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It is said that every family has a difficult sutra to recite, and this sutra is the sutra of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Anyone who gets married and gets married is very clear that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the most difficult relationship to resolve in the family. No matter whether you favor either party, the other party will be dissatisfied.
If two people who are not related by blood want to maintain a good relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, one must know how to give in and one person can understand and be reasonable. Only in this way can they live in harmony.
The daughter-in-law, who has always ignored her, suddenly gave her 5,000 yuan in filial piety on Aunt Xiao’s 60th birthday. Everyone was making fun of Aunt Xiao for being blessed and her son and daughter-in-law were filial. But only Aunt Xiao felt bitter inside. How could her daughter-in-law be filial to 5,000 yuan, but she used 5,000 yuan to exchange their 300,000 yuan for their pension.
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Aunt Xiao and her wife had only one son. Although the son did not listen to advice after graduation, she married the only daughter in the city, but the old couple still paid money to buy a wedding house and gave their daughter-in-law a bride gift of 100,000 yuan, which made the couple get married successfully.
It’s just that after the son got married, Aunt Xiao and her husband couldn’t stop for a day. The daughter-in-law has high requirements and many, either she dislikes this bad or that is wrong. In addition, the daughter-in-law not only asked her son to pay a salary card, but also asked the old couple to pay their pensions, saying that the old couple would live with them anyway.
For the sake of his son, Aunt Xiao could only agree to subsidize his daughter-in-law for 3,000 yuan per month, which made her calm for a while. But after living in his son's house for more than a year, Aunt Xiao and her husband packed their luggage and went back to their home.
Because she could no longer bear it, her daughter-in-law often found various reasons and excuses to ask for money from their old couple, and if she didn't give it, she would make a fuss with her son. Aunt Xiao simply took her husband back to her hometown to take care of her old age without seeing her. As for the child’s daughter-in-law, Aunt Xiao did not insist.
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After Aunt Xiao returned to her hometown, her son still called from time to time to ask for money. It was either that her daughter-in-law wanted to buy a car and asked her parents to subsidize 50,000 yuan, or that her daughter-in-law disliked her earning less money and had a high pressure on her mortgage, so she asked her parents to help repay the mortgage.
The son asked for money ten times, and Aunt Xiao would give it one or two at most. No matter how many times she would be, she could not bear it herself. It is precisely because of Aunt Xiao's timely stopping the loss that her daughter-in-law was extremely dissatisfied, thinking that her in-laws were stingy and stingy, so she should not expect her to retire in the future.
I thought my daughter-in-law would never interact with me for the rest of my life, but on Aunt Xiao’s 60th birthday, my daughter-in-law, who had always been stingy and stingy, actually gave her 5,000 yuan for the first time. Seeing this 5,000 yuan, relatives and friends even praised their daughter-in-law for being filial, envious of Aunt Xiao for her blessing.
Aunt Xiao did not give her daughter-in-law face in person, but after everyone left, she gave her 5,000 yuan back to her daughter-in-law and asked her to leave it to her grandson. Naturally, the daughter-in-law refused to accept it and forced her back, saying that today is her mother-in-law's birthday, which is her little wish. But she also had a request. They recently fell in love with a school district house and were still missing a down payment of 300,000 yuan. She hoped that her parents-in-law could afford the money.
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I originally thought that my daughter-in-law had discovered conscience and suddenly wanted to respect myself, but now when I heard that my daughter-in-law actually wanted them to pay a down payment of 300,000 yuan, Aunt Xiao's smile suddenly sank.
The daughter-in-law was still urging her. Auntie Dayouxiao refused to agree, so she refused to leave. Aunt Xiao looked at the 5,000 yuan that her daughter-in-law forced her to get, and turned her back to the door again and said: 5,000 yuan was exchanged for 300,000 yuan, but there was no door. abacus was really good at playing, but I don’t want to accompany you. After
, Aunt Xiao closed the door and saw the guests off after 5,000 yuan was stuffed back to her daughter-in-law. The son begged beside him, but Aunt Xiao was not soft-hearted either. It’s not that she is cruel and ruthless, but that she knows very well that once this hole is opened, endless troubles will follow in the future.
The down payment of the house is not enough, so I look for them, but the mortgage cannot be paid, so I look for them again, and my grandson cannot handle the expenses, so I look for them again. Even if their monthly pension is tens of thousands, they cannot meet their son and daughter-in-law's requirement to be more and more arduous.
Seeing that Aunt Xiao was indifferent, her daughter-in-law picked up the money angrily and threw it away directly. Before leaving, the daughter-in-law was still shouting, since you refused to give us 300,000 yuan to buy a house, don’t expect us to retire in the future.
Who is expected to be relied on in the future? Aunt Xiao and her husband have long thought about it. With her daughter-in-law's clamor and selfishness, she dared not count on it. Instead of giving them all the money, it is better to save your own retirement.
Today’s topic:
Do you support Aunt Xiao to save money and support herself?
