Friends who have been in love know that there is an ambiguous period before each relationship begins.
Ambiguous period, the period is long or short, wandering between bitter and sweet, and the heart is always ready to move, like a girl in love with spring, like a spring breeze. When you advance and I retreat, your emotions are mobilized, and the uneasy side is easier to be tamed. likes each other but does not poke the window paper. If you want to get close, you have to control yourself and not get too close. Any coincidence will be interpreted as romance. Some people say that the ambiguous period is the most mysterious period in the relationship between the two genders, full of temptations and beautiful expectations for the unknown. is only half true. is ignoring the ambiguity that is in a moral gray area, which is called irresponsible ambiguity. What is more terrifying than seeing blood with one knife is the chronic poison that penetrates into the body and spreads. For example, abuse of tenderness, and irresponsible ambiguity, empty giving people endless thoughts.
At first, I gave you a lot of sweetness, indulging in the willful sweet emotions I like, and then slowly became sour, and then became more bitter. gives people fatal trauma and sequelae that are extremely lethal from time to time. This kind of blow is called: "I used to think we can really be together."
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The first day of getting to know
He and I met at a friend's party. At that time, I happened to be sitting opposite him. He is a person who is good at chatting and can liven up the atmosphere. Maybe it was his humorous conversation that attracted me, so we had a great time talking.
After the party, he took the initiative to send me home, and we added friends to each other. But at that time, I didn't realize how fast he would invade my life.
2
A week of getting to know me
Since he added WeChat, he has taken the initiative to chat with me every day.
From talking about three meals a day to hobbies, from talking about complaining about work to future planning, it seems that there are always endless topics to talk about.
He speaks humorously, gentle and not greasy, and can catch every meme I throw.
Sometimes, when you can't sleep, the first thing you think of is him.
Call him in the middle of the night, and he would answer me in time and tell stories to coax me to sleep.
3
Know me for a month
this month, I feel that my relationship with him has quietly changed.
He is both gentle and considerate to me, and he is so good that he is. He not only often prepares me all kinds of small surprises and small gifts.
and the dual quotient is extremely high, which is invisible.
His hands would occasionally fall on my shoulders and would call my name intimately.
In my eyes, this kind of way of getting along is undoubtedly only found among couples.
His doting attitude made me feel like I was in love with him.
I have to admit that I may have been moved.
04 Know me for a month
I am used to his way of speaking, his routine, and when he will reply to me with another expression after I say good night at 11:30. I began to look forward to the future, looking forward to his confession to me, and looking forward to his feelings like me.
However, he has not so frequently asked me recently as soon as before. Every time I take the initiative to look for him, he only has a few words left. 's unpainful and coldness made me not even know how to define this relationship. I was a little panicked.
5 The third month of getting to know
One day after three months. The moment I learned that he had a girlfriend, my heart was empty.
I have thought countless times that would happen between me and him, but the heroine was replaced by someone else.
He sells the possibility of love to me, like a promise that needs no fulfillment. I thought everything was right between us, and there was only one confession.
But, in the end, this is just a one-man show that is self-inflicted.
Like him is the bravest thing I have ever done and the saddest thing I have ever done.
06 Completely delete
Everyone says that the world is a circle, but most of the things in this world are not perfect enough.
There are always some stories, and before I could start, they were written as the past.
I regard you as the only one in my heart, but you regard me as an optional entertainment.
Since I came to you with love, you gently turned your head away. Then I will stop and turn around in time and change direction. Although I still like you very much, I want to tell you now: I don’t want to have anything to do with you anymore. any.
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Readers often ask me: A person often chats with you, does that mean he likes you? I believe many people have such questions. You thought he came with love, but you never thought that he was just going to appear for a while. When the initial enthusiasm becomes indifferent, and the initial frequent chat becomes a simple word "um", are you still wondering if you are not doing well enough? Lin Xi has a lyrics: Tea becomes sour before it is drunk, and it has never been in love with you. The way I interpret is an ambiguous relationship that ends without success, giving people happiness. The frivolous ambiguity induced by hormones in real life also ends with heartbreak. There is a very good passage on Weibo . It is given to those who like ambiguous things at the end - If you don’t like someone, don’t make her laugh, don’t tell her your story, don’t call her name loudly, don’t tell her what you think of our relationship, don’t ask her about the songs and movies she likes, don’t get too close to her, don’t send her home, don’t trick her.
If you can't give her the final ending, don't give her any illusion. One very tormenting thing in love is that you can’t stop thinking, you are unwilling to give up, and you don’t know what will happen next.
So. If you don’t really like someone, won’t be responsible, don’t start. is eliminated as soon as possible without an ending. After all. is the most disgusting, but it's a waste of one's waiting. is the most hateful, but it lets down a person's affection.
