"The happiest thing in the world is to love yourself in the field you like and are good at." This sounds stupid, but it is very realistic. There is a saying that goes: "Loving yourself is instinct, loving others is instinct..." There are always some people in this world who are not good in the eyes of others. But you are much better in your heart, and they are all proud of you. You have a group of friends who love you like this, and they prove that you are you with their actions.
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In life, we always want to regard others as better than ourselves and feel that we are useless. In fact, these people are just full of doubts about their abilities. However, you cannot turn a blind eye to yourself just because you don’t like others. Only when your abilities are strong enough can you love others better. Even if you look humble, you have the ability that others envy. This makes you feel a little more confident.
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The book "Love Yourself" says: "I love myself, but I am a lonely person because I want to spend my life with my family, friends, lovers and children; I don't know what I want, but I hope my life is better." Many times, we will start to "waste our years" when we live a good life and miss the best time in our lives.
For example, "I" is prone to getting sick without taking good care of myself; I lost my beloved. So love yourself well, you can make yourself better and others appreciate you more. My friend Su Zi once told a story: After moving, she found a very small factory to live in. Because the boss has always treated her well, she has developed a good working habit. She likes the working environment in the factory very much, so after moving to the new company, she quickly adapted to the living environment there.
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Life is not satisfactory, it means spending it in entanglement. If you take everything lightly, everything doesn’t matter. Are you worried about anything? What are you struggling with? Don't you know? In fact, life is like this. No one is perfect. Everything about you is your own shadow. People are always contradictory and entangled when they live.
