Writer Martin 's passage: "Every powerful person has gritted his teeth and spent a period of time when no one helps, no one supports, no one cares about his well-being.
If you feel very painful now, it is because you still have a long way to go. No one understands and no one cares.
Every successful person has been like this before coming over, flowers and applause are only left to those who run to the finish line.
Writer Franklin said: "I have never seen a hardworking, self-reflective and cautious person complaining about bad fate. ”
complaining cannot solve any problem. It is useless to waste time and vent your dissatisfaction.
instead of spending so much time complaining, it is better to calm down and do something meaningful.
Zhou Guoping wrote in "Life Don't Compete": "People cannot control their own destiny, but they can control their attitude towards destiny and calmly endure the inevitable encounters that fall on themselves. "
Many things happen, it is impossible to change again. The reason why we are in pain is because we cannot accept it. I hope that that thing has never happened.
So we are very entangled and painful. Why do unfortunate things happen to us? Learn to let go, not just let others go, but let yourself go, and give yourself a chance to make a new choice.
" Island Bookstore " has this passage: "Everyone's life has the most painful years, which makes life beautiful and vast. ”
Everyone’s life has a low point, and every low point is a new starting point. As long as you face it with a positive and optimistic attitude, everything has the possibility of getting better.
has heard this sentence: “I learned a lot in my life before. If life has been smooth, I will never know how big my heart is and how many things I can deal with. And now, I have a rich life. "
A person cannot go too smoothly in the first half of his life. If he goes too smoothly, he will not be able to withstand setbacks, and cannot withstand pressure.
A person who has experienced strong storms will not be beaten casually no matter how heavy the wind and rain is, because his ability to resist setbacks and stress is already very strong.
So it is not a bad thing for a person to experience some things in his life, especially when you were still young.
A person with a strong heart is often meaninglessly lonely, willing to be lonely, and good at cultivating himself while being alone.
Carnegie wrote in the book "Being a strong heart":
"Only a strong heart can truly be fearless. Only when we are strong inside can we stay calm and remain calm in our lives.
likes this sentence very much: "Inner strength is more important than anything else. You must take good care of yourself and admit your ordinaryness, but work hard to develop in a good direction. You can be confused and please don't waste it."
A person's changes are sometimes just for a moment, and that sentence touches your heart, and the person who can enter your heart.
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I hope to be someone who can find it when you need it and never disturb you when you don’t need it.
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