Born as human beings, how should we accept our mediocrity?
When it comes to mediocrity, many people will first think of self-deprecating and ridicule. But a person cannot be without thoughts, self-doubt, and no action. From a psychological point of view, these three factors determine the growth and development of a person after birth. It is difficult to become a qualified person without corresponding ideological preparation. In the book "Mediocrity", the author tells us how to accept mediocrity and how to face our own mediocrity.
01 "Looks very ordinary, but actually extraordinary"
In the journey of life, every life is unique. In our lives, no one has a smooth life. If a person complains about so much unfairness in his destiny and those bad things because of his ordinary life, then he can only live worse and worse. So for an ordinary person, you must correctly understand the ordinary and greatness and not be controlled by the ordinary. We must strive to make ourselves an ordinary individual.
02 People who admit that they are mediocre will not be complacent for their good results
This is a kind of self-comfort. If you admit that you are mediocre, you will have a kind of person who thinks you are the strongest. Before we realized the meaning of hard work, we had already said, "I am the strongest." When we realize that we are mediocre, we will start to keep working hard.
03 Accepting mediocrity does not mean indulging in desires
Although many people are looking forward to having a healthy body, beautiful face, more money and material wealth, etc. But at the same time, we should also know that pursuing happiness is a process that requires wisdom. To live a happy life, we must fundamentally realize that happiness is composed of many factors and influences each other. Therefore, we cannot indulge our desires because we want to obtain or enjoy the satisfaction brought by a certain substance. On the contrary, we should learn more about happiness, read more books about happiness, participate in more healthy exercises, communicate more with our parents, etc. All of these can keep us in our hearts positive and beautiful experiences and feelings inherent in our hearts.
04 There is nothing scary about admitting mediocrity, just like you have confidence in your abilities
When facing your own mediocrity, many people will choose to deny themselves, but this is not scary either. As long as you have enough confidence, you can overcome doubts about your abilities. For example: When you see others showing their abilities in various occasions, don’t think that this person is mediocre. Be vigilant, find out the reasons and improve your shortcomings. Only in this way can we have the courage to face the mediocrity in life and re-examine ourselves. When you find that there are problems in life, the first thing you need to do is not to complain, blame others or deny yourself, but to actively find solutions from an objective standpoint.
05 Summary
People will have many choices in their lives, but they will eventually find their position in their own decisions. What is the ratio of an excellent soul to a poor soul? Is it true that others and society are constantly changing themselves, or that they will find that there is never any eternal truth in the world. Don’t find your own goals or direction in the eyes of others and the path that is best suited to your future growth. You will find that some choices are not that difficult and correct.
