Getting married is not a trivial matter. Anyone gets married only after considering the situation of comprehensiveness.
In this process, it is not only necessary to look at the meaning of both men and women, but to be in love and cherish each other, so that this fate can be matched.
It also depends on the decisions of the mother-in-law and her in-laws. After all, many things are not considered when the child gets married. As an elder in the family, it is normal to help check.
As long as the newlyweds agree and the elderly are satisfied, there will be no problem with this marriage.
Recently, a couple in Jiangsu got married. This was originally a very happy thing. Often, netizens would send their blessings very happily when they saw this kind of news.
However, this time, after seeing the video, netizens were not calm. Although everyone sent their blessings, there were many doubts among them.
What to ask?
The fundamental reason why netizens are like this is that they see the bride, because everyone found that the bride was sitting in a wheelchair at the wedding.
Judging from the video content, in order to welcome the wedding, the groom's house arranged the scene early, with bright red decorations, everyone was in a joyful mood, and the scene was filled with a festive atmosphere.
When the wedding car was about to arrive, the in-laws stood at the door early and waited for the wedding car to arrive.
However, sharp-eyed netizens discovered something wrong, that is, there was a wheelchair in front of my mother-in-law. At this time, who is the wheelchair for? Yes, this wheelchair is for brides.
After a while, the wedding car arrived. The mother-in-law, who had been waiting for a long time, quickly pushed the wheelchair to the next to the wedding car. The door opened, but the bride couldn't sit. At this time, the groom carried the bride out of the car.
According to general custom, the groom will carry the bride to the red carpet. After all, according to custom, the bride's feet cannot touch the ground before the church.
But at this time, the groom directly hugged the bride and put the bride in the wheelchair. It turned out that the wheelchair was really prepared for the bride. But why should the bride take a wheelchair? Is there any defect in the body?
Indeed, on the wedding day, wheelchairs are indeed not festive, and they would not appear in such occasions unless necessary.
According to insiders, the reason for using a wheelchair is that the bride has problems with her legs and cannot walk, so she uses a wheelchair.
However, seeing the mother-in-law and groom are still happy, they don’t seem to be unhappy because of this situation. Being able to get to this point is basically because the in-laws’ family has already recognized this situation and accepted the bride’s flaws, so they don’t care so much.
And it looks like the bride is still very beautiful. Some netizens said that God closes a door for you and will open a window for you.
is just reality is very cruel. If there is no special reason, under normal circumstances, it is unlikely to marry a person with a disability if you believe in a normal person.
Some netizens pointed out bluntly that if their son married someone with such a disability, they would not agree, even if the bride was beautiful, they would not agree. After all, beautiful is beautiful, but once you enter the house, you have to take care of it for the rest of your life. How many mother-in-law are willing to accept this situation?
However, some netizens said that there is actually a special reason why the bride and groom can become a couple. An insider revealed that although the bride's legs are not good, the groom also has defects, and it is said that there are some problems with ear hearing.
In this way, both of them have some physical defects, so they can finally get together.
But then again, there is a problem with the man's ear. Although this problem is also a defect, it is not a big defect. More importantly, the defect of the ear does not affect life or actions, except for the ears, it is the same as a normal person.
However, the bride has a problem with her legs and she has to rely on a wheelchair to enter and exit. This is a big problem. This means that someone should take care of the bride at all times, otherwise the bride will not be able to take full care of herself.
So, many netizens think that this situation is unacceptable to them.
The author believes that it is understandable that netizens have this idea. After all, couples have to live together for decades. Especially when the elderly at home get older, they need their son and daughter-in-law to take care of their family.
For ordinary people, it is likely that their son works more and their daughter-in-law takes care of the elderly at home. In this case of the bride, it would be good if she could take good care of herself, and it would be difficult to take care of the elderly again. Although now is just the beginning of marriage, these problems will inevitably be faced in the future.
So, based on the actual situation, netizens agree that it is better to rather be a bride than look that good-looking than to find a good-handed daughter-in-law.
However, as the saying goes, everyone has their own destiny and their own aspirations. Although it is not common, there are still many cases when normal people marry women with disabilities. As long as the parties are willing and live a good life in the future, then it will be a happy marriage.
Even though I am disabled, I also have the right to pursue a happy marriage and should also receive everyone's blessings. I hope that the bride can live a happy and happy life with her family after she arrives at her in-laws’ house.
Nowadays, medical technology is very developed and its future development will be faster. Maybe, through technical treatment and support in the future, the bride may be able to stand up again!
