I have been thinking: What exactly hinders a person's development? At the beginning, I kept looking for reasons from the outside world, but found that the external reasons were all appearances. So, I began to seek internal pursuits, exploring my original family, growth environment and experience, and my own personality. What I realized was still very limited. Until I saw a passage that Maugham once said, it made me feel enlightened. He said: "When a person uses a certain visible and tangible prospect to replace his imagination of the future, then all the issues of his life will be left to grow old." Yes! Many times, what restricts us is not necessarily external obstacles, but "seeing" our own destiny too early.
I once read a story about fortune telling in an article: Two farmers found an old local fortune teller fortune teller fortune telling. The old man said to the first person: In the next few years, you will have a good harvest every year. He told the second person: Your field will be washed away by the flood next year. As for what else can you do without farming, the old man is vague. After returning home, the first farmer went to the field to work happily, and the other farmer had to leave the village and make another way to make a living. After years of hard work, the second farmer became a wealthy businessman who bought and sold silk. The first farmer is still farming. Although the harvest is good every year, his savings can only support the most basic life.
In fact, we are like these two farmers who are asking for fortune telling for husbands. They can survive in different choices, which is enough to show that they are not capable enough. What really determines their material gap is the known fate, that is, the different choices made, and partly this choice is self-seeking, and partly the source of effective information!
Our life is originally in a state of superposition of many possibilities. When people see a certain result, the life of this "destiny body" collapses.
Cao Cao once said that he resigned from office in his early years and went home. He wanted to "study in autumn and summer, hunt in winter and spring" to end his life.
Later, the court recruited him, and he bid farewell to a stable life and discovered in the troubled times that he could achieve something.
Guo Degang also sighed after becoming famous: "When I first came to Beijing, I just wanted to be a dog to watch the door."
Because he ran into a wall everywhere, he had to find a way to the crosstalk stage in a confused state.
It is not difficult to find from their deeds that what determines their ultimate success is not actually known, but accidental unknowns in this environment. When a person sees the picture of spending the rest of his life in peace, he will lose the motivation to continue exploring. Only an uncertain life can stimulate potential.
Remember Bi Shumin once said: "I never let someone tell me fortunes, it's not a question of whether I am superstitious or not. I just don't like someone telling me, look, that's your end! I think that as long as I'm willing to move forward, life shouldn't have an end." People are always easily limited by the current cognition and environment, and have limitations in their judgment of future life. To treat a certain result too early as a destiny, it will only miss a better arrangement of fate.
There is a saying in "The Way of Heaven": "The person who carries the burden believes that the emperor's life is to carry the burden with a golden shoulder pole." The people and things a person comes into contact with often determine what kind of cognition a person uses to look at the world. What we need to do is to be vigilant about what we know and contact more unknowns in order to find our own life path.
Entrepreneur Wu Xiaobo said: "In an era full of uncertainty, determining itself is the biggest risk." When we cannot see where the road is, it also means that we can walk out a path in every direction. As long as we do not set limits for ourselves, we can always gain a new way out. As long as the gift box of fate has not been opened, there will always be greater surprises inside. Although the efforts we put in today will not change immediately, they will quietly reshape your pattern and broaden our life boundaries.
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