthily, the husband's career is booming, and the mother-in-law is in good health.
Good wife, Wang Sandai
Ma Dong has a good family environment and has a strong empathy ability, understands his wife's difficulties, is willing to communicate with his parents and solve problems.
Many marriage failures lie in the lack of communication links between husband and mother-in-law, and the conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law accumulate over time. Some marriage cracks also appear in the in-laws' home to make things difficult and difficult to get along with. Both of these situations exist in the Ma Dong family. No wonder they have run such a happy family. Of course, the most important thing is to marry a good wife.
Although this family is managed so well now, the crisis at the beginning still makes people feel scared. The two were unfamiliar with each other, and their marriage was full of crises and they almost split many times. In the end, we overcame difficulties and move towards happiness.
An unfamiliar marriage may not necessarily be unhappy, but it will definitely be full of crises. If the other half of the two are not each other, it will be difficult to persevere in a marriage full of cracks.
So I hope everyone still has to choose the right person and choose the right person with the right match.
